Endorsements
You on Purpose is a sound book of wisdom for those searching for their lifes calling and steps to walk it out. It doesnt matter what life season youre in when you pick up this book, it will change you and the path youre on for the better!
Lysa TerKeurst , #1 New York Times bestselling author and president of Proverbs 31 Ministries
For years, people have come to me and asked me for advice on what job to take, what career to pursue, and what vocation to embrace. Finally, I have a practical book I can hand them with confidence. Stephanie Shackelford and Bill Denzel have done a fantastic job outlining a clear, faithful decision-making framework that will help a generation get out of career paralysis and the angst that comes with not knowing what to do with your life.
Carey Nieuwhof , author, speaker, podcaster
You on Purpose is a simple, practical guide to helping you discover your God-given calling and gifts. This book enables you to redefine what you want your life to be about to help you live a purposeful life.
Rebekah Lyons , bestselling author of Rhythms of Renewal and You Are Free
Working in a university setting, it is common to find students who are uncertain of their career path or vocation. Shackelford and Denzel have written an ideal text that faith-based colleges and universities can adopt for their first-year seminars, career centers, mentor programs, and senior capstones to help students identify their true calling. Packed with insightful research, thoughtful journaling exercises, and relevant examples, this practical resource invites readers on a self-discovery process that ultimately leads to a better understanding of how their passions and context inform their purpose.
Stella Erbes , PhD, divisional dean and associate professor of teacher education, Pepperdine University
Purpose is life-changing. It provides the clarity, focus, and inspiration we all need to live out our intended design. You on Purpose provides insightful research, helpful framing, and serves as a practical guide for anyone seeking to live out their calling.
Charles Lee , CEO at Ideation and author of Good Idea. Now What?
Half Title Page
Title Page
Copyright Page
Text 2021 by William Denzel and Stephanie Shackelford
Research 2021 by Barna Group
Published by Baker Books
a division of Baker Publishing Group
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Dedication
For John, Grant, and Macy
you bring tremendous purpose to my life.
And for Mom and Dad
you taught me that the best place to be is where God calls you.
S.S.
For my mother and father, Marina and Emil, bold adventurers who traveled to new lands to see their dreams come true
thank you for everything.
And for Amorisa, Zion, and XuXu
I cant wait to see your callings unfold as we
journey through life together.
B.D.
Epigraph
We must set out to discover what we are called to do and what we are made for, and then after we discover it, we should set out to do it with all of the strength and all of the power that we have in our system. When you discover your lifes worth, set out to do it so well that the living, the dead, or the unborn couldnt do it better. And no matter what it is, never consider it insignificant because if it is for the upbuilding of humanity it has cosmic significance. And so if it falls your lot to be a street sweeper, sweep streets like Rafael painted pictures. Sweep streets like Michelangelo carved marble. Sweep streets like Beethoven composed music. Sweep streets like Shakespeare wrote poetry. Sweep streets so well that all the hosts of heaven and earth will have to pause and say, Here lived a great street sweeper who swept his job well.
DR. MARTIN LUTHER KING JR.
Contents
Endorsements
Half Title Page
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Epigraph
Foreword by David Kinnaman
1. You on Purpose
A New Way of Thinking about Your Calling
Part 1: Define
2. Getting Started When You Feel Stuck
Assessing Your Situation
3. The Pursuit of Happiness?
Rightly Defining Your Lifes Objectives
Part 1 Field Notes: Define
Part 2: Discover
4. You Be You
A Deeper Understanding of Yourself
5. Pain Points
Finding Your Path through Disappointment and Suffering
6. Placed on Purpose
Understanding Your Context
Understanding Your Times
Part 2 Field Notes: Discover
Part 3: Decide
8. Think Inside the Box
The Crisis of Overchoice and Why Constraints Will Help You
9. The Lie of DIY
How Community Can Add Clarity
10. Freedom of Choice
Relieving the Pressure to Decide
Part 3 Field Notes: Decide
Part 4: Do
11. Just Do Something
Practical Steps to Get You Started
12. Picking a Path
Why Commitment Is Key
Part 4 Field Notes: Do
Conclusion: Finding Your Way Forward
Acknowledgments
About the Research
Notes
About the Authors
Back Ads
Cover Flaps
Back Cover
Foreword
What should I do with my life?
How do I discover my true calling?
What should I do next?
What is my purpose?
Lifes Big Questions, such as these, often rattle around the human brain. Everyone asks them. When you do, it means youre alive and connecting the dots between your present and your future. And, if youre anything like me, wrestling with these matters doesnt necessarily go away by settling into a good job or even by growing older. Ive found that existential questions form in my mind like puddles after a soaking rain.
Just as storm clouds gather, life throws us into vexing seasons of discernment and decision-making, often fueled by doubt, disillusionment, disappointment, or just plain drudgery. When this happens, we must set off to wander and wonder what we are here on earth for. We seek direction. Im guessing you picked up this book at a time in your life when you are contemplating deep questions about whats next.
These seasons of life may heat up or cool off, but they never completely go away. Whether youre just beginning to ponder your life ahead, in the middle of your working years, or considering the final season of life, everyone wants to live on purpose .
Thats what this wonderful book, You on Purpose , is all abouthelping you to answer these kinds of tough questions about the future youre stepping into.