Ralph K Jenkins - Sensitelligent - a guide to Life

I do not believe you; this is too incredible to be true. Prove it to me!

There is no proof going into the future. I know that you would like to have proof and guarantees that everything will work out, but there is no proof. Our feelings provide guidance on the way forward. I do not need, and will not be given any proof. The signposts are there along the way because I have a clear and open mind. I do not fear the unknown and I know that what comes my way is right for me.

But how can you trust when you know that this has never worked? The harder I try to make it work, the harder I fall, and that makes me upset, angry and miserable. This is who I am I am miserable and there is no way that I can ever make it. My friends tell me that I am nice and that I deserve something better, but I suspect that they only tell me that because they pity me. I am a nobody and I might as well stay that way because all efforts only cause me more pain.

You are what you choose to be. I know that you cannot comprehend reality in the same way as I see it. You see it with logical eyes where everything is black and white. Let go of judgement and fear and you will have less pain and worry. You will also invite joy, love and peace. You will never have to fear anything and your life will not have to be controlled. Unexpected and miraculous things will happen and you will be shining!

But that means that the light will be on me. What about all the other people who have more knowledge and experience? Why should I shine and not them?

Now you are again being logical about it. Why would you take the space of someone else? Why can you not shine at the same time as others?

But what would other people think? I do not want to step on anyones toes. Or maybe that is exactly what I should do. Yes I do want to have more space. I know that I am talented, but I have stepped back because there have always been other people who knew more than me. Maybe I should get on the stage and demand that they listen to me. Thats what I will do! Thank you for the advice, I will try that immediately.

Hey, wait a second. I did not say that you should demand more space. I just tried to explain that it is good to always be in your space so that you stay in your power and then, because you always are true to yourself, you are also true to others. The space that you claim does not cause others to have less space. Do not impose your opinion on them. They are free to do as they want and listen if they choose to.

But I want to be in control now. It is time for them to listen to me. I will demand to be heard.

The only thing that you will achieve with that is that they will be angry with you because you impose your opinions on them. Concentrate on drawing the attention of people who are interested in listening to what you have to say. But please make sure that you believe in what you say, and that you do it from your heart. What is the point in having people listen to you if you cannot say it with your heart?

But I am not free to speak from my heart. There are rules and I do not like them.

But why do you stay if you do not like the rules and your circumstances?

I do not have any alternatives.

There are always alternatives.

That is not true. I do not see any options. When there are no options, how can I choose?

There are always options, but you may not see them from where you are, and you may also fear the consequences of the alternatives. You can decide not to be in the situation that you are in, even if you do not know what the alternative is. It is also about how you choose to see your situation and if you accept it or not. Acceptance is the key to change. Accept the situation. Acknowledge that you do not like the situation you are in. Maybe you are stuck because you are afraid of change? Open up and give yourself permission to receive solutions!

You are right, I am afraid of change. I want to be in control of my life!

That probably means that you miss out on many opportunities that you are being provided with; you choose not to see them as you are too afraid to make the change. What is it that you are afraid of? What is there to fear?

Hey, come on, be real. The world is full of things to be afraid of. Have you never heard of unemployment, starvation, war, kidnapping, car crashes, cancer, death. I can make the list longer if you want!

I get your point, but I choose to see the world from a higher dimension. Your fears are as real as you make them and you also attract what you fear. But have you thought that you also attract other things that you focus your mind on. How about a nice, calm walk in nature? Or a warm meeting with a friend? Or maybe a nice day at work with a lot of inspiration? It is all about what you focus your mind on. And yes, maybe you need to be reminded from time to time about the importance of focusing on the positive and accepting negative experiences in life as opportunities for growth. That is what I am constantly doing, but because you continue to take things personally and because you need proof of everything, then you end up seeing it differently.

I guess so, and I do not understand your way of looking at things.

That is because you are in a different level of consciousness and you and I need to cooperate in a better way. You are needed in order to make things happen in a structured way in the physical world. I am of higher consciousness and that is why I can understand you, and why you have difficulties in understanding me. I would like us to make a journey together so that we can cooperate and coexist in harmony with our energies. That is why I have written down the concept of fear and control, where I explain everything that creates blocks and holds us back, and trust and intuition which will help us concentrate on the positive aspects so that we can hold the right focus. I have even included a reference section for more in-depth study of the relevant and related subjects. I explain why you and I are so different and also what happens when we come together and work in harmony.

But if you have written it and you say that I cannot understand things the way you do, how can you expect me to understand this?

It is true that I use the right side of the brain and you use the left, but I have tried really hard to use a language, structure and style that you should be comfortable with. I think you are as interested as I am in having joy, peace and love in life, and the only way to realise these qualities is for us to work together.

Well, I am sceptically interested and I will think about it.

Be Sensitelligent about it instead! To be Sensitelligent is to use both your higher and lower senses in an intelligent way. Lets get started at any page that feels good. Maybe even pick a page randomly. Guidance on the next chapter to read will follow. We might end up reading the whole book or maybe just a few important chapters. It really does not matter. The important thing is to get started!