Alan Roger Currie - MODE ONE: Whisper Into a Woman’s Ear What Is REALLY On Your Mind

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electronic, mechanical, recording or otherwise, without the prior written permission of the author.Dating advice for men: http://www.directapproachdating.comBDSM & Polyamory lifestyle advice for women & couples: http://www.modeone.net/training/Other Books by Author Alan Roger Currie: Mode One: Let the Women Know What Youre REALLY Thinking (2006) Mode One HARDCORE:The Definitive Guide to Having Casual Sex with Women Who Don't Normally Engage in Casual Sex (2007) Upfront and Straightforward: Let the Manipulative Game Players Know What You're REALLY Thinking (2009) Mode One - Semantics & Scenarios: Inside the Mind of the Manipulative Game Player (2010) Oooooh... Say It Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction and Aural Sex (2011) The Possibility of Sex: How Naive and Lustful Men are Manipulated by Women Regularly (2012) The Beta Male Revolution: Why Many Men Have Totally Lost Interest in Marriage in Today's Society (2016)

Alan Roger Currie

Mode One Multimedia, Inc.

Hollywood, CA 90046

coaching@modeone.net

MODE ONE

Whisper Into a Woman's Ear What Is REALLY On Your Mind

ALAN ROGER CURRIE

TABLE OF CONTENTS

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

I have had so many men and women support my Mode One philosophies and principles since October 1990 and beyond, that I could not begin to list each person who has offered me encouragement and support.

My biggest supporter has always been my brother, Stephen C. Currie. He was the first person to suggest I put my Mode One principles on paper as some sort of self-help manual for single heterosexual men all the way back in June 1986. It was not until 1995 that I listened to my brother's advice and documented my philosophies and principles as a 30-page pamphlet titled, The Mode One Principles . Years later, in 1999, I converted the pamphlet into an eBook, and then finally I converted the eBook into a paperback in late February 2006.

Other major supporters of my efforts have been my close friends Jeff Kenton, Cory Pulliman, Ervin V. Pulliam III, Blake F. Scott, Marlon Scott, and Maurice L. Taylor. Much love also to Atty. Kimberly Jean Brown.

Some authors who have influenced me and/or inspired me to one degree or another are: Dr. Brad Blanton, Dr. Susan Campbell, Dr. Stephen R. Covey, Susan Jeffers, and Rom Wills.

Arguably, my most prominent influence and inspiration for 'The Mode One Approach' was the late legendary adult film actor John Leslie . If I had never viewed his performance as the unapologetic womanizer Jack in Anthony Spinellis 1980 porn classic, Talk Dirty to Me , there is a good chance my Mode One philosophies and principles would have never been created and documented.

I offer a salute of respect to all the men and women worldwide who encourage bold truth-telling and highly effective verbal communication skills and interpersonal communication skills with others.

Thank you all for your continued support.

INTRODUCTION

First, a word about self-improvement and personal development books: Most contain more hype and unsubstantiated theories than they do useful information. At least half of the self-help and personal development books I have read left me more confused about what I needed help with, than before I read the book. Realistically, no one self-help book can help you more than you allow it to help you . Ideally, what a good personal development book seeks to do is provoke you to reexamine those thoughts, attitudes, and beliefs that you currently hold on to, that are either directly or indirectly preventing you from achieving your ultimate objectives in life.

The first event in my life that influenced me to eventually write this book happened in summer of 1981. I watched a pornographic film titled Talk Dirty to Me , which was about this man who was a prolific womanizer who had a bold and unique way of seducing beautiful and sexy women. The fictional characters name was Jack, and he was played by this legendary adult film actor by the name of John Leslie(Leslie passed away in December 2010 at the age of 65; God Bless his soul) .

In the film, Jack would seduce women by 1) approaching them, 2) initiating a conversation with them in a very confident, highly self-assured manner, and 3) expressing his sexual desires, interests, and intentions to the women using very provocative, sexually explicit (i.e., XXX-rated) language.

Most of the women in the film would initially have a negative reaction, and they would proceed to harshly criticize Jacks erotically explicit manner of verbal expression. Many of the women would insult him, and a number of the women would behave as if they were offended and insulted by his socially inappropriate behavior and seemingly crass, crude language.

What first caught my eye while watching the film was the fact that Jack would always remain very cool, calm, collected, and confident in the face of these seemingly negative reactions by the women. Jack would never become apologetic, argumentative, defensive, emotionally sensitive, or antagonistic with the women. He would just take all their criticisms and insults in stride, and continue to let the women know that he wanted to engage in kinky sex with them in the very near future.

My brother and another friend of ours named Marlon were watching the film with me at the time, and both warned me not to take what was happening in the film too seriously. My brother, Stephen, said at the time, This is a movie. It is in the script for those women to respond to Jack in a favorable manner in the long-run. In real life, a man would get slapped on the face or have a drink thrown in his face for talking to women using all that very explicit, XXX-rated language with them.

Fast forward to approximately three years later. Fortunately for me, I was a bit stubborn in terms of adhering to my older brothers advice. After having a few conversations with some female friends on my college campus (I attended and graduated from Indiana University in Bloomington, IN), my thinking about women began to change.

These women whom I was friends with informed me that they were very frustrated by many of the men on campus for being guilty constantly lying to them and misleading them into believing that they were interested in maintaining a long-term monogamous sexual relationship with them, when in reality, these men were really only interested in engaging in a few episodes of short-term and/or non-monogamous casual sex with those same women.

One woman I knew at the time said, Alan why are men so dishonest with women about their desire for casual (non-relationship) sex? Men should just be straightforward with women when they are not interested in a serious (long-term) romantic relationship. I hate men who are liars and I hate men who play head games with women.

This is when I began to reflect on that adult film I had watched, Talk Dirty to Me . I thought about the fictional character in the movie named Jack. In the movie, Jack never felt the need to lie to women or mislead women about his true sexual desires, interests, and intentions. Jack would verbally communicate his sexual desires and interests to women in a smooth, seductive, highly self-assured, upfront, specific and straightforwardly honest manner each time without hesitation.

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