The Mens Guide to Avoiding Friend Zone with Women: 12 Simple Tips that make a Man more Attractive to Women

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Table of Contents

Introduction

This book is testament to years of learning and research for the main causes of why a man constantly finds himself stuck in the Friend Zone with women. The term Friend Zone, while not the classiest of terms has its uses: Friend Zone describes a man stuck in a permanent friendship with a woman; in other words, no matter what a guy does she wont ever see him as attractive or as a potential love interest. What most men dont realize initially is that men can decrease the chances of themselves being placed into the unattractive male friend category, they just need to know what to do and how to go about it.

You have probably heard a woman tell you lets just be friends or youre just too nice for me when it came to rejection or being dumped by a woman you like romantically, these are classic responses when a woman doesnt feel attraction and is trying to let him down easy. If this has happened to you many times before then its important to realize there is a good reason for why this is happening to you and to make sure you are no longer just that guy friend to women.

As a man you have the power to decrease the amount of times you end up in friend zone, the truth is most times women dont put you in the friend zone, it is in fact the men putting themselves into the friend zone. When a man thinks its the woman always putting him into friend zone that implies women hold all the power and that the man is powerless to change or improve his results, this is false because a man can increase his attractiveness.

This book aims to maximize your attractiveness to women so that you will avoid the Friend Zone in the future, this book will give you a kick-start to your success with women & dating. Once a man realizes he is part of the issue for not attracting women he will better be able to cultivate positive change in himself and his life by seeking self-development as his ally.

If you start to apply all the tips and advice in this book (of which will seem counter intuitive) you will eventually notice women start to show more interest in you romantically and even pursue you more often, which is always a sign that youre doing something right. Once you internalize all that is written within this book you will begin to notice your attitude and behaviours change in day to day life to that of an attractive man as reflected by an improvement in your results.

Also remember that sometimes a man may never be anything more than friends (friend zone) for other reasons, even if you do follow all the tips here a certain woman in your life may still not find you attractive enough to date you. This is simply out of your control. It is also not impossible to have a woman reject you only to find you attractive at a later date.

Results may not come quickly so remember to be patient when it comes to your own success; this is not a sprint but a marathon. With that said you need to go out there believing that what your about to learn is going to make almost all the women you meet turn their heads and start checking you out, after all you are about to become a stud

1) Treat attractive women just as you would treat your friends

When men start out as beginners in the dating world they have countless problem around attractive beautiful women, one thing being that they cant quite keep their composure or be their normal selves. After all, its hard to keep normal when an attractive beautiful looking woman is in your vicinity: you want her badly, you dont know what to do to get her or quite simply you dont want to make a mistake around her in case it costs you your chance with her. At the end of it all, if you can learn not to give a damn about what women think of you or not worry about missing out on a woman because of any mistakes, then you will be in a better position to realize there is an abundance of women out there for you to potentially date.

Think about how you behave around women you dont find attractive. Now think about how you behave around women you have absolutely no interest in. Generally, you treat these women almost like your guy friends or family members. If these women arent on a mans radar then they wont treat them with the extra niceness they would to women they ARE attracted to. This is an awareness exercise, whether these men are consciously aware of it or not most guys new to dating instantly become super interested or needy when an attractive woman appears in his life, his feelings can work against him.

This leads to a man seeing THESE attractive women as being more valuable than himself, the best analogy here is to think of a guy who wants to please his queen, spoil his princess or impress his mummy. The main problem with guys in this position is that they become TOO NICE in the presence of a woman that they do like, there is a difference between being nice and being too nice. Many guys have grown up with this premise that being super nice to women is what will help them get a girlfriend; its easy to think that getting a girlfriend is as simple as being a nice guy but even if someone tells you that you are a nice guy it doesnt necessarily mean you are attractive to women.

Anytime a guy goes to his sister, his mum or his aunt for advice on women they may typically give an answer such as to get a girlfriend you have to be a nice guy, the beginners first inclination is to go impress women with his niceness, some men naturally do this even without the above advice. Every man wants to present his best self around a woman, men do this so she will like him, accept him and go on a date with him. He badly wants the woman to perceive him as good enough to date. The problem with this mindset, however, is that it comes from a place of trying too hard; the woman can sense his neediness and his need to get a date with her.

When guys start acting different around attractive women by being too nice they start to give what I call Boyfriend Benefits. These men ACT like a womans boyfriend without actually being her boyfriend, that means a guy will do all the NICE stuff like holding the door open for every pretty woman he sees, paying for a womans lunch since he feels obligated to, he is always making sure she is on good terms with him, trying to solve her problems for her, gifting and giving her money all the time, getting extremely possessive and jealous when she talks to other guys and much more.

You see when women say he is too nice for me what she is really trying to say is this guy is treating me nicer than his friends, he treats me like a queen and it turns me off, I dont deserve to be treated as a superior. The problem isnt being nice but being too nice, the difference can be seen by how much a guy goes out of his way to constantly impress a woman or spoil her, guys that are too nice are those that give too much and dont have or demand respect for themselves.

Most of this nice guy behaviour is happening unconsciously, many men arent even aware they are doing these things towards attractive women, most of it happens because of his nervousness or his feeling of inferiority, he wants to avoid displeasing her. Many men can often relate to this thinking because when a woman is extremely attractive he feels he owes her and has to win her over in this manner when in truth he doesnt need to. Its important for a man to notice when he does these things and then admit to himself he is doing it so he can get the balance of niceness right without over doing it and becoming submissive. Then he can stop treating a woman as being more valuable or more superior to himself and play on an equal playing field (remember the treating her like a queen analogy?).