Tantric Massage for Love.
A new level of awareness of sex, love and health.
The Best Guide to Achieve Harmony between the Partners
Table of Contents
Chapter 1 - Myths and Reality of Tantric Massage
Nowadays, in the community there are a mass of myths about Tantra doctrine. Many people think that it is free lovemaking or confuse it with the other eastern doctrines - Kama Sutra, one goes further and imagines swingers, or meditating monks.
In fact, classical Tantra is inextricably linked with yoga. The word Tantra Yoga roughly translates as "a means of developing and opening themselves through male and female relationships." Yes, Tantra techniques really exist.
Sexual energy is the main technique and one of the strongest human vitality. It is the energy of birth and creation, both at the individual level and on a cosmic scale. It is responsible for the birth and development of the individual and at the same time is the basis of existence.
At tantric lessons is learned not only to understand and control our body, emotions and sensations, but also to feel the partner, to understand and to see the world from a position of tantric philosophy.
If a person begins to learn Tantra by himself, he can easily lose control, thats why youll need an experienced teacher to help you. Tantra task in this case is to provide you with the guide. But you should decide for yourself.
Myth 1: Tantra - Modern Sexual Yoga
Tantra appeared many years ago in the Indian Dravidians, before the arrival of the Aryans in the peninsula. It had the same attitude to the sex as the first kiss - to the rape. Traditional Tantra has focused on the yoga postures - asanas, breath control and meditation. Any harmonization of a couples sexual life was out of the question - the sexual act accomplished by two yogis was extremely rare, occurred in unimaginable positions and its aim was more to exchange the energy, rather than to get pleasure.
Later, Tibetan Buddhists had slightly displaced these principles in the direction of studying the physiological features of the body. The real revolution in tantra occurred in the "golden sixties" on the West, when yoga became popular, organically united with the sexual revolution. Then the concept of "neotantra", which included primarily an erotic massage from under the sauce of meditation, breathing exercises, stretching and concentration on the partner, appeared.
Myth 2: Tantra is a Group Sex
In classical Indian Tantra, the sexual act is excluded. In Tibetan tantra, sexual intercourse takes place strictly between the two partners. And even if
they are surrounded by the other pairs, in fact it should not move into group sex. However in neotantra these barriers are swept away and everything is possible. If you want you can do it.a
Myth 3: Tantra - this is Satanism
One of the main principles of tantra is that nothing in the world is divided into "good" or "bad." Its just "exist". It is impossible to say, for example, that a woman is "good", and a man is "bad". Or vice versa and all things in the world have the front and back sides, and none of them can be positive or negative.
This tantra postulate, together with group sexual practices of neotantra, meditation in cemeteries, cult of ancient Indian goddess of destruction Kali and Lord Shiva, also doesnt have any Christian peacemaking character. All those provoked accusations for Tantra lovers (Tantrikas as they are called) to "Satanism". In fact, Tantra has nothing of that. As usual, real Tantra lovers are like children and they have come to the conclusion that they do not know, "what is good and what is bad."
Fact 1. Tantra Improves Partners Sexual Life
Tantric practices require absolute concentration on the partner, meditation and actions made with him (this can be a massage, or other recurring movements). The most popular sexual technique, developed on the basis of tantra, is called the "Carezza" (in Italian it means "the gentle touch").
Carezza at one time was considered an "elderly people sex technique" and suggested that the focus of sexual intercourse should not be sex itself, but endearments and attention to the partner. Carezza now is practiced by the elderly and the young people. In reality, behind this name is a slow sexual act and every minute of the sexual act is realized by partners (there is no "forgotten in the whirlwind of passion," as in normal sex).
All sexual action takes place with the eyes open. Both partners carefully watch the reaction of each other while looking into one anothers eyes. Experts say that if making love in such way orgasm is prolonged for both and the quality of orgasm is completely different.
Fact 2. Tantra Can Be Practiced Alone
Few people want to undress in wacky gyms among unfamiliar men and women to demonstrate that their "chakras" have opened and "kundalini" awaken, even if nothing of the sort happens.
In Tantra Yoga, including its sexual aspect, it is possible to practice at home, alone. Before you practice Tantra Yoga at home along, it would be nice to go through the appropriate physical and psychological training, including muscle stretching, breathing exercises and basic theoretical course.
Do it best under the guidance of a good teacher in a yoga center. The main thing when choosing a teacher - it's your feelings with your partner. If one of the partners suddenly finds something that seems vulgar, rude, or just do not like it - do not force yourself to stay, it will be no good, just go away immediately. Another opinion would be found and learnt in books.
Fact 3. Tantra Prolongs Sexual Intercourse
Fast ejaculation occurs only in those men who think in a bed only about themselves. Usually when men are trying to prolong sexual intercourse, they start thinking about everything but sex. They think about football, politics, or the date of their mother-in-laws death or work. Physically, of course, it can prolong the sexual act itself, but on the energy level there is devastation. The real Tantrists act of love is cheerful, and no snoring takes place in it.
So, sexual act is prolonged due to the concentration on the partner, observing his reactions and removal from himself. You should be focused just on your partner. Of course, it is difficult to explain, but you can give the partner to read this article, together with a book on tantric sex.
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