Tantric Massage For Beginners
Discover The Best Essential Tantric Massage- and Tantric Love Making Techniques
R. Riley
3rd Edition
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Table of Contents
Introduction
Tantric sex is a practice that has been around for a very long time, but its finally making its way into Western culture. It was first introduced by sex therapists who wanted to help their patients grow closer together after a long period of not being intimate, and has long since been incorporated into many bedrooms across the nation. This new method of having sex focuses on both partners emotional, physical, and mental arousal during sex. In Western culture, physical arousal is about the only thing focused upon, which can lead to a very dry, boring experience for the female partner, and sometimes the male partner, too.
Tantric sex has been proven to help partners increase their desire for sex and their desire for one another. It is able to bring partners closer together both in the bedroom and outside of it. Mental connection between partners is just as important as emotional and physical connections during intercourse.
So if youre looking for a way to increase your enjoyment during sexual intercourse and when youre spending free time with your partner, take a look at this book to see if it can help you!
Chapter 1: What is Tantric Sex
Tantric sex is a practice that has been happening for over 6,000 years in India. Eastern cultures adopted it due to the overwhelming amount of religions stating that sexuality was something to be rejected in order to reach enlightenment. This practice challenged the beliefs of the time and preached that sexuality was, in fact, a doorway to the divine and earthly desires such as eating, creative expression, and dancing were all sacred acts.
The word tantra translates to to manifest, to show, to weave, and to expand. In the context of tantric sex, the word stands for sex expanding the consciousness and weaving together the polarities of the male and female bodies and minds into a harmonious whole.
However, couples do not have to adopt the belief system of tantric sex in order to benefit. The practice simply teaches couples to prolong their acts of making love and to utilize their orgasmic energies in a more effective manner. Tantra is also known as health enhancing.
So how is tantric sex exceptional?
Well, in Western culture, we usually view sex as recreation rather than transformation. The goal of sex is usually to pleasure ourselves rather than our partner, and were almost never focused on connecting with our partners on a deep, emotional level. The Western cultures idea of lovemaking has a beginning and an end with a climax somewhere in between for the woman and a climax at the end for the man. It usually lasts around ten to fifteen minutes, even though a woman can take about twenty minutes to reach full arousal. For women, this type of sex can be deeply unsatisfying.
Tantric sex uses the sexual experience more like a dance where it has no beginning or an end. There isnt any specific goal, only the current moment of having sex. Sex is more like meditation and is very communicative and close. Tantra teaches a couple how to extend their sexual ecstasy peak and allows both men and women to have several orgasms in a single encounter.
Even men who experience premature ejaculation are able to extend their orgasms and even enjoy multiple orgasms with practice! And who doesnt like to practice?
To find out how you can supercharge your sex life and bring intimacy back to the bedroom, read further!
Chapter 2: - Benefits
There are many benefits to having sex, and even more benefits to having tantric sex. However, Western culture rarely sees sex as something that can be benefited from, but rather something that is no more than just a primal nuisance that humans have yet to outgrow. It is debased and degraded in modern society. But this practice has the power to bring two people together on an emotional, spiritual level and lets not forget that it has the power to bring life to this world.
So lets look at some of the benefits of this amazing, beautiful act of two people coming together.
Deeper Connection
Perhaps one of the most talked about benefits of tantric sex is that couples who explore these practices report they have lasting feelings of closeness, and they have the ability to overcome an issue better than they could before. The action of eye contact, syncing their breath, and being more aware of their partner helps them bring the relationship to an entirely different level, inside and outside of the bedroom.
Patience
Part of tantric sex is all about taking it slow. That can mean awkward movements, which most try to avoid at all costs in a dark room with their eyes closed. But by working through the confusion of tantric positions and using meditation to hold back an orgasm, the conscious connection with your partner is able to develop and you are able to develop the imperative skill of patience.
Problem-Solving
The tantric positions are usually rather difficult to figure out, especially for those who are beginners or are learning to prolong the experience without getting to an orgasm. This can require some shifting of positions and trial and error. The need to work together and talk it out in these cases in a less than modest and vulnerable position helps expand the problem-solving skills of both participants.
Creativity
When youre able to let go in one area of your life, your sex life, youre able to let go in other areas of your life, making you more creative. Youre able to picture your goals more clearly because youve practiced goal-oriented sex, which is a pretty tough action on its own.
Selflessness
With tantric sex, youre able to benefit from withholding the orgasm. Tantric sex is beyond procreation and pleasure; it is about the power of liberation, an experience that is compared to getting a glimpse of the cosmic consciousness. Do not become upset if you dont reach this stage right away, especially if your partner seems to be drifting ahead of you. Supporting your out of orgasm launch into the cosmos helps you remember that giving is much better than receiving.
Empowerment
Do not confuse this with power. Empowerment is about stripping away the ego and becoming humble. It is about feeling that you do not have to hide away or be ashamed of what gives you purpose and gives you the ability to express your deepest fears and loves. There is no more hiding under the sheets, but bringing you forward into the future, instead.
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