Bapier - Orgasmic Dirty Talk

Orgasmic Dirty Talk:

How to Talk Dirty & Supercharge Her Orgasms

Copyright 2012 by Sean Bapier

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Dirty talk, along with full body massages and cunnilingus, ranks highly as a female aphrodisiac. A deft tongue properly delivering descriptive lines of eroticism can have a woman gushing with lust. There is a stark difference among men and women when it comes to talking dirty. Womens bodies and minds become flush with torridness. While men enjoy a modest bump in arousal listening to a woman moan and talk dirty. What fingers are to the body, dirty talk is to the mind.

Her whole body throbs in lustful alacrity when you describe the sexual tension of the moment and what you are doing to her (or will do) in vivid detail. Seeing a woman respond to you in that manner is its own reward.

The very act of talking dirty changes the way she feels and experiences sex in her mind. You can verbally lead her to heights of pleasure she had no idea existed. The art of aural sex. Dirty talk is about how you say what you say, why youre saying it, and your tone of voice. When those three sing in harmony

Dirty talking has nearly limitless possibilities.

The Sexual Dichotomy of Women

The sad reality is that many men are uncomfortable using dirty talk and one reason is because they fail to realize a dichotomy that all women possess.

A lot of women have a pure side, and a dirty side. Good girl and Bad girl if you will. Both are fun to express and play with, during sex. Women dont often get to play both with one man, unless he is aware of this dichotomy propagated by society. A lot of women are afraid to initiate sex due to the negative labels associated with female-initiated sexual encounters. In short, this means that shes waiting for you to lead. She will never allow herself to be wilder than you, so you must be sexually assertive.

You want to treat her with respect? Then have respect for the fact that she is highly sexual and wants mind-blowing sex with you. When alone with you, she wants to be dirty. Dirtier than you can imagine, but only with a man she trusts and feels safe around.

You must also demonstrate that you respect her as a person inside and outside of this sexual reality you create together. Always be a gentleman and treat her like a lady in the presence of others and while in public. After all, a gentleman is but a patient wolf.

One of the strongest cases for using dirty talk is that if you dont use it, her mind will wander. A wandering mind leads to the death of her pleasure and ultimately, her orgasm(s). Her wandering mind could sabotage her orgasm. You must lead her mind with your voice.

Here are two simple premises that exceptionally answer the why bother question.

Premise #1

Sex is mostly mental for women; physical stimulation takes a back seat to mental stimulation. Orgasm and pleasure, as well as the perception of the two, originate in the mind. Pleasure is mental. Orgasms are mental. Thus, you can give her an orgasm simply by talking to her and nothing else. You may not believe that now, but you will after you successfully apply the techniques in this book and its sequel.

Premise #2

The more aroused a woman is, the greater her potential for more pleasure as well as more powerful and even multiple orgasms. Dirty talk is one of THE best tools you have for mentally arousing a woman. It infuses sex with more tension by building anticipation, getting her to focus on sensations and pleasure and it also adds a hint of taboo. All those things are key ingredients for giving her ineffable, mind-blowing orgasms.

If those two premises are not sufficient to convince you then consider the following reasons:

In order for her to have an orgasm, she must let go of thinking and focus on how/what she is feeling. Talking dirty to her keeps her mind focused...it allows you to captivate and lead her mind with your voice and words. It also allows her to just experience pure uninterrupted sexual bliss and leave the leading and thinking up to you. Dirty talk is essentially keep her in the present moment and intensify her experience talk.

It communicates your expectations and directs her mind to elicit powerful responses to you.

o E.g. You feel your clit throb when I touch your nipples, dont you?

If she follows your lead and is sexually responsive to you, she will feel it or will invent (orgasmic alchemy at its finest) the sensation to allow herself to remain entranced by your sexual power.

It can be used to magnify and awaken her pleasure by focusing her attention to her sensations and emotions (increases her sensual focus ability)

o That feels even better as you caress the inside of her thigh. You tell her what to feel, and she feels it. Period. Thats the power of sexually assertive dirty talk.

o That pleasure pulsates through your moistness even more, doesnt it? as you caress her outer labia

o Your clit is aching for me to touch it How badly does your clit need to be touched? Tell me, say baby please touch my clit Her: *blissfully responds*

It sustains her arousal if you are running out of stamina and need a quick break

Finally, dirty talk fulfills a womans need to feel uniquely appreciated, sexy, and feminine. We all enjoy praise and appreciation, especially women. Well, why would praise and appreciation during sex be any different ? Heterosexual women crave to hear those sorts of thingsfrom a powerful man.

Clich Caveat : As with everything sexual: all women are different. A lot of women can orgasm from dirty talk alone; its that powerful for them. For others, it is an unwelcomed distraction from the experience shes having with you and craves nonverbal communication instead.

Oh his way with those words, I want seconds and thirds Cee Lo Green

Lots of men feel uncomfortable talking dirty because they think it will offend women. Lots of men are also uncomfortable with being in control. Understand that things you say are interpreted and perceived differently during a sexual context. Things that would offend her outside of sex can cause her panties to stick to the wall if said within a sexual context.

You may have tried out dirty talk once or twice and it felt uncomfortable. Maybe hearing it out loud sounded awkward to you. Get over it. Quickly. For her sake and yours. Your words sound forced due your biased perception of them. It wont sound weird to her at all if you say it with confidence. Think about it, why would someone whos on your side want you to feel foolish when you compliment them or express yourself? Let go of the silly beliefs you have about dirty talk and give it a try.