To my daughter, Ava Marie: may you grow up in a sex-positive world.
2013 Quiver
Text 2009, 2010 Sonia Borg, Ph.D. M.P.H.
Photography 2009, 2010 Quiver
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A Note to Readers:
This book contains the opinions and ideas of the author and is intended for the use of informed and consenting adults. Its not therapy; its fun Sonia Borg, Ph.D., M.P.H., is a clinical sexologist, not a therapist or medical doctor. Some of the practices and positions in this book may not be appropriate for people with medical conditions or physical impairments. Use your good judgement!
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ISBN: 978-1-59233-593-0
Digital edition published in 2013
eISBN: 978-1-61058-912-3
This book is a compilation of two previously published books by the author, Oral Sex Hell Never Forget (2009, Quiver) and Oral Sex Shell Never Forget (2010, Quiver).
Digital edition: 978-1-61058-912-3
Softcover edition: 978-1-59233-593-0
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data available
Book design: Traffic
Photography: Richard Avery
Illustrations: Robert Brandt
Toe-Curling Techniques &
Positions for Him and Her
SONIA BORG, PH.D., M.A., M.P.H.,
Author of Oral Sex Shell Never Forget and Oral Sex Hell Never Forget
CONTENTS
Introduction: This is Not the Same Ole Oral Sex Book
No sex technique says I love you quite the way that oral sex does.
Oral adoration of your partners most intimate parts is one of the greatest gifts you can give to them. Like every gift that will be cherished, it must be right for the recipient and offered from the givers heart. A few desultory licks in the hopes of getting something in return will not be considered the gift of oral sex here!
Some people love performing oral sex, and some dont. Many who dont are not confident of their skills. In some cases, theyve been with a lover (or lovers) who didnt respond to their oral ministrations or even claimed not to like receiving oral sex. Oral sex is a learned skill; and you can learn it. I will show you how to take your partner someplace they have maybe never been before.
Other books may teach you different tongue and mouth moves, as I do here. My book does more than that! I have created special scenarios that turn cunnilingus and fellatio into a sex event.
If youve always wanted to be the kind of lover who comes up with sexy games but cant think of them, this book is for you. You will get so much from performing oral sex, including:
Increased sexual confidence
Sexual satisfaction
Greater sense of your masculine or feminine power
And my promise to both you and your lover is this: the relationship will feel new and exciting again.
Each scenario is exciting and creative and will help you master oral sex. Ive organized them into categories, and youll find one that suits every erotic mood. In addition, Sex Facts are sprinkled throughout the book and are sure to add to your sexual knowledge. Within the scenarios, youll find easy segments, including Perfect the Move, highlighting the special techniques used. The Scenario sets up the creative fantasy that turns this act of oral sex into a sex event. Last-Minute Preparations gives you all the little preparatory details. The Technique gives you step-by-step directions from first touch to his or her orgasm.
And finally, The Sexpert Says gives you useful information based on my own experience, observations as a sexologist, and confessions from clients. Yes, its a clich, but remember: sex does begin in the brain. The notes here will help you understand your partner as a man or woman and give you a more holistic or big-picture view of their unique sexuality..
There is an oral sex scenario here for every mood, from playful to soul mate-connecting. If you try one and dont like it, try another and another and another. Use it like a cookbook, flipping the pages in search of something that suits your taste of the moment. Your partner will love youeven more than they do already. What compares to the warmth of your breath, the wet sucking of your mouth, the firmness of your tongue?
I sincerely hope that my book will give you the tools and inspiration for rocking your lovers erotic world and becoming more intimately connected to them. And I hope that you learn more about your own sexuality and experience the confidence and personal power from a licking well done.
Wishing you a healthy and happy sex life!
xoxox,
Dr. Sonia
But First, Basic Male Anatomy: Youve Got to Know His Parts
Although you have an up close and personal relationship with his penis and testicles, you may not know how each part functions to create that dynamic male sex organ. Before we get into blow jobs, heres a quick tutorial on his private and prized parts.
The Testicles (Testes or Gonads) and Their Package
Think of this area as his little production company. Like your ovaries, it produces the material necessary for propagating the species, in his case, sperm. While your sex hormones are primarily produced in smaller quantities in the uterus, his sex hormone, testosterone, comes primarily from this part of his body. This package contains:
The Testicles (Balls)
Held together by the baggy skin of the scrotum, his testicles are located behind his penis. They not only produce testosterone and sperm, they also store it. When he gets excited, his balls rise closer to his penis, making the path to ejaculation more efficient.
The Scrotum (The Sack)
The scrotum is a soft, delicate, baggy sack of skin protecting his testicles. Its primary function is maintaining body temperature conducive to the survival of sperm. Ever wonder why his balls shrink up in the cold? The skin of the scrotum tightens, pulling the testicles up closer to his body for the heat.
The Penis or Phallus (Dick, Cock, Prick, Throbbing Manhood, and so forth)
His penis has two biological functions, channeling urine out of the body and ejaculating sperm-containing semen. Composed of secondary fibrous connective tissue and smooth muscles, the penis is mainly spongy (erectile) tissue laced with veins and arteries that fill with blood when he is aroused. The skin is thin and silky to the touch. The sections of the penis are:
The Shaft (Rod)
The main body of his organ, the shaft connects the head and the scrotum. This is the power part of the penisthe area that becomes engorged with blood during arousal. As you already know, it is capable of amazing growth when properly inspired.
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