Text 2010 Sonia Borg, Ph.D., M.P.H.
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A Note to Readers:
This book contains the opinions and ideas of the author and is intended for the use of informed and consenting adults. Its not therapy; its fun.
Sonia Borg, Ph.D., M.P.H. is a clinical sexologist, not a therapist or medical doctor. Some of the practices and positions in this book may not be appropriate for people with medical conditions or physical impairments. Use your good judgment!
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ISBN-10: 1-59233-391-5
Digital edition: 978-1-6278-8120-3
Softcover edition: 978-1-59233-391-2
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Borg, Sonia.
Oral sex shell never forget: positions and techniques that will make her orgasm like she never has before / Sonia Borg.
p. cm.
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN-13: 978-1-59233-391-2 (alk. paper)
ISBN-10: 1-59233-391-5 (alk. paper)
1. Sex instruction for men. 2. Oral sex. 3. Female orgasm. I. Title.
HQ36.B635 2010
613.96081dc22
2009031295
9 Oral Sex Fantasies That Will Make Her Scream
Sonia Borg, Ph.D., M.P.H., M.A.
Introduction: This Is Not the Same Ole Oral Sex Book
No sex technique says I love you quite the way that cunnilingus does.
Oral adoration of her most intimate parts is one of the greatest gifts you can give a woman. Like every gift that will be cherished, it must be right for the recipient and offered from the givers heart. A few aimless licks in the hopes of getting something in return will not be considered the gift of cunnilingus here!
Regardless of your position on cunnilingus, most women love it and some cant climax without it. Cunnilingus is sex, and a beautiful form of sex at that. Unlike intercourse, you get to taste, smell, and touch your partner all in the same moment. Like driving a stick shift, cunnilingus is a learned skill; you can learn it, and you can be very, very good at it. I will show you how.
Other books may teach you different tongue and mouth moves, as I do here. My book does more than that! I have created special scenarios that turn cunnilingus into a sex event.
If youve always wanted to be the kind of man who has the power to psychologically arouse your partner and the technical skills to bring her to orgasm, this book is for you. You will get so much from performing cunnilingus, including:
Increased confidence in your skills as a lover
Sexual satisfaction (hers and yours)
Being in your masculine power
Newly inspired sense of sexual adventure and creativity
Being more in tune with her sexual response cycle
And my promise to both you and your lover is this: The relationship will feel new and exciting again.
Each scenario is exciting and creative and will help you master cunnilingus. Ive organized them into categories, and youll find one that suits every erotic mood. In addition, Sex Facts are sprinkled throughout the book and are sure to add to your sexual knowledge. Within the scenarios, youll find easy segments: Perfect the Move highlights the special techniques used. The Scenario sets up the creative fantasy that turns this act of cunnilingus into a sex event. Last-Minute Preparations gives you all the little preparatory details. The Technique gives you step-by-step directions from first touch to her orgasm.
And finally, The Sexpert Says gives you useful information based on my own experience, observations as a sexologist, and confessions from clients. The notes here will help you understand how to be playful and sexually adventurous with your woman and give you a snapshot of female sexuality, with some insights into male sexuality, too.
There is a cunnilingus scenario here for every mood, from playful to soul mate-connecting. If you try one and dont like it, try another and another and another. Adapt, change, and modify to make it your own. What compares to the warmth of your breath, the wet sucking of your mouth, the firmness of your tongue?
I sincerely hope that my book will give you the tools and inspiration for rocking her erotic world and becoming more expressive and adventurous with her. And I hope that you learn more about your own sexuality and experience the confidence and personal power from a licking well done.
Wishing you a healthy and happy sex life!
xoxox,
Dr. Sonia
But First, Basic Female Anatomy: Youve Got to Know Her Parts
You cant drive her crazy if you dont know where her buttons are, right? Here are some terms to get you started:
The Vulva
A politically and anatomically correct name, the vulva is the whole package of the female genitalia.
Mons or mons veneris (Latin for mound of Venus): This soft spot on top of the pubic bone is sensitive to the touch and nice for arousal, but stimulation there generally wont take her to climax.
Labia majora (large outer lips): The labia majora is a somewhat sensitive area that overlays and protects the more delicate inner layer of the vulva. These outer lips are covered with pubic hair (that many women wax or shave). Many women find that removing the hair increases sensitivity to touch.
Labia minora (smaller inner lips): These more sensitive lips swell and change color when a woman becomes aroused. They are more slender in size than the outer lips, though they sometimes extend down past them.
The Clitoris
Some of the slang terms for the little pink stalk sometimes compared to the penis include the little girl in the boat, the bean, the magic button, the flower, and the pearl, among others. It is the only organ on either the male or the female body designed solely for pleasure. The clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings and operates within network of 15,000 nerve endings that service the entire pelvic region. Knowing this, it would be nearly impossible to have an orgasm that is not clitoral in nature.
The clitoral hood: This little outgrowth or overgrowth of skin covers and protects the clitoral glans. When a woman becomes aroused, the glans protrudes from the hood, though in some women, just barely.
The clitoral glans or shaft: When people refer to the clitoris, they are usually talking about the clitoral glans. The vast system of nerves connecting the clitoris to the vagina all end in the glans. What a potent little piece of genital property that is!
The crura (a.k.a. wings): Located to the right and left of the urethra, they run back to the pubic bone. The internal portion of the clitoris, these two sections are shaped like Vs, connecting to the clitoris at the point of the V.
The vestibular or clitoral bulbs: A string of bulb-shaped aggregations of erectile tissue, the clitoral bulbs extend down beneath the labia minora. When a woman is aroused, they fill with blood, making the vulva swell.
Front commissure: A very sensitive and often overlooked area above the base of the clitoral shaft, just below where the labia majoras meet.
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