Cosmopolitan - Fantasy Sex Games: Steamy Role-Playing Challenges For Next-Level Bedroom Fun

The coin you just dropped on this book means one thing: Youre one step closer to becoming that bitch in the bedroom (and yes, thats genderless).

The editors of Cosmo have amassed all the must-know info about role-playing to help you master the art of acting out different personas during sex. From titillating sexcessories you can use to nail a performance ( ) , prepare to steal every sex sceneand enjoy one orgasmic standing ohhhvation after another.

Use the tips and tricks on the following pages to bring your hottest fantasies to life . (Sexual orientations and identities are incredibly nuanced, so please adapt this info to fit you and your specific sexual sitch.) Trustyou and your partner arent even ready for the role-playing fun youre about to have.

Sure, Sex and the Citys Samantha Jones lit-er-al-ly started sleeping with an actor to bring her fave sexual fantasies to lifebut then Sam was always a little extra. If youre nervous to play pretend for hotter sex (or your acting skills are more I was in my fifth-grade play, I think? than My Oscars speech is ready to go), heres how to get it right on your first take.

Pinpoint the Point

If you want to have a truly sexy experience, you have to describe what it is about that particular scenario that gets you going (the better you explain your fantasy, the more likely it is to come to life in a way that gets you off rather than makes you feel weird). Relay that to your partner so they know to emphasize that turn-on.

Lock Down the Plot

Agreeing on a basic sequence of events can help with nerves and logistics, mmkay? If youre a client meeting your jacked personal trainer, for instance, maybe you agree that you wont be able to finish the number of squat reps they ask for, which means theyll have to punish you however they see fit. Fun, right?

Play What You Know

For character inspo, think of sexy pairings youre already familiar with from real life, like a masseuse and their client, or pop culture, la a superhero and whoevers lucky enough to hook up with a superhero. (For inspo, check out Dress Me Up, Buttercup on .) Starting with a known scenario cuts down on brainstorming time (and role research!) so you can get to bizness faster. Prepare to crack up. A lot.

Learn (a Few) Lines

Having a couple of go-to phrases can keep things moving if you are suddenly drawing a blank and dont know what to do next. Think of what youd say in the actual situation, then add a kinky kicker , like: Its been so hot without the A/Cthank goodness youre here to fix it! If you get too warm while you work, feel free to strip down.

Establish Some Limits

Before losing yourself in a character, be sure to let your partner know what youre comfortable doing and whats going too far, especially if youre experimenting with a punishment scenario. Let your partner know your limits .

Set the Scene

Start at home, where youre probably most comfortable . If you cant get in the headspace of a lusty lit professor boning her top student while theres a pile of dirty clothes on the chair next to you, lead your eager-to-please pupil to new territory, like the living roomas long as, you know, you dont have any roommates or kids. This show doesnt require an audience.