Cosmopolitan - Cosmos 200 naughtiest sex questions: answered in 20 words or less

Why do I feel like I have to pee during sex?Because your bladder lies close to the front vaginal wall. Its very unlikely that youll actually pee.3. Id like to enjoy sex longer and slow my orgasm. Advice?Switch positions.4. My mouth gets dry when I give oral. Whats a quick fix?Have water nearby to sip.5.

Whats a Cosmo-approved oral sex move my guy will love?Take his testicles into your mouth and hum. The vibration will feel amazing.6. Whats the best way to take control of sex halfway into it?Kiss him fiercely, then move him into whatever position you want. We know hell obey.7. My guy and I have sex frequently, and he always comes inside me. Is it possible to have too much sperm in my vagina?Nope.

It wont cause any health issue, since the vagina self-cleans and gravity takes care of the rest.8. Id like to have phone sex with my long-distance boyfriend, but Im shy. How can I loosen up?Try writing out some fantasies in a journal first.9. If I dont want to kiss a guy immediately after he performs oral sex on me, what should I do?Kiss his neck or chest, go down on him, or better yet, work on getting over your issue with it.10. Where in my apartment should I have sex that I probably havent tried before?On or against the bathroom sink.11. Whats female ejaculation?Its fluid thats released through the urethra when the G-spot is stimulated.12.

So is it the same thing as an orgasm?No. Usually, they happen at the same time, but like guys, women can ejaculate without a climax.13. I love to role-play, but Ive done the clichs (teacher and student, etc.). What are some other characters that would be fun in the bedroom?Cab driver and passenger, MILF and horny teenage guy, Brad and Angelina14. Does a cold shower really kill a mans desire?Yes. Cold water shrinks his penis, and its hard to feel sexy when youre chilled to the bone.15.

My clitoris sometimes goes numb during foreplay. Why?Too much direct stimulation. Encourage him to play with other parts of your vadge, and use more lube.16. When Im going down on him, do I have to take all of him into my mouth?Nope, your mouth can focus on the supersensitive tip while your hand strokes his shaft.17. I get off on being loud in bed. How can I do it without sounding scary?Start with soft moans, then louder groans, then let go a full-throttle oh, yes!18.

How do you inspect a penis for signs of an STD without his knowing?Check his out while youre caressing him. Look for sores, redness, and odd secretions or smells. But thats not foolproof!19. Does size matter... when it comes to vaginas?The vagina is elastic and can accommodate most penises, and slight differences in tightness are all but unnoticeable for guys.20. Which woman-on-top tweak will make the move sexier for him?Lean back, and open your legs wide.

Hell love the view of his penis moving in and out of you.21. Whats a great way to give my guy some eye candy during the act?Bounce while youre on top. The sight of your breasts jiggling like crazy will be super-arousing for him.22. Ive been told I have a small clitoris. Could that be why I have so much trouble reaching orgasm when I have sex?No, it just isnt being adequately stimulated and might need a tongue instead of a penis.23. What position best stimulates my G-spot?Doggie-style.24.

I heard semen has some benefits and can even be an antidepressant. Is that BS concocted by guys who want to get laid?A study did confirm that, and semen does contain mood-altering hormones. Still, the effect is tiny.25. Whats one way to involve my breasts more during intercourse?Push them together and have your guy stick his penis between them.26. Does my boyfriend want to see me masturbate?Hell, yes. CRAZY QUESTION! 27. Ive heard its unsafe to do it on a trampoline.

Why?If things get bouncy, his penis can slip out and ricochet off the trampoline, breaking it.28. How firm should my grip be when Im giving hand jobs?Think of how hard you could squeeze an unpeeled banana without it squishing.29. Why do I occasionally get headaches during sex?Tightening of the neck muscles can bring one on. Try focusing on your breathing to relax.30. Is it possible for me to orgasm during anal?Yes, especially if you touch your clitoris.31. How do we deal with the condom without ruining the mood?Put it on for him.

Roll half onto his shaft with your hand and the rest with your mouth.32. Can a guy feel a difference between ribbed condoms and regular ones?Nope, ribbing is for your benefit.33. How can I initiate getting him to go down on me?When hes kissing you, whisper Id love to have you do that elsewhere.34. How long should I let him recharge before round two?Anywhere from 5 to 30 minutes.35. Are there aphrodisiacs that actually work?A recent study found that a cup of coffee stimulates the part of the brain that controls arousal.36. If I dont have lube, what can I use?Saliva.37.

Whats the most common male fantasy?A threesome with two women.38. Is it possible to tell if hell be good in bed when I first meet him?If hes attentiveopens doors, constantly touches youits a good sign hell be attentive in the bedroom.39. If my boyfriend and I both have the same sexually transmitted disease, do we still have to use a condom?No, if you are on the Pill, have the same bacterial STD (like gonorrhea), and are both on antibiotics.40. Can two people know if they have great sexual chemistry before they even touch?Do you feel butterflies, tingles, etc.? Bingo.41. Can I get pregnant from pre-ejaculate?Yes. While its sperm-free, it can mix with swimmers in his urethra from a previous ejaculation.42.

Why do things like getting my hair pulled not hurt during sex?Getting busy releases feel-good endorphins that mildly numb pain.43. What can I do sexually when I have my period if I dont want to have actual sex?Give and receive sensual massages.44. What foreplay move will prime him for a quickie?Ninety seconds of oral each.45. How many orgasms in a row can a woman have?No one knows for sure, so set your own record.