The Art of Oral Sex

The Art of Oral Sex

General Introduction

People have been using their mouths to stimulat e each other s exually for about as long as there

have been people. How about kissing each other? Men have been kissing women on their necks,

ears, breasts, backs, thighs, and any where else they can think of that'll arouse them sexually ever

since they found out it works. It didn't take long for some enterprising man t o find out that kissing a

woman's vulva worked, did it ever. The Latin word cunnilingus was coined t o describe licking the

vulva.

Men were not alone in searching for ways to arouse the opposite sex. Some equally enterprising

woman found out that men liked for her to suck their penis, it worked just as well. The Latin word

fellatio was coined to describe sucking the penis.

Let's define and us e the more common words t o describe men and women's genitalia and the

various sexual acts. Pinus, cock; vulva, pussy; vagina, cunt; Coitus, fuck; cunnilingus, eating pussy;

fellatio, sucking cock, blowjob; performing c unnilingus or fellatio, giving head; ejaculate, cum or

shoot his load; orgasm, cum or climax; pubic hair, women muff or bush, men bush.

Many men and women, today probably most, use some form of oral massage or kissing of the sex

organs as a normal part of foreplay to warm up their partners prior to fucking. They probably don't

think of that as "giving head," and I would agree that it's not. It's simply a part of the foreplay used to

prepare each other for fucking and hopefully achieving a sexual climax.

Giving head, on the other hand, is used by one to bring the other to climax by use of, primarily, the

mouth and tongue. For t hose couples who develop the required skills and self restraint, both can

cum together using the 69 position. For me, although the sensations of a man's cock thrusting in my

cunt are great and I do love a good fuck, cuming together during 69 is more emotionally satisfying

than cuming together by fucking.

You have to develop an understanding of the intimate feelings and emotions that occur while you're

performing oral sex and during a climax, and how to respond to those feelings. Giving head is much

more intimat e than fucking and, if approached with the right attitude, can be more emotionally

satisfying. Both the man and woman need to become familiar with what the ot her's emotional needs

are, not just what it takes to make each other cum.

Only in the movies does a man grab a woman and say, take your clothes off, I want to fuck, or vise

versa. You have to pick a time and place other than the kitchen where the baby has just thrown a

bowl of food all over your wife, although it might be a welc ome distraction right abought then. Giving

head requires at least as much emotional preparation as fucking. For the subject to even come up,

one partner has to have built up the desire. That partner then has to build up the desire in the other

partner.

Getting the other to let you bring them to orgasm is generally the easiest. If you just want to eat her

pussy or she just wants to suck your cock, then all t hat's required is a willingness to submit, and this

is important, with the expectation of achieving orgasm. Getting the ot her to bring you to orgasm

requires the art of gentle pers uasion. If you just want her to suck your cock or she just wants' you to

eat her pussy, a slightly different situation exists. A woman can probably convince a man to eat her

pussy without much effort. All that's generally required is for him to be in a reasonably good mood.

If he just wants her to suck his cock, and she wasn't alr eady thinking about sex, then he's going to

have to get her in the proper mood first.

You'll find out that no matter who starts, the other will probably end up getting head also, either that

or you'll end up fucking. Given this inevitable result, it's nice if both of you can build each other up

first. Once you're bot h ready, he should give her head first, or you should use 69. A man comes

down from his climax too quickly, and takes too long t o build back up sufficiently to move right into

doing a good job of eating pussy, unless he had that on his mind from the beginning.

It's fairly easy for a man to learn to do a good job of eating a woman's pussy. If he's sensitive,

gentle and pays attention to what's in this book, she'll love it.

About the only problem the uninitiated man has is over the perceived bad smell and taste of a

woman's secretions. Many men, and women, think that the t astes and odors associated with a

woman's pussy are offensive. This isn't so, the natural fragrance and taste of the fresh secret ions

from a clean healthy woman are usually beautiful and erotic to a man. This question needs to be

settled at the very beginning. A couple should take turns tasting and smelling her pussy's natural

fluids when she's fresh and clean. Once a man tries it, the taste and smell of a woman's sex will

excite him and he'll look forward to it. When a man fingers a woman and then smells, licks, sucks

the juice off his finger and sighs as if in heaven, she'll forget this problem and he can dive right in.

It's more difficult for a woman to become a good cock -sucker, but the rewards can be wort h the

effort. There are three basic problems that c onfront a woman, the first two are, how muc h of his

cock should she take into her mouth, and what does she do with his cum. The answers to the first

two are, all of it, and swallow it. The third problem is, how does she get all of that cock in her mouth.

The answer to the third is in the following lessons.

As you'll see later, the shaft of a man's cock isn't overly sensitive to touch on any particular spot, but

it does respond to pressure, and there are a lot of nerve endings when you include all of it. Don't

forget that much of the pleasure we derive from sex is in t he mind, it 's psychological, emotional.

When a man feels a woman's warm soft mouth and tongue giving his cock a workout, feels her

trying to suck his balls out through it, sees her look up at him as her lips slide down over it until her

face is buried in his bush, the overall feeling is hard to describe. When you take all of this into

account, she should take all of his cock into her mouth and throat at appropriate times while she's

giving head.

It's not a big deal with most men if a women doesn't want to s wallow his cum, he just doesn't want

her to take his cock out of her mouth until he's finished cuming. When he's fucking you, you feel that

you're drawing him into yourself when you cum, part of his sexual makeup is a mirror image of

yours, he feels that he's being drawn int o you when he cums. He needs for you to keep h is cock in

your mouth, continuing t o increase the intensity of your fellatio, until he cums and his climax lets

down. It 's a real let down for him if you take his cock out of your warm soft mouth just as he's

reaching the climax that you've both worked so hard for and jack him off into a wet towel.

I said that the rewards can be worth the effort. Lying there with a man's throbbing cock buried deep

in your throat and your fac e buried in his bush can feel almost as good as having it in your cunt, and

a lot more intimate. Feeling a man cum in her mouth while she carries him through the end of his

orgasm and then swallowing it aft er he's finished becomes a sens ual thing for a woman, part of her

natural desire to participate in his orgasm to the fullest extent, drawing his love juices into her as he