Jude Schell - Her Sweet Spot: 101 Sexy Ways to Find and Please It

Copyright 2010 by Jude Schell
Photographs copyright 2010 by Janette Valentine

All rights reserved.
Published in the United States by Celestial Arts, an imprint of the Crown Publishing Group, a division of Random House, Inc., New York.
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www.tenspeed.com

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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Schell, Jude, 1969
Her sweet spot : 101 sexy ways to find and please it / Jude Schell. 1st ed.
p. cm.
Summary: Equal parts erotica, bedroom how-to, and sex and relationship miscellany, this is a guide to discovering and pleasing female sweet spotsfrom the obvious to the obscureProvided by publisher.
1. Sex. 2. Sexual excitement. 3. Intimacy (Psychology) I. Title.

HQ31.S34 2010
306.77dc22

2010026384

eISBN: 978-1-58761-378-4

Photography assistance by Lisa Martin-Owens
Art direction by Jude Schell
Set design by Aime Ammon
Makeup and hair styling by Virginia Le Fay and Jessica Coury

Models: Cassandra Burton, Melba D., Ashley Garner, Jewel, Sheeba Knight,
Lisa Lehrer, Kim Linger, Aurora Natrix

v3.1

for Aime,
who, in our seventeenth year together,
continues to give me more pleasure
(and pain)
than anyone Ive ever known

CONTENTS

INTRODUCTION

Her Sweet Spot is a testament to the wonder and the beauty of women, desire, and pleasure. Its a pastiche of female sexuality at its most real and fantastic, offering a pathway to a deeper understanding of a womans unique sensual potential.

There are so many ways for lovers to discover and enhance their capacities for pleasure. Within these pages are 101 ideas to indulge your imagination and inspire and entice you to explore. Its my hope that you find this lushly illustrated book to be a fresh, entertaining, and compelling guide that exudes her sensuality on every page.

Pleasure is derived from thoughts, actions, and experiences. Each woman enjoys various pleasures uniquely and to different degrees throughout her life. What she desires, and when and how, also constantly changesand ideally, evolves. Even the most confident and worldly woman needs to be reminded that theres always a new pleasure to be unveiled and shared.

Sexuality and sensuality are not only ever-evolving, theyre complex. Her deepest yearnings originate and lie in her mind, heart, body, and soul. Her sexual appetite, personal passions, and fundamental needs are all intrinsically linked. To find and please her countless and diverse sweet spots, stimulate the whole woman.

Her sweet spot of the moment may be her clitoris, her love of romantic settings, or her preference for a sexual encounter featuring light bondageit will range from the obvious to the elusive. Her sweet spot is a blend of her physical, sexual, emotional, psychological, and spiritual natures. Finding and pleasing one sweet spot often leads to the arousal of another. To find her sweetest spots, the places on and within her that long to be touched, every aspect of her nature must be explored in the most sensorial way. As you uncover her proclivities and reveal her desires, going on to attend to and fulfill them all is also a dynamic enterpriseand sweet fun.

Making sense of the senses through a better understanding of her unique nature increases her capacity to know the most and best sexual pleasure. To inspire her to develop her sensual abilities and strive for heightened awareness, Her Sweet Spot investigates her attitudes, instincts, dreams, and her body and its responses to all she sees, smells, hears, tastes, touches, and feels.

Falling in love is easy. Staying is love is hard. Pleasure is a priority, like good health, purpose, fulfilling relationships, and meaningful connections. Value her sexuality, and respect, acknowledge, and embrace its complicated nature, and the rewards will never stop flowing.

Deep bonds between women occur on every level. Across the globe, women are giving and accepting pleasure, and confidently reshaping their world around their desires. Women are growing more perceptive, powerful, expressive, and satisfied every day. Her Sweet Spot is designed to create a sexy, funny, and smart atmosphere to stimulate a womans motivation to pursue, experience, and enjoyat minimum101 paths to pleasure.

Keep the channel open.

She desires what pleases her senses.

She pursues what she imagines will fulfill her urges.

Passion stems from desire, and many waking hours are spent seeking to satisfy the yearnings that desire stirs.

Live sensorially.

Be aware of the subtle aspects of the world around you.

A faint yet powerful scent causes you to pause, inhale deeply, and endeavor to identify its source. An infectious laugh at a nearby table grabs your attention. You turn and catch her eye, and a connection is made.

Impressions are formed within seconds, yet can last a lifetime.

A single choice has the power to transform everything going forward, for both you and her. Any second can be that secondwhen everything you know as real is turned upside down. And its wonderful!

Love shouldnt be left to fate.

Flirting is fleeting. Charm is transformative and everlasting.

She longs to be and feel successful, interesting, and desired. Shes susceptible to doubts and shoulda woulda couldas.

Engaging her in conversation affirms her ability to attract. And your efforts to entertain and enthrall her convey ambitionand the confidence to pursue what you want.

A sincere compliment acknowledges strengths and counters apprehensions. In this comfortable state of mind shes open to continuing flirtatiousness, and can go on to envision an assortment of pleasing scenarios that will unfold between the two of you.

Charm is one part innate, one part studied and honed.

To captivate her mind, body, and soul, mix up the woo, interspersing insights with enticing innuendos and enchanting turns of phrase.

Be direct.

Ive noticed you around, and find you very attractive.