Mia Knox - Sex Positions: 3 Books in 1: Sex Positions for Couples, Kama Sutra and Sexy Games for Couples. The complete guide to Transform Your Sexual Life and Improve Your Relationship

Being in a committed, loving relationship always seem so easy and natural when we first set our feet on the path. Hand in hand, we walk into the future as a couple, swept away in our love for one another; believing that forever isnt such a long time in the company of the one we adore.

But life in a long-term romantic relationship isnt as easy as many of us have been led to believe. The love songs and cinematic tales of ideal love are the folklore of loving relationships. They represent what were all shooting for, romantically speaking. But those of us whove been around for a while (and may have been involved in more than one such relationship) are well aware of this fact. For younger people, though, possibly experiencing their first romantic involvement, disillusionment can set in the moment it becomes clear that riding off into the sunset and living happily ever after is a challenge.

It's not just about the compromise, listening and understanding. Lets be honest and admit that its also about the sex. Theres also the stress of child-rearing. The baby who wont go to sleep. The dirty nappies. The shift of focus from each other to the new life that demands our care and attention.

But with time spent together, comes revelation. Perhaps the pedestal we once put one another on has deteriorated in stature, or even crumbled. A stray fart here, a bathroom door left open there and suddenly, the romantic veneer is shattered. But these are only the most superficial factors that can impact our sexuality as partners, over time. Money matters, family relationships, work commitments, illness and the contempt often (and sadly) bred by familiarity can all conspire to make us lose interest in expressing the love that endures between us, sexually.

Sometimes, it happens without us even noticing. We just wake up one day, several years after that initial rose colored supernova of loves first blush and realize that the thrill has gone away. Where once there was hunger, now theres something more like indigestion. Where once our hearts skipped a beat on seeing each other come into view, now we smile wanly, as though seeing a beloved old friend. Its a good thing to be friends, in any romantic partnership. I would say thats one of the most important components of romantic love. All the same, where did the fire go? Where did that gnawing need for the person we love disappear to; the excitement at the thought of them, the desire to smell the scent of our beloved and cover ourselves in it?

Familiarity can breed more than contempt. It can breed a kind of clouded vision. What we become used to seeing, we tend to take for granted. Every day, we look out our windows and see the same thing we saw the day before. Perhaps there are clouds where there was sun the previous day, but the basic vista is unchanged. We fail to see the nuance in life when we become to accustomed to whats around us and that can include our life partners. But when we choose to see things with fresh eyes, everything changes. When were determined to observe the world as though seeing it for the first (or the last) time, it becomes a much more exciting place for us.

You are not the same today as you were yesterday. In every moment, were all evolving physically, intellectually and spiritually. So is your partner. That means the party isnt over. Its never over. Its there for you to enjoy each and every day of your lives together, but your eyes need a re-boot. That re-boot can come in many forms, but at its foundation is your willingness to commit to it.

Some say sexuality between long-time partners can be re-ignited by spicing things up. Costumes, saucy talk and sex aids can come into play to perhaps make things more fun. But whats really at the basis of your love? Whats really the true cornerstone of your relationship? Is there something deeper you can draw on as a resource to lift up your sexuality and make it as enduring as the love your share?

I believe there is. I further believe that this something is not the superficial addition of props. This something is whats already there, holding you together an invisible, spiritual membrane which is like a loving umbilical cord, feeding your relationship. This is the source of your strength and it can be the source of the spark that re-ignites the flame of the sexuality you have shared and, perhaps, forgotten how to call up between you.

Kama Sutra is an ancient spiritual practice that places sexuality in the exalted position it was intended to take in all our lives. In the Kama Sutra system of spirituality, your sexuality is as sacred and profound as human life itself, as it is a human means of re-creating the universe. Does that sound a little crazy? Maybe thats because weve come to view our sexuality, in the Western World, as a bodily function. Its certainly that but looking at sexuality as a bodily function robs it of its spiritual value in our lives and as the source of joy and profound connection it was intended to be, between those who love each other.

Well explore the ideas of Kama Sutra and discover how it can re-connect you with one another, through that invisible umbilical cord that mutually and continually feeds you and your relationship. Well find out how that existing connection can be the source of renewed sexual joy in your relationship; how it can make the difference between a long-term live-in friendship, and a vibrant, life-long sexual relationship between committed lovers and partners.