Introduction
Let's get something straight right away the obvious thing you already know:
It's tough for Indian guys to get laid with hot girls, especially non-Indian girls.
I know this. You know this. The whole world knows this.
That's why it's so hard to find any practical advice that we can use. We are the forgotten men of the dating industry. It's pretty likely you've already been ridiculed for even looking for advice. I was. And that's shitty because it's every man's right to get better with women. It's our right to improve ourselves as men and try to take what we want from the world. So when I was ridiculed, I shrugged them off and got on with my mission getting hot girls into my bed.
That's why Ive written this beginners guide to picking up girls tailor made for Indian men. Im Indian. I look Indian, I love my country's culture and I won't ever turn my back on my heritage. And yet I'm also a man who has been very successful in bedding hot women . For five years I've slept with beautiful women of every colour and from every continent.
It wasn't always like this.
Like you, I once had beliefs which held me back and limited what I felt I could accomplish. Like you (perhaps), I lacked confidence around girls. Eventually I tired of it. I was tired of feeling that heavy weight on my shoulders, tired of feeling held back in achieving my dreams in the world of women. I once believed in the Bollywood version of romance - that there's soul mate for every man, if we can just find her.
Seeing as youre reading this book, youve probably come to the same conclusion that I did. There is no soul mate . There is no fairytale encounter. It's a myth fed to keep you in your place. If you want to sleep with beautiful women you must take action. I'll show you the way.
What I will show you
This is a guide on how you can become an attractive man. I'll show you how to make women attracted to you and, eventually, how to date them and get them into your bed. I'll address all the major issues that I've seen time and time again when coaching Indian men. All the problems that I, as an Indian man, had to solve. Whatever issue you may have, whether its deep insecurities or a lack of identity, probably feels unique and personal. Trust me, it's not. I've seen it a hundred times before with my students.
And that's a good thing because I've already helped over a hundred men push past it on their way to success.
This book is packed with both practical and theoretical advice. We call it the red pill path. It's enlightenment in the world of social relations and a realisation of how the dating market really works. No matter where you are in the world, whether youre in a club in Mumbai or a backpackers bar in Prague, my aim is to make you more attractive to women. So long as you study this book and implement the advice I give you yes, you must take action then we'll get there. Your life will be transformed.
Reality-check
The real world does not owe us a living. There are no guarantees. Nobody will give you the keys to the kingdom, the right to get any woman. This is going to be a journey for you and sometimes it will be tough. But the great thing is we'll immediately start addressing your fears. Whether youre fearful of being blindly hooked-up by your parents with that promiscuous girl from the town to the west, or youre just afraid to approach that cute girl at work, this book will set you on the way to obliterating all those problems.
My Story
Some of you have already read my other work. Youve seen how I conquered my fears, overcame the specific difficulties Indian families and culture create regarding marriage. You've seen how Ive travelled around Europe dating its beautiful feminine women, the type of women that all men desire.
I too had lowly beginnings. As a young man I was never any good with women. I was never the stud in high school or the captain of the cricket team. By the age of 25 I'd had sexual relations with just two women. The longest of the two was only a couple of months. I was the shy, average-looking guy who was invisible to women. I had no balls, no guts, no charm and no charisma. The weight of my upbringing had crushed my spirit and I thought there was no way out. I know how it feels deeply, in your core to have never slept with a hot girl and to have no hope it will ever happen. That used to be me.
So, finally, I took action. I was no longer willing to accept my dreary lot in life. I was no longer willing to turn into my father, or my uncle, or all the other Indian men I knew who had never known the loving embraces of many beautiful women.
I took the steps to research what I needed to do to become a better man, a man who wasnt afraid of talking to women, a man who knew how to talk to women. The man who attracts and sleeps with sexy women.
It isn't just a Bollywood fantasy. It can be done. I did it. And now you will do it.
My first steps began in London, where I lived and worked. I took a bootcamp with the Rock Solid Game guys (a dating skills company) and it was one of the greatest weekends in my life. It was tough and thought-provoking, and it rewired my mind. I learned the secret code that allowed me to pick up women and have sex with them! Beyond that, it woke me up to how the modern dating world really operates.
I learned a brutal and inescapable truth: As a man, if you've got no skills, then youve got no hope.
That weekend gave me hope, and it started me on the path to getting the skills. Since then, Ive had sex with many, many women from all over the world.
However enough of that macho showing off! Lets get into the machinations of picking up women and how you can start changing your life whether youre in the West or in India. Whether you want to get a long term girlfriend or youre looking to become a master of seduction, this guide is for you.
I'm sure you're ready for a challenge. It's a big world out there and the rewards are incredible. Let's begin!
Bojangles,
The 3 Bromigos, (the3bromigos.com)
Desi Casanova (desicasanova.com)
2015
Contents
Chapter 1: Become a man
Before we get into the theory and map that will lead you to picking up women, theres a lot more that you need to learn and evaluate in regards to yourself as a man . In this section, Ill take you through everything you need to become a more accomplished Indian man. This includes:
- Skin colour
- Indian culture
- Inferiority complexes
- Confidence
- Body language and conditioning
- Style and fashion
- Hygiene
- Grooming
- What women hate
What you need to understand
Indian men are prone to a lot of limiting beliefs that hold them back in all aspects of life, and not just with women. The thing about Game and pickup is that it helps you to improve your life as a whole and not just your skills with the girls you desire. Becoming more attractive to the opposite sex isnt just a transformation made through words and lies. Women may be gullible creatures, however their subconscious has evolved to give them inclinations that can catch out bullshitters and men who are not congruent.
If youre going to talk the talk of a masculine Casanova, then your body and actions have to also play along, and this section will help you attain that congruency. Its time to forget that youre Indian at all , on this journey the colour of your skin does not matter one bit. During this project that youre about to embark on, youll think of yourself as nothing more than a man, a man whose only aim is capture the hearts of beautiful women.