Vincent Vinturi - Real Natural Seduction: The Authentic Mans Guide To Meeting & Attracting Gorgeous Women Everywhere You Go

Real Natural Seduction

The Authentic Man's Guide To Meeting & Attracting Gorgeous Women Everywhere You Go

by Vincent Vinturi

www.RealNaturalSeduction.com

In this short but dense book you're going to learn how to meet and connect with exquisite women everywhere you go, without ever having to step foot into a bar or club ever again. I'm going to break down the most effective techniques that I've learned from other seducers, as well as from asking women tons of questions. But most of all, I'm going to teach you the things I've figured out independently from years of meeting women just about everywhere I go.

This may seem obvious, but if you want an abundance of smart , fun , beautiful women in your life, you have to go where they live in sufficient numbers.

If you live in a small town with a small population, it's going to be fundamentally difficult to meet a large variety of interesting women. It doesn't matter if you're looking for a girlfriend, or 'the one', or for a series of fun flings. Either way, you're much better off in a place with a lot of opportunity to meet and date women, hone your social skills and learn what you actually want in a partner.

Am I suggesting that you move to a bigger city just to have more women in your life? Well, it's totally up to you of course, and depending on your circumstances it may not be necessary, but generally, if having plenty of great girls around contributes a lot to your overall quality of life, it may very well be worth it to you.

On a smaller level, there are locations within a city (even in a small one), where people gather and where you can find a larger concentration of women than you'd typically see in your day to day life. These are the bars and the clubs....

I used to go out to bars and clubs all the time. For a while, I was going 5 nights a week or more. But I never really enjoyed it. Most guys don't. Maybe you can relate?

Over the last few years I've learned to meet spectacular women without ever going out, so these days I only go out rarely and only when I genuinely want to . If, like the vast majority of guys, bars and clubs aren't your thing, what I'm about to show you in these pages is going to revolutionize your dating life.

The thing to realize is that these places exist for one purpose and one purpose only: to make a profit! Everything - from the ratio of men to women that a bouncer is instructed to let inside a club, to the physical layout of the venue - has been engineered to maximize cash flow for that establishment.

Practically speaking, the problem with these establishments is that they make just about every aspect of meeting a woman more difficult.

First, you have to wait in a line for the mere 'privilege' of trying to enter the place! You may then have to pay a cover that ranges from a few bucks to upwards of a hundred dollars, depending on the perceived exclusivity of the club. Once you're in, you'll probably start drinking and by the end of the night, you'll have spent somewhere between a little and a lot of money, and be somewhere between tipsy and shit faced. The loud music makes it difficult to speak to people without shouting. The lighting makes it hard to establish good eye contact, and you're competing for a girl's attention with an overload of sensory stimuli.

On top of these difficulties, the social dynamics are stacked against you. The women are dressed to the nines; makeup, miniskirts, heels and all, and they're getting a large influx of male attention, which temporarily elevates a woman's perception of her desirability. Of course, this is one of the reasons women go out...it feels nice for them to express their femininity, to dance, to drink and to drive the boys crazy...and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that!! Only...this makes a girl somewhat trigger happy in terms of giving men the cold shoulder, even though in other circumstances, she could be totally open to a nice chat.

There are also other men to deal with, who tend to be protective of the girls in their social groups, and a girl's female friends, who are BER-protective of their friend! Sometimes a woman's girlfriends will intentionally sabotage a lovely connection that she's made with an interesting (to her) guy, and come drag her away!

The great majority of girls, rather than assert their will (and go against the group), will allow themselves to be dragged off by their friends, who essentially decide FOR HER that the guy she's vibing with doesn't 'cut it'. Not all women are like this of course, and this is one of the reasons why a subsection of women highly prefer male friends and avoid clubs!

So to sum it up, bars and clubs are a blast...FOR GIRLS. They get to dress up and be girly. They get in free or at a reduced rate. Guys buy them drinks all night and lavish them with attention (ego boost). They swat men away like flies until and unless a particularly attractive fly buzzes around them attractively enough. In short, it's a sucky place to connect.

I should also note that the club scene in different cities and countries varies widely. The ratio of men to women is much more favorable in certain places (Medelln, Colombia comes nostalgically to mind) and women can be MUCH friendlier in some places. So I do think it's worth it to go from time to time, especially if you're traveling in another country. But it should really be a cherry on top of more productive, efficient and enjoyable ways to meet and connect with women.

So, if going out to bars and clubs at night is expensive, unpleasant and in efficient, where do you go to meet girls?? The answer is anywhere else !

There is no 'wrong' place to meet women.

Most people have uncritically accepted the idea that the 'appropriate' place to meet people is 'out'. Most people also feel that non-bar, non-club locations are somehow in appropriate venues to connect with women. Nothing could be further from the truth! In reality, meting women as you go about your day is far easier, more time-efficient and more enjoyable than any nightlife situation. Hmm...why is that?

During the day, women are generally going about their business and aren't receiving nearly the same level of male attention as they do when they're out at night and dressed to kill. Because most women believe the same illusion as us - that people generally don't connect romantically in grocery stores, coffee shops, public transportation, etc. - they're not actively screening and filtering men based on things like their (perceived) social status in the club, how much money they throw around, the entourage they're with, and other superficialities.

A girl isn't on guard and it's much easier to have a nice chat with her. You also aren't competing for a girl's attention with other men, nor with an extremely stimulating (distracting) environment, and it's much easier to hear one another, see one another's eyes, and feel each other out. Both men and women also have a higher energy level during the daytime, which adds a certain youthfulness and sexy edge to your daytime interactions.

There's an interesting paradox which works in your favor during the day. Unlike a club, which is a high-pressure, high-competition environment, the grocery store, the gym, or even the street is a hundred times more forgiving . YET, despite the relative lack of pressure, women will think you're especially bold for approaching them in these venues. For one, the crowd is constantly changing, and getting a lukewarm response from a girl won't negatively impact others' perception of you to nearly the same degree as in a club, where the value dynamics are largely governed by perceived status. Even if you get blown off loudly and visibly (it happens), in 10 minutes a WHOLE new group of people fill the location, giving you a blank slate. So you can get a lot of practice and meet a lot of interesting girls in a short period of time. And you don't need to worry about 'blowing yourself out' of a venue just because of one lackluster interaction that enough people saw (this is called 'negative social proof' and is a very real and practically verifiable phenomenon).