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Introduction
10 simple habits that will increase your dating by 357.14%. Guaranteed!
... Or at least I guarantee that you will not get worse...
Most books or seduction guides will try to give you advice on what to do or say to women. They will tell you which techniques are best for you to get not only her, but any woman and almost instantaneously.
This guide is not about what to say to women, but focuses on creating a more attractive personality. It will not be instantaneous, it will take time, you'll never able conquer them all and many will reject you.
But if I can assure you one thing, it will work!
The reason most books do not work is because they do not address the underlying problem, instead they promote techniques that attempt to compensate for personality deficits. They seek to cover up the problem but not solve it, however your fears and insecurities are still there. It's like trying to cover the crack in the Titanic with a band aid. No matter how many you use, it will never be enough.
Those for whom these techniques will be necessary subconsciously feel they are not good enough to conquer them. Men who are most successful are those who do not see the woman above themselves. Thus the game becomes simple and natural.
That is why I faithfully believe that success with women is based on the development of our personality. Self-development and being an attractive man are inseparable. If you are failing with women, you are doing something wrong. In this guide I will present 10 different habits that will help you do so.
My history ... One of the hardest decisions of my life
"Our future depends on how we understand the past" - Gustavo Cerati (Argentine singer)
My name is Germn Mhlenberg and when I began my studies in seduction and social dynamics in 2008 my situation was very different than it is now.
Like many others who were involved in this subject, I had problems with women. Pursuing any woman who showed a bit of interest in me like a dog with two tails. I was the typical best friend while they were crying for their boyfriends.
My big dream was to find the girl of my dreams with whom I would be happy with the for the rest of my life. I know, I know. I know it sounds like the typical teen chick flick, but that was me.
Although some of them were interested at first, that attraction simply vanished.
I was really lost, had no idea what to do, and also blamed them . I considered them silly for being with boys that made them cry instead of me, being a good boy.
It was during a night of frustration that two men on a television program, Martin and Mike, announced that they were starting a seduction academy so I decided to sign up.
It was not easy and I admit it was strange. In addition, it hurt my pride as a "man" to study how to seduce women, something that was supposed to be innate, or at least that was what my parents and society had taught me, I say this, because it was something that was not taught in schools .
But I think the most difficult step was to admit that I had a problem.
That was eight years ago and since then, I have become a coach at the same academy and my life has become much more than just finding women. Obviously it was still part of my happiness, but not everything.
Developing myself in an attractive way does not mean for me to say the best lines or to have sex with the greatest number of women. But with a gradual growth of showing vulnerability, marking emotional boundaries, taking risks and making mistakes. It was not something that happened overnight.
To be perceived as attractive to a woman is directly proportional to the amount you have invested in, both physically and emotionally, yourself. Self-development and being an attractive man are inseparable. They are the same thing.
Women will be a consequence of a rich and substantial life. Completely . That's why I understand that women are not the most important thing in the world, but that they make up only part of it. Women are attracted to men who believe in themselves. Men who know what they want, live life with pride and do not let others dictate it.
I must say, starting to study seduction was one of my most difficult decisions of my life, but also one of the best.
Taking that first step helped to give me much more in different areas of my life.
Habit 1: Responsibility
The first lesson I learned in the art of seduction. Taking responsibility means that it can be my fault if something is not going the way I want.
Why? Because this will give us more control over our lives . If the fault can become ours then at least we can do something to change it.
Some examples:
If you are having problems with money, do not blame the economy.
If you are having problems with women, not blame them for being cold bitches.
If you are having problems with your business, do not blame the market.
I'm not saying these observations are all wrong but they are preferring to complaining and become victims rather than trying find a solution . Many people do this so to evade facing the blame for having failed.
Instead of believing that all women are cruel to reject us, we should investigate what the reasons might be. No (healthy) woman is going to want to reject you simply for fun.
Change the Why me? for What I can do about it?
Habit 2: Assume she likes you
Stop making excuses to go talk to her and assuming she will not be interested in you because of your own insecurities. Instead, believe that she is interested because you're an interesting person.
Some of the typical excuses:
She will not be interested
She is sure to have a boyfriend
She is out of my reach
I should continue reading and practicing
My biceps are not big enough
This does not mean that sometimes you're not right: Maybe she's not interested, maybe she has a boyfriend or maybe your biceps are not big enough yet. But to assume that she likes you will give you two advantages:
The first is that you are not even allowing yourself to try it when many of those ideas are a figment of your imagination. She really could be interested in you.
The second advantage is that you are going to start talking to her with a different attitude. It does not matter if it is talking to a woman, starting a new project or winning a football game. It is proven that having a positive, realistic attitude generates more assertiveness for the achievement of our goals.
So every time you see a girl you like, say "hello", from me.
I'll take a break here as I do not want to sound like typical uplifting books. To assume that someone likes us in itself is vague and superficial. It would be impossible to achieve this in a real and consistent way if we do not invest in ourselves and have no projects or ambitions.
As I say in Seduction Simplified : How attractive we are to women is directly proportional to the amount of energy we have invested in ourselves, both physically and emotionally. If we have a strong appreciation for ourselves, it is difficult for us to meet someone whom we believe is not within our reach.
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