German Muhlenberg - How to Talk to Girls Simplified: 3 Steps How to Have Her at Hello and Attract Women Through Honesty

Openers

Welcome!

In response to the majority of questions that other readers ask me, I will provide some openers on how to start an effective conversation with a woman here. To begin, get close to a girl or a group of girls and say:

Hey there, I need a female opinion! , and then:

What do you guys think about ending a relationship with a text message?

In a fight to the death between ALF and ET, who would win? (Or whatever fictitious characters occur to you).

Sex or Chocolate? (Or whatever topic that you can debate on).

If you say I love you when youre drunk, does it count?

And thats it, this is where the book ends.

Good luck!

...

...

...

What? Too short for a book?

But theyre openers, and they work!

Did you expect new, infallible phrases?! Ok, Im going to tell you a story.

There was once, a long time ago, a boy who was not very outgoing and had a big problem. He was unable to strike up a conversation with a girl without getting nervous and he never knew what to say.

He started reading books about seduction, studying social skills, and learning from others who knew more. So when he went out to bars with them and saw them being successful he always asked them:

"What did you say to that girl?"

"What was your opener with that other girl?"

"How did you start the conversation?"

Oh yeah! This guy was asking many questions...

And what happened?!

What happened is that he began to write and create his own lines according to what others had told him was working for them.

He wrote and wrote constantly for a really long time.

He wrote and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...

He wrote and he also practiced a lot too...

He wrote and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote

...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wroteand wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote...and wrote

He wrote...he wrote...he wrote...

He wrote...he wrote...he wrote...

He wrote...he wrote...he wrote...

And what happened?!

Unlike the others these phrases did not work for him.

As you know, this boy was me a long time ago (and if you didnt know, now you do). As it was with me many guys also start out with no idea what to say to girls. The truth is that today when I talk to a girl I have no idea what I am saying most of the time.

It is known that only 20% of human communication takes place purely through words and the rest is your attitude, body language, vibe, presence and so on. The important thing is not "WHAT" we say but "HOW" we say it. Nevertheless, the questions are always the same: What do I tell them? , How do I start a conversation?

These guys make the mistake of trying to make that 20% of the equation their entire focus.

I could give you hundreds of phrases and questions to repeat which could sound "nice". The issue is that I doubt theyre really that useful. I mean it, you could find thousands of phrases in blogs or forums but none of them will really get you the results you seek.

Why?

Because when youre sitting and chilling in your home like you could be right now these phrases might sound attractive and interesting, like they would suit any situation. But when youre at a bar or a club... or on a battlefield as many see it ... everything changes because were nervous. Often the timing the or place isnt right .

Maybe the correct question is:

What is it that we are feeling when we communicate with her? What is our mentality? What do we transmit? These are the most appropriate questions when starting a conversation.

Because it is much more powerful to BE something attractive than to SAY something attractive. That should be our goal.

Problems with looking for the perfect phrase

At first, when I was just beginning in the field of seduction, I had a notebook full of phrases with which I could start a conversation until I finally kissed the girl. My notes were written, crossed out and rewritten. I tried to perfect them until I was as tired as if I had tried to find the perfect algorithm for picking girls up.