Rom Wills - Meeting Attractive Women

One thing to consider in describing the Attractive Woman is the old adage, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. In other words what is beautiful and attractive to one man is butt ugly to another man. For example, to a white man from a solid middle class background, the epitome of beauty is a slim woman with a pretty face and big breasts. A Black man from a poor background may consider a woman with a big round butt to be extremely attractive even though her face and breasts are plain.

I define an Attractive Woman as first someone whose appeal crosses racial, nationality, and socio-economic boundaries. She can walk into a room with men of all races and backgrounds and most of them would find her attractive. The woman will most likely have an hourglass figure, which is the most universally desirable female shape. Her body will tend to be mesomorphic not skinny but not fat. Her facial features will be decidedly feminine. Her physical features are the first consideration as men are visual creatures and no amount of political correctness or social engineering is going to change this reality.

The second trait to consider is their persona. The most common thing Ive found with Attractive Women is that they have distinctly feminine personas. In fact, I would argue that its their persona that makes them attractive. Weve all seen women who had the physical features of an Attractive Woman. They had the pretty face and body, but we still didnt feel that jolt. In some cases we managed to meet and date them anyway but something was still missing. We found that the women were cold and mean. Let me share a piece of wisdom: the thing that makes someone attractive, female or male, is not the physical package though this is very important. What makes someone attractive is his or her inner qualities. For example, you have identical twin girls with beautiful faces and shapely bodies. Yet one is considered a seven while the other is considered a ten. Why is this when they are physically identical? The seven keeps a mean look on her face. She wears her hair in a bun and wears loose clothing which hides her figure. The seven also behaves in a slightly masculine manner. The ten on the other hand wears her hair out and has light makeup and lipstick. The ten wears clothing and shoes that show off her body shape. Finally, the ten behaves in a decidedly feminine manner.

So we have thus defined an Attractive Woman as someone with a universally pleasing bone and body structure enhanced by a distinctly feminine persona. The third piece of the puzzle relates to her personal interests. The stereotypes of Attractive Women are that they are airheads with nothing better to do but sit around and look good. I have yet to meet an Attractive Woman with nothing going on upstairs. It may seem that way initially. You happen to get into a conversation with a beautiful woman and quite frankly she has nothing to say. You immediately think shes an airhead. What really happened is that society projects certain personality traits onto Attractive Women and attractive men as well. Society says that these beautiful people are vain and shallow. So when one meets an Attractive Woman the expectation is that she is shallow. Thus your conversation will only touch on shallow subjects because thats your expectation. The conversation will probably stay shallow until the woman decides to discuss deeper subjects.

The point is that Attractive Women have the same interests as other people. Ive met Attractive Women who can discuss politics like they are Sunday morning talk show hosts and others who could discuss obscure trivia from Star Trek . These women are not cardboard cutouts. They are flesh and blood individuals who eat, sleep, and fart like everyone else.

The final piece of the puzzle I find most fascinating is that these women tend to be lonely. Yes, they do get plenty of date offers but they usually run into men who feel the need to flash money or play games. The men arent thinking about the womans intellectual ability or her personal interests. The womans sexual needs may or may not be met yet she is consistently left high and dry as far as her emotional needs. The men trying to have sex with her dont care about her church activities or her comic book collection.