PUA Freeman - The Art of Seduction: How to Make Her Want You

By PUA Freeman

Copyright www.PowerfullyConfident.com 2016

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Not many men would admit to it but approaching a beautiful woman they are attracted to is perhaps one of the scariest and most daunting things they could ever imagine doing. The fear of rejection can almost be paralyzing for so many guys, many of whom are highly successful and confident in other areas of their lives.

PUA Freeman is a dating and attraction coach who runs self-confidence Bootcamps in major cities all around the world. Teaching men how to approach and talk to women.

Forget everything you think you have heard about game and pick up. This book is not about manipulating or tricking girls into bed. Powerfully Confident Bootcamps teach men how to have the drive and passion to go after what they want while having the heart and integrity to be the sort of genuine guy that women dream of one day meeting.

If you are ready to get off the fence and go after the life you really desire then this book could be one of the most important discoveries of your life.

Discover:

1. How to become fearless with the opposite sex.
2. How to make a powerfully attractive first impression.
3. A complete body language overhaul.
4. NLP secrets that make your words magnetic.
5. How to open, engage and get her number within 60 seconds.
6. How you become the man that all women dream of meeting.
7. How, by applying all this you can make the world your playground.

What is needed, rather than running away or controlling or suppressing or any other resistance, is understanding fear; that means, watch it, learn about it, come directly into contact with it. We are to learn about fear, not how to escape from it, Jiddu Krishnamurti

When guys turn up for a Powerfully Confident Bootcamp they are often shaking with fear. The brave decision to attend this extreme and unusual form of personal development training seemed like a good idea at the time, when it was just a payment window on a computer screen. But then in the cold light of day, when we are standing face to face many want nothing more than to tell me to keep the money and just let them go home. To date only one student has bailed out, this is testament to just how important this training is to the many men who go through the process with me each year.

A Powerfully Confident Bootcamp is a two-day training program with me and no more than two other likeminded students. We start with a process that I call the Deep Dive, this is where we talk about fear and those intense feelings of anxiety that prevent guys from laying it all on the line and going after the girl they really want. After I listen to stories that are often very common and similar to one and another I start the Bootcamp with the bad news. I inform my students that one day, no matter what they do they are going to die. Regardless of the decisions they make there will come a time when all the things that they worried about will mean nothing to anybody. All the stress about the opposite sex, all the anxiety spent worrying about what other people may think of them and all the misdirected energy will be a blissful irrelevance.

Fear is a protective reaction of the human mind; it is there to serve a purpose. When you approach the edge of a tall building, fear is very much your best friend. This action of the central nervous system will dramatically extend the duration of your life in situations like that. Where this process falls down is where it tried to protect you in environments where you are not really at risk. Walking up to a beautiful woman that you are attracted to and simply talking to her does not put your life at risk and yet our mind tells us that we are doing something very dangerous. Often it will put our limbs into a state of paralysis to force us to avoid the danger. If you have ever attempted to approach a girl when you feel like this and have experienced just how intense the sensations of panic are you will understand that I am not exaggerating here. A recent survey has revealed that the number one biggest fear in America today is public speaking; do you know what came in second? Death was the second most common fear. What this tells us is that people fear speaking in public more than they fear dying!

This may at first glace appear to be a rather silly thought process but in my experience of teaching this material I have often seen that the more intelligent the man the more they experience fear. The biggest threat to your ability to approach and attract women is thinking, or better put thinking too much. My goal in working with students is to get them to the point when they operate entirely subconsciously around women; I want them to get to the point where they very seldom make a conscious decision to approach. You will see from the in field videos at my website that some of the best approaches I make are done with zero planning or forethought. When I find myself talking to a hot woman and I have no idea how I got there, this is a beautiful feeling. In this moment I know I am operating from the most powerful part of my mind, the subconscious.

Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life.

Almost everything--all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.

Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.

No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet, death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it, and that is how it should be, because death is very likely the single best invention of life. It's life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new, Steve Jobs

Back when I first started out in the media industry as a cocky seventeen-year-old boy, I remember once being interviewed by a local newspaper. I had just been appointed as the new breakfast presenter for Radio Wyvern, in Worcestershire a town near the southern Welsh border with England. At the time I was the youngest morning show host in the country and the pressure was on me to mature fast but also to quickly demonstrate that I was worthy of the risk some poor misguided programme director had taken by putting such a total newbie in this enormous position of power. The newspaper article had been arranged as a favor for the boss and so it was only ever going to be a light hearted affair. I didnt need to be too careful what I said because the journalist had been asked to write something that was nothing much more than a complimentary commercial for my new breakfast show. The depth and weight of those questions would hardly tax me further than whats your favorite color.

It quickly became apparent that I was going to be given twenty harmless if somewhat inane questions to pad out an article about me that they would probably bury somewhere on page thirty seven, just next to the classified ads for surgical support stockings and lost pets. I answered each question quickly and honestly. The journalist would listen to my reply, sigh and scribble something down my reply on his note pad. After four or five questions I realized that I was boring the guy to death. Hey I was seventeen years old, nobody had told me how to speak to the press or even how to answer trivia about myself.

I decided I was going to have to spice up my answers and try to be a little more of a personality, after all I was guessing that was all this poor journo was clinging to for ammunition to write what might be the most tedious piece of copy in his career. After a few more questions I felt like I was doing a little better, the journalist had smiled once and raised his eyebrows a few times. This, I decided meant that I was either doing really well or really bad, I wouldnt know for sure until I saw the actual newspaper the next day or I got called to the boss office for the hair dryer treatment.