Craig Beck - Powerfully Confident First Dates: Dating Confidence for Men

By PUA Freeman

Copyright Viral Success Limited 2015

ISBN: 978-1-329-72684-0

www.PowerfullyConfident.com

The first date is the ultimate chance for you as a man to demonstrate your alpha status in the world. This is the perfect opportunity to show her all your amazing qualities and confirm to her that you really are the valuable strong male that she hoped you would be.

Unless she saw these qualities in you then she would never have agreed to a date in the first place. Women are genetically programmed to seek out strength and value in men. The first date is where you must seal the deal and not fail the many tests your date is going to throw at you over this first hour of your relationship.

Being Powerfully Confident on a first date means:

• The best way to make a perfect first impression.
• Knowing who you are and what you want.
• Taking total control of the date.
• Making her smile and feel comfortable around you.
• Gently teasing and testing her.
• Generating passion and desire easily.
• Interrupting her patterns so you become a unique male.

In this book Freeman leads you minute by minute through the first date and reveals how you take total control and most importantly have fun! Follow the advice here and you will become the most amazing and uniquely confident first date she ever had.

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The first date can be the magical beginning of a rewarding relationship or the disastrous premature end. Sadly most guys make common mistakes on a first date purely because they fail to be aware that women think and feel very differently to men. I have broken the book down by timescale, starting with the first impression through to how you bring the date to an end after an hour or so.

You might be wondering why I restrict the date to one hour and the reason is that in my experience this is the optimum maximum duration. Whether the date is good, bad or indifferent one hour is the perfect time to spend together. In the worst case scenario, if you are unimpressed by your date and dont feel enough attraction to take it further I believe you can still have a nice time with anybody for an hour out of your day. Your date will have spent time getting ready and possibly spent money to get to your agreed upon location, the least you can do is have a drink and a chat before going your separate ways.

If you are having an amazing time and your date is laughing, smiling and lapping up your attention. Then despite what you may want in that moment, at the peak of the date you should make your excuses and end the date. She will be a little bit disappointed and perhaps even shocked but this is exactly the reaction you are looking for. Most guys will not do something like this and everything you do on a first date should be about demonstrating that you are not just every other guy, you are something unique, something special. If you close the date at this point I guarantee that she is going to be thinking about you intensely for days afterwards. Later we will talk about how you set up the second date, when you do it and why it is never a good idea to do it on the first date.

No matter what happens on the date and regardless of whether you want to see her again it is vital that you are the one to decide when it ends. If you leave it so long that she stands up and says she has to go, this is evidence that you have failed to establish control of the date. You are not acting as an alpha male and you have submissively given the girl all your power. I know this all sounds a bit Neanderthal but while the western world has gradually been feminized and made more and more politically correct our DNA has not moved so quickly. Men and women are genetically programmed to respond in a certain specific way. Women want strong, confident men who know what they want. During the initial phases of attraction you are being intensely scrutinized to see if you fit this description. Whether women are conscious of what they are doing or not, the first date is a test.

Here are just a few of the things women notice during a first date:

• Whether you took charge of where and when you are meeting.
• Every details of your clothing from shoes & socks to necktie it is all observed and considered.
• How you walk
• How you talk
• How you hold yourself
• How you treat the waiter or barman
• Your manners & etiquette
• How you talk about your parents and family
• How you talk about your ex
• If you offer to pay or insist on going Dutch
• How often you go out socializing
• How many friends you have
• What you do in your free time
• How successful in your career you are
• Whether you will do as she asks
• How you respond to her tests

The list goes on and on, all while us guys are busy thinking wow she has great tits. We are often totally oblivious to the spotlight we are under. This might sound like the woman is the only one doing the validating. That is not true but all too often guys go home after what they thought was an amazing date with a sexy girl and then get frustrated and confused when she never replies to a text message again. In 99% of these occasions the man was unaware that he was under a subconscious examination and he failed for one or many unknown reasons.

In this master class we are going to discover all the trapdoors in the process and show you how to not only sidestep them but we will completely turn the tables on your date. After you finish with this book it will be you doing the validating and the girl who has to do all the impressing. You will become the date she raves about to her friends. Just as soon as you start implementing the techniques described in this book you are going to become powerfully confident on any first date.

As the saying goes you only get one chance to make a first impression and this has never been truer than when it comes to dating. It is claimed that two people will decide within seven seconds if they are attracted to each other. This doesnt mean that if you dont like each other instantly that there can never be an attraction, I have been on many dates where the girl I am talking to gets more and more attractive the more time we spend together. However, starting from a position of not attractive makes life a lot harder, you are going to have to work very diligently during the next hour to win her over. The good news is that with a little knowledge it is significantly easier to change a womans opinion than it is a guys.

Men are visual creatures; we look at women and decide if we want them. Of course women do the same but it is less black and white with them. They are more concerned with how this other person makes them feel than exclusively being focused on looks and physical appearance. Because of this difference between the sexes I refer to men as a switches and women as dials. Guys are either on or off but women are attracted to you on a scale of zero to one hundred, and this number will constantly fluctuate based on what you do, say and a variety of other subconscious behaviors picked up upon by the woman.

It should be obvious that if you make a powerful first impression on your date and she starts with her attraction dial at 50%, then you are going to have a much more fun and productive time than if you go in on a cold 10%. This is why you need to put some effort into maximizing the impact of that first meeting. Some guys bitch and moan about the prospect of having to do work in this area and state things like this is who I am, she can take it or leave it. This is true of course but the problem is she will do exactly that! What is the point of stubbornly sticking to your scruffy t-shirt and jeans combo if it repels women. Dating is time consuming and often expensive, commit to doing everything you can to ensure that you are always investing in quality experiences with women of value.