Craig Beck - Alcohol Lied to Me: How to Stop Drinking and Get the Real You Back

Alcohol Lied to Me: The Intelligent Way to Escape Alcohol Addiction

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This book reflects the personal experience of the author. It is not intended as a substitute for professional assistance but describes a program to be undertaken only under the supervision of a medical doctor or other qualified healthcare professional. Individual results may vary.

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Introduction

Craig Beck is a well-regarded family man with two children, a lovely home, and a successful media career. He is the Director of several companies, and at one time was the trustee of a large childrens charity. Craig was a successful and functioning professional man in spite of a two bottles of wine a night drinking habit. For 20 years, he struggled with problem drinking, all the time refusing to label himself an alcoholic because he did not think he met the stereotypical image that the word portrayed.

He tried numerous ways to cut down, attempting dry months, banning himself from drinking spirits, only drinking on the weekend and on special occasions (and found that it is astonishing how even the smallest of occasions can suddenly become special).

All these willpower-based attempts to stop drinking failed, exactly as they were destined to do. Slowly he discovered the truth about alcohol addiction, and one by one, all the lies he had previously believed started to fall apart. For the first time, he noticed that he genuinely did not want to drink anymore. In this book, he will lead you through the same remarkable process.

The Craig Beck method is unique:

No need to declare yourself an alcoholic.

A permanent cure, not a lifetime struggle.

No group meetings or expensive rehab.

No humiliation, no pain, and 100% no willpower required.

Treats the source of the problem, not the symptoms.

Alcohol Lied to Me has already helped thousands of people to escape from alcohol addiction. It has been translated into several different languages and has topped bestseller charts around the world. Newly updated, this third edition of the book includes two new chapters.

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Chapter 1: Do You Have a Problem with Alcohol?

Most people pick up this book wanting to know, Do I have a problem? Some are hoping this book will allow them to conclude that they are doing nothing wrong and now conveniently have some written evidence to back up and endorse the continuation of their habit. Others are aware that they are no longer in control and want help to stop drinking and to stay quit. Stopping drinking, as we all know, is the easy bit. Staying permanently off the alcohol is the real problem.

So lets answer that initial burning question: Do you have a problem with alcohol?

Yes, but there is not actually anyone who drinks alcohol that doesnt have a problem. Alcohol is in itself a problem and not a solution (as many believe it to be). Therefore, if this substance is in your life in any form, you cannot help but have a problem. As you will discover in this book, alcohol is an addictive toxin packaged into attractive bottles, marketed with billions of dollars of advertising, and so deeply ingrained in popular culture that we can no longer see it for what it really is.

One thing you will quickly discover is that people get very upset when you criticize this drug; they dont even like you referring to it as a drug! Your alcohol-drinking friends would tell me to stop being so melodramatic. They will probably argue that many millions of people around the world manage to enjoy alcohol responsibly, and it doesnt negatively affect their lives in the slightest. Some might go further to suggest that for some, the occasional drink improves or enhances their life. However, this counter-argument to my opening gambit only holds water if you suspend the reality that alcohol is actually a poison created from the by-product of decaying vegetable waste.

This book is all about opening your eyes to what is going on behind the smoke and mirrors of alcohol. In truth, alcohol is a poison (a registered poison no less)! So with that fact in mind, how can anyone argue that the habitual consumption of poison is a positive thing?

Many people find this concept tricky to accept initially because we are conditioned to see alcohol, not as a poison, but merely a harmless social pleasantry. So for the sake of argument, lets replace the poison used in this argument with a different toxin, hydrogen cyanide, for example. Imagine how illogical it would be to try and defend the consumption of cyanide!

Would you say that someone who only consumes cyanide infrequently was a social user of the chemical? Yet this is exactly what we do with alcohol. Of course, your first response to this will probably be an objection to the comparison. Many will complain that cyanide will kill you stone dead, whereas alcohol just makes you merry. It is true that neat cyanide will kill you, but then so will 100% pure alcohol. Heavily diluted cyanide wont kill you, but it will make you very ill. Are we really a million miles away as comparisons go?

Once you become aware that the emperor isnt actually wearing any clothes, and realize that alcohol is none of the things the marketing suggests it is, only then can you start to deconstruct some of the popular language surrounding its use. We talk of these normal and social drinkers, the people who can consume alcohol at parties and social occasions but dont appear to be dependent on it to remain functional. Of course, even the most hardened alcoholic at some point was what we would describe as a social drinker. Before the mousetrap of alcoholism snapped closed on them, they were considered just as normal as the next guy. The poor problem drinkers looked at them and wondered why they couldnt drink for fun, just like them.

And so the cycle of addiction continues. Social drinkers slowly become alcohol-dependent problem drinkers, and instantly in the eyes of society, they stop being normal and become weak-willed, pitifully sad people who, for some reason, cant consume an addictive toxin and stay in control of it. Alcohol is many things, but it is certainly not the life-enhancing, glitzy elixir that the advertising agencies would have us believe or that generations have passed down in collectively endorsed lies.

We believe that alcohol makes a party go with a swing, and yet the next day, we happily use words of destruction to describe what a great time we had. We stare out from bloodshot eyes, with a tongue feeling like a butchers chopping block, and gleefully report that last night we were slaughtered or any one of a hundred other different terrible adjectives that now apparently mean something good happened.

The alcohol industry wants you to believe that simply drinking their specific brand of attractively packaged poison will turn you into the next Brad Pitt or Elle MacPherson. In reality, we know how good a drunk actually looks to us when we are sober. Whether they are male or female, there is perhaps nothing less attractive than having someone come up to you stinking of alcohol, slurring a badly thought out chat-up line, as a little bit of saliva drips from the corner of their mouth. Does it really make you a sex symbol if you have to use a drug to get the opposite sex to sleep with you? Forget the advertising spiel, the only way you can get you more sex while on alcohol is to find someone who is equally as drunk as you.

The more you think about what you are doing, the more ridiculous it appears. We create lots of distractions to avoid the truth about this drug. We claim it is essential to a good party; we think it makes food taste better, and we connect it to social standing. You must surely have heard that being able to pay astronomical amounts of money for your alcohol makes you a connoisseur and a person who appreciates the finer things in life (not an alcoholic). Listen to a wine expert talk about the latest vintage to come out of the Bordeaux region, and you would think they were describing bottled sex. They talk of a seductive nose and a robust body with a hint of dark chocolate and wild berries.