PUA Freeman - Destroy Approach Anxiety: Being Fearlessly Confident with Women

By PUA Freeman

Copyright Viral Success Limited 2016

ISBN: 978-1-329-51094-4

www.PowerfullyConfident.com

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Imagine being able to approach any hot woman in any location. Whether you are in the supermarket, Starbucks grabbing a coffee or filling the car with gas there are always opportunities to meet, attract and seduce stunningly beautiful women. However, if like many guys you lack the confidence to approach in these situations then most of these opportunities are going to pass you by.

Forget about cheesy pick up lines, gimmicks and routines. These may work in a nightclub when the alcohol is flowing and girls expect a little peacocking from the men. In natural everyday situations you need to be able to approach like the warm, intelligent and real person that you are.

This unique day game masterclass deals with cold approach. This is where you learn the skills to directly approach and talk to any girl you are attracted to. You will develop the inner belief to overcome approach anxiety and make a powerfully positive impact with any woman you desire. No matter where she is, who she is with or what she is doing.

Discover:

• How to overcome approach anxiety
• What to say and how to say it
• How to close the deal
• Turning rejection into a positive
• Stealth FBI level body language secrets
• Be the best thing that happened to her that day
• Secret daytime direct approach techniques that work

You may think that hot women are getting approached by guys all the time. However, the reality is often a long way from this common assumption. Most guys simply do not have the balls to lay themselves open like that. Even in the more traditional dating battlegrounds such as bars and clubs most guys need a few cold glasses of Dutch courage before they will approach a girl.

This book is not dealing with these environments but rather the daytime opportunities to meet beautiful girls that come and go every day. These situations are real and often cause guys real challenges to face their fears. Unlike a nightclub where there is an expectation on the guys to hit on the girls, this is different. You are really stepping out there and making a bold statement in a non-traditional environment.

Virtually every woman expects to get hit on in a nightclub; in fact many would be highly offended if they didnt. Think about it from her point of view. Imagine you spent hours getting ready, planning every detail from the combination of colors in your outfit to how you are going to wear your hair, what accessories and jewelry to put with the dress and then how best to do your make up and hair to fit in with the plan. Then after all that effort, not one guy finds you attractive enough to try and pick you up. Us guys dont really have a mental concept of this because its generally a lot different for us. Perhaps a shower, shave, nice shirt and our favorite trousers is the most effort many will ever get to. We are more likely to feel this type of rejection when we are already in a relationship. I remember a few years ago, my girlfriend at the time had arranged for us to visit an art gallery with her work colleagues. I knew the dress code was only smart casual but I decided I wanted to impress her. I visited the hairdresser, had a professional shave at a local Turkish barber, I picked out my favorite suit, pressed it and matched it up with a stylish pair of Italian leather shoes. I finished the look off with my most elegant Breitling watch and inspected myself in the mirror.

I will hold my hand up and say that when I am in a relationship I can lean toward a fairly constant jeans and a tee look. So I was feeling pretty proud of the way I had dressed up for my girl and I my expectations of a great reaction from her was high. So, when I knocked on her front door and stood back to take in the flood of praise and admiration I have to admit to being a little more than crushed when she didnt even notice. She glanced at me and said oh good you are here, lets get going so we can find a parking space. This is the sort of rejection that women open themselves up to everyday.

We will deal with approaching women when they are in social mindset in a different book. Right here and now we are concentrating on approaching girls when they are perhaps not expecting it or consciously prepared for approaches. In my personal opinion this puts you in a much stronger position than when you are competing with all the other guys (in a nightclub for instance) and when her defenses are raised. What I am saying is that the woman waiting to be served at the bar in a club expects to get hit on, the girl picking out pasta sauce in the supermarket doesnt and it is this status quo that we use to our advantage.

To approach in daylight, non-social environments there are 7 important elements to consider.

1. Preparation
2. Timing
3. Observation
4. Delivery
5. Detachment
6. Closing
7. Repetition

I am going to go into each step in detail but the first thing to be aware of is that each point is important and if you want to be successful you cant afford to be weak in any area.

There is no doubt about it, approaching a hot woman is the most difficult aspect of the whole process but the approach on its own is not going to get you her number. If you walk up to a woman and just stare at her the chances are she will be reaching for her cell phone for an entirely different purpose. You need to be prepared to have a conversation with her. What I do not mean is that you have a rehearsed pick up line ready to go. Sure its handy to have a few openers that you can fall back on but in the most part an observation or question is more likely to portray you as a genuine guy rather than the stereotypical cheesy lounge lizard who uses pick up routines.

We will talk about this in more detail when we get to point three but I will state it here as well because it is so important. Your observation should never be a physical or sexual one. Do not ever tell the girl with amazing long legs that she has amazing long legs. It is blindingly predictable, paints you in a very bad light and automatically raises her shields to DEFCON 5.

Notice something unique about her or what she is doing. When I advise women on how to talk to hot guys I give an example of a practically bulletproof environment where any woman can approach a guy and get away with it. Guys in clothes shops always appreciate the advice of girls. I tell ladies to notice what the guy is looking at and genuinely tell him how he would look in that particular item of clothing. I suggest they can say things like You should definitely buy that, the color is perfect for your skin tone. Guys are pretty slow at realizing that they are being hit on and so there is always an easy escape from the situation if the woman decides not to proceed any further (perhaps he is not quite as hot close up). They can always throw in the old my boyfriend has the same top and he has a similar build to you. Although due to the law of scarcity that we talked about in the first book this often can have the opposite effect as intended.

Summary: Be prepared to talk, have something to say, have an opinion and have questions. You may very well have to lead the conversation but talking at the woman is not the objective. Your goal is to engage her in conversation, so that she enjoys talking to you and sharing her opinions with the nice friendly guy she just met.

Approach anxiety is real and it is the thing most likely to prevent you from getting a girls number. Hey, if you dont approach at all your chances of success are a guaranteed zero. Even if you approach the most beautiful woman on planet earth who is out shopping with her millionaire boyfriend you have a better chance of scoring than the girl you didnt approach at all.