Powerfully Confident with Women: How to Develop Magnetically Attractive Self Confidence
By PUA Freeman
Copyright www.PowerfullyConfident.com 2016
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Imagine being able to confidently interact, impress and attract everyone you meet, especially beautiful women. This book will teach you the skills to always make a vigorously positive first impression and be an instant and obvious leader in all situations. This life-changing book shows you how to make a dramatic paradigm shift to accelerate through the three phases of male maturation to become serenely comfortable in your own skin. Discover the secrets to embracing your strengths and skillfully harnessing them to attain maximum leverage on life. At the same time learn how to accept and make peace with your weaknesses so that they no longer prevent you from living the life you truly desire.
Itunes bestselling personal development author and founder of PowerfullyConfident.com Freeman reveals you how to become a commanding alpha male who is irresistibly desired by women and respected by all.
Discover:
- How to create massive positive change in your life
- How to destroy approach anxiety with women
- Become fearless even with the hottest girls
- How to make other people feel amazing.
- Become the man that all women want.
- Why you must strive to join the top 5% of all men.
- How to make the world your playground
Every man should read this book at least once, but most wont its much safer to stay hidden in the comfort zone.
Chapter One The Three Stages of Man
Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life.
Almost everything--all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.
Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet, death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it, and that is how it should be, because death is very likely the single best invention of life. It's life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new, Steve Jobs
Bond, James Bond the epitome of the Powerfully Confident man. An alpha male who has an unapologetic approach to everything in life. He achieves this state of confidence without the need to lower himself to insults or nastiness. You have never seen 007 ask a woman for anything, he always tells her what he wants. Of course if you do this from a position of disrespect then you may get the same compliance but you are not acting as a socially evolved man.
There are three stages of development for most men who set out on this journey. Virtually every guy who buys this or any of the other amazing life changing products available from PowerfullyConfident.com (wink) started out as a nice guy. Perhaps you are still at the nice guy stage?
This is the point where you are being super nice and kind to girls and you are quite frankly getting nowhere. Dont feel bad if this is where you are because you are a victim of your good upbringing. Your mother probably brought you up well and told you to be polite to girls and treat them well. One or more of the most influential people in your life has told you to be the knight in shining armor. Am I correct in saying that this approach is a complete failure? I already know the answer because I have been there. The nice guy phase is the most likely cause of your condoms expiring before you get chance to use them.
Sadly things are going to get worse before they get better because the next phase is what I call the Confident Dickhead phase. This is the point where you realize that you never had anything to be afraid of when it comes to women and you subconsciously get angry that you spent so much of your life being terrified to even approach them. To your surprise the more of a dick you become the more girls want you. You mistake this success for believing that you have arrived at your rightful throne as king of the studs. While it is true that you are now getting lots of attention and sex you cant get away from the reality that you are still acting out of slavery to your own selfish needs. You are still lingering after the approval of other people, especially women.
Of one thing I am sure, on your journey through life you will meet an awful lot of nice guys and nearly as many Confident Dickheads, but very few guys who have made it all the way to the third phase of what I call, for want of a better description Peacefully, Powerfully Confident. The final stage is difficult to achieve because you have to ignore the success you are experiencing as a Dickhead and see the deeper reality. Dont misunderstand me, there is nothing wrong with spending five to ten years of your life playing the field as a bad boy but dont get trapped in this window or you will just become a bitter and lonely old man. At some point you are going to be sitting in the middle of what you once would have described as being heaven, perhaps in bed with two Swedish blondes and suddenly you will be aware how hollow and empty the whole experience feels.
Eighty percent of the guys you know will never experience this sexual feast because they will always be stuck at the nice guy stage of life. What happens to most guys is they never really conquer their fear of women and after they go through the utter devastation of being painfully rejected by girls a few times they lower their standards and by way of protecting themselves from further rejection they settle of the first safe ride that comes along. Walk through the mall on a Saturday and you will see these guys everywhere, walking hand in hand with a woman three times the size of them. Their heads bowed in defeat, their face a picture of resignation. You may see nice, sweet guys be ordered about and lambasted by angry looking women and wonder why does he put up with it?
For these men the pain of being rejected by a beautiful woman is actually far worse than the tedium of a long term relationship with someone they dont feel threatened by. Of course it works both ways, there are just as many women punching under their weight through low self-esteem or previous relationship traumas.
Fifteen percent of guys out there have the perseverance and drive to push themselves off nice guy planet and make it to the promised land of Dickheadium. What a beautiful moment this is as a previously supplicating nice guy realizes that the social deck is actually stacked in his favor and not the other way around, as it had always appeared. Life changes overnight as he suddenly realizes that the guys dont have to earn the attention of women, it is the women who must work to get a little of our precious time. They start laying down the law and making girls beg and do little tricks just to win a little of their attention and of course while they are busy having an amazing time they are unaware of the fact that they have become a grade A twat in the process. Half the guys in this phase will eventually find a positive way out while the remainder will sadly remain Confident Dickheads for the rest of their life, only to eventually become someones slightly creepy and pervy old uncle there is one in every family!
Only five percent of men will eventually become peacefully, powerfully confident individuals. These guys are completely comfortable in their own skin. They know and understand what their strengths are and they leverage them to maximum effect. Perhaps more importantly they have accepted and made peace with their weaknesses. They are not threatened by other males and do not need the approval or validation of any other human being including women. Lots of magical things start to happen when a man grows into this mature phase. Perhaps most significantly they start to operate altruistically, instead of constantly looking for what they are going to get out of an interaction with another person. They start to look for ways to enhance the life of that other person instead, however brief that encounter may be.