Robbie Dyer - Sex Guide: Sex Guide for Men. The Complete Guide on How to Have Sex and Sex Positions

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H ave you ever heard of the seven-second myth regarding men and sex? According to this myth, men think about sex every second seconds, which means it adds up to about 7200 times in a day, on the assumption that they are awake for 14 hours.

Several studies, however, refute this myth, saying 7200 times a day is an exaggeration. A study conducted at the Ohio State University revealed that, on the average, a mans thoughts are generally dominated by indulgent impulses such as sleeping and eating. As a result, he thinks about sex 19 times in a day or, going by the 14-hour-wakefulness scenario, once every 90 or so minutes.

But if we look at the results of the study of Wilhelm Hoffman, with German males as their sample, it would appear that men think about sex only once a day, taking a backseat to other more pressing issues such as eating, drinking, sleeping, and even personal hygiene.

Regardless of how often men think about sex, there is no escaping the fact that they DO think about it, and about doing it. But thinking and actually doing it are two different things. The most basic act of sex had always had procreation as the ultimate end, although people also view it now as a means of making a connection and experiencing pleasure.

At one point or another, every man had experienced doubts about their sexual prowess. Are they doing it right? Was it as good for their partner as it was for them? What if his partner was just forging the orgasm? Does it make the grade under the realms of great sex? These are only a few of the many thoughts and uncertainties that men often think about (and these thoughts probably occur every seven seconds, if that rule is to be believed).

Sexual satisfaction is something men strive for both for himself and his partner and, regardless of his level of experience on the subject and in the act itself, they can use all the help they can get.

B asically, foreplay entails acts the man has to perform to prep or get his partner ready for the sexual act. It can range from petting and kissing to all-out necking or even performing oral sex. Fortunately for men, the responsibility for foreplay no longer rests entirely on their shoulders because women also actively participate in foreplay.

While some may argue that they do not need to get primed and get it on, many deem foreplay to be necessary. It could be because they want the woman to become properly lubricated to reduce or eliminate any discomfort when the time for penetration comes. There is also the fact that some men take longer to have an erection; hence foreplay is obligatory to get things revved up. There are also those who want to achieve maximum pleasure by drawing out the whole thing and taking as much time as possible on foreplay. According to many couples, orgasms become much more explosive after fully stimulated by well-performed and perfectly timed foreplay.

Foreplay is also the perfect excuse to relax nerves. According to Ian Kremer, writer of She Comes First: The Thinking Mans Guide to Pleasuring a Woman, women should be stress-free in order for them to enjoy sex. If they enjoy sex, it follows that the men will also derive great satisfaction from it.

If you are still wondering whether you should go through foreplay or not, keep in mind that women appreciate a man that takes the time to prime her up. Some men may find the interval to be quite boring and take a lot of time, but youd feel a lot better (and more satisfied) afterward.

The Art of Kissing

Usually, the first expression of ones desire is through a kiss. Unfortunately, this is also the part that many men usually overlook, as evidenced by the great number of women who complain about the lack of kissing.

Kissing is the most effective form of foreplay, tangling and dueling tongues that mimic the sexual act you will be engaging in a little later. But dont just limit yourself to kissing your partner on the mouth. Make it a point to use your kiss and tongue action on other parts of her body, heightening the effects of the kiss by touches and caresses. The more passionate your kiss is, the more effective it will be.

Getting Started.

Sure, you may opt to skip the preliminaries and get the act done. You may derive a lot of satisfaction from that. But you are looking for great sex, and rushing things does not make for great sex.

Setting the Mood.

Look at foreplay as the bottom of a road leading up to the top of the hill. You make sure the engine is warmed up, the motors are running, and then put your foot down on the accelerator for the final ascent. In foreplay, its about setting it up.

This is the time when you can pull out all the stops in the romance department. Is the room set up for seduction and romance? Check on the lighting; are they subdued or dim enough? You dont want it to be too dark that youd have a hard time seeing each other. Maybe put on some soft and slow music, and if theres a fireplace, stoke the fire a little to bring more warmth into the room. The moment you both walk into the room, its not just the fire thats crackling but also the sexual tension between the two of you, waiting to be unleashed.