Mantak Chia - The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know

In this book you will learn to

Have multiple orgasms without losing your erection

Experience longer, more intense whole-body orgasms

Use your sexual energy to improve your overall health

Increase your sexual energy and vitality

Recognize the signs of your partners desire

Help your partner to become multi-orgasmic

Master thrusting techniques that will completely satisfy your partner

Use sexuality to deepen your spirituality

Make all sex safer

End premature ejaculation

Overcome impotence

Increase the size and strength of your penis

Raise your sperm count

Prevent and help prostate problems

Increase your sexual strength in middle and older age

Maintain the passion in your relationship as you age together

For our sons, Max and Jesse

CONTENTS

with Maneewan Chia and Rachel Carlton Arava, M.D.

Its Not Over Till Its Over:
Ending Premature Ejaculation

Please, Sir, May I Have Some More:
Enlarging Your Penis

How Many Sperm Does One Man Need?
Raising Your Sperm Count

This is not just another sex book. There is so much talk about sex today, and yet still so much misunderstanding, that it is difficult to know what is of any value or use. You have no doubt seen advertisements from sexperts that promise to teach you how to become the worlds greatest lover, have daylong orgasms, and reach sexual ecstasyall without doing anything. Because this book is based on a three-thousand-year tradition of actual sexual experience, the authors are well aware of the effort that is involvedpleasurable as it may bein changing your sex life. Learning sexual secrets is one thing, but using them is quite another. The techniques in this book have been tested and refined by countless lovers over thousands of years in the laboratory of real life. We have tried to present them in as clear and simple a way as possible, but the only way to benefit from them is to really use them.

These are powerful practices. The techniques given in this book can profoundly improve your health as well as your sexuality. However, we do not give any diagnoses or suggestions for medication. People who have high blood pressure, heart disease, or a generally weak condition should proceed slowly in the practice. If you have a medical condition, a medical doctor should be consulted. If you have questions about or difficulty with the practice, you should contact a Healing Tao instructor in your area (see the appendix: Healing Tao Books and Instructors).

Over three thousand years ago, the Chinese recognized that men can achieve multiple orgasms by delaying and even withholding ejaculation. This is possible because orgasm and ejaculation are two distinct physical processes, though they have long been equated in the West. Although clearly less precise than todays sex researchers, the ancient Chinese recorded their findings in detail for future generations of sexual and spiritual seekers.

In the West, it was not until the 1940s that pioneering sex researcher Alfred Kinsey reported similar discoveries. Yet even several decades later, after his claims have been proved repeatedly in the laboratory, most men remain unaware of their multi-orgasmic potential. Without this knowledge and without a clear technique, men are unable to feel the difference between the crescendo of orgasm and the crash of ejaculation.

Male sexuality in the West remains incorrectly focused on the inevitably disappointing goal of ejaculation (getting off) instead of the orgasmic process of lovemaking. The Multi-Orgasmic Man shows men how to separate orgasm and ejaculation in their own bodies, allowing them to transform the momentary release of ejaculation into countless peaks of whole-body orgasms. In the words of one multi-orgasmic man, In the normal, everyday sort of ejaculation my pleasure is quickly over with. Not so in multiple orgasms. The pleasure generated here stays with me throughout the day. There seems to be no final peak to this pleasure, either. This practice offers the added bonus of affording extra energy, so I am just never tired. Now I can have as much sex as I want and I can control it rather than have it control me. What more can a man ask for?

The Multi-Orgasmic Man also shows men how to satisfy the multi-orgasmic potential of their partners. One multi-orgasmic man who had been practicing the techniques in this book for three months explained his experience: Basically, I have slept with three women since starting to practice these techniques, and all three have told me that I was their best, literally said it to me while we were in bed: This is the best I have ever had.

Women who read The Multi-Orgasmic Man will learn secrets about male sexuality that few women, and even few men, know. Couples who read it together will find levels of sexual ecstasy and satisfaction that they may never have imagined were possible. As one partner of a multi-orgasmic man put it, Our lovemaking has always been good, but now it is so much richer and more balanced with both of us experiencing many waves of orgasm. Multi-orgasms, though, are just the beginning of the profound changes that this practice has made in our relationship. Our love is much deeper and more intimate now.

The fact that men can have multiple orgasms is so surprising to most of us that we may find it hard to believe. It is worth remembering that only in the last forty years have female multiple orgasms been recognized and accepted as normal. Even more surprising is the number of women who have become multi-orgasmiconce they were told it was possible. Since the fifties, when Kinsey was studying female sexuality, the number of women who experience multiple orgasms has tripled, from 14 percent to over 50 percent! In the l980s, sexologists William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian found that 12 percent of the men they studied were multi-orgasmic. As men recognize that they also have this potential and learn some simple techniques, more and more of them will discover that they too can experience multiple orgasms.

In this book we draw on both ancient Taoist (pronounced DOW-ist) practices and the most recent scientific knowledge to show you how to separate orgasm from ejaculation, how to experience multiple orgasms, and how to improve your overall health. The Taoists were originally a group of seekers in ancient China (around 500 B.C.E.) who were extremely interested in health and spirituality. Although many of the sexual techniques they developed are now more than two thousand years old, they are as effective today as they were then. Since the techniques in this book were introduced to the West fifteen years ago, there has been a quiet sexual revolution going on among ordinary men who have tried these techniques and proved that they work. However, we believe that the only real proof is in your own body. We hope you will accept or reject the information given here based on your own experience.

Multiple orgasms are not just for adolescent boys, unusually lucky older men, or religious adepts. A software salesman in his thirties who calls himself a cynical, uptight New Yorker sat down one evening with the exercises in this book and had six orgasms: The orgasms got more powerful one after the other. It was like nothing I had ever experienced. But the most amazing thing is that I had been working too much and was getting sick. The next morning I woke up healthy and with more energy than I can remember. According to Taoist sexuality, experiencing multiple orgasms before or even without ejaculating can also help men achieve their bodys optimum health and even, believe it or not, live longer.