Romera - First orgasm: female masturbation for beginners

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2015

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Unfortunately, the clitoris doesnt come with a setof instructions. For most women, it takes practice and patience,trial and error to achieve the elusive orgasm.

So dont worry. If youve never had anorgasm, youre not alone. There are plenty of girls and women outthere who are yet to find their orgasmic power.

But you want it and so does almost everyoneelse. You want to experience the sense of relief, relaxation andsatisfaction that comes after an orgasmic climax, or as the Frenchcall it, le petit mort (the little death). You may want this foryour own satisfaction or you may want to prepare yourself for apartner or a wedding night. You may want to be an experiencedvirgin, a better lover or perhaps you just want to improve your ownenjoyment of sex. This book will help you start the journey.

The ideal scenario is to find your orgasmicpower is when you are alone and when you are a virgin. This helpsyou to become confident about your own body and your own sexualitybefore venturing into relationships. But this isnt usually theorder in which it happens. The sex often comes first.

But its never too late to turn thingsaroundwhether you are 16 or 60, no matter how much orgasmless sexyouve had in your life. You can do it yourself. You just need toknow how.

Regardless of whether your goal is learningto masturbate or preparing yourself for a relationship, the methodis the same. The vital ingredients are peace, quiet, aloneness, acomfortable space, patience and a will to try until you succeed.This book will help you do the rest.

First time gives you simple, step bystep instructions and advice for masturbating to orgasm from aformer Catholic girl who once crawled out of the abyss of sexualignorance and finally worked it out for herself. You will learn howto arouse your body and understand what awakens your latentorgasmic power. Its there; you just need to learn how to know howto release it.

This book isnt about sex. Its about you andfinding your orgasmic power and confidence alone before you havesex or, if youre not a virgin, before you have good sex.But if youre lucky enough to have a partner who wants to help youfind out what pleasures your body and how to make you climax, thenthis book can help them too. Let your partner read this book andstart the journey together.

I hope, dear reader, that after reading thislittle book and having your first orgasm, you will be aware of thepower of knowing your own body and understanding more about yoursexuality. I hope it helps you experience the joy of abandonedrelease and sexual satisfaction that will add magic to bothmasturbation and sexual relationships.

I also hope it gives you the confidence to beable to tell someone else how to give you the sexual pleasure andthe erotic attention you deserve.

For more about my orgasm story, read at the end of this book.

For some women orgasm, masturbation, sex and evennudity belong in a forbidden but often exciting distant universe oftheir fantasies and dreams. Sometimes your religious or culturalupbringing may seem like it forbids self-pleasure, leaving you withthe belief that masturbation is naughty, wrong or even sinful.

While there are many different attitudestowards masturbation from religious leaders, there is no specificreference to masturbation in the Christian Bible. Certainly, somein the Catholic Church haves traditionally frowned upon orgasmicactivities before marriage because female orgasm is not necessaryfor procreation. But not all Catholics take this view. Manyconsider it as a harmless personal choice. It is a matter ofreligious opinion because the bible doesnt tackle masturbationdirectly. Its no wonder that some women often have mixed feelingsabout pleasuring themselves.

Religion aside, its perfectly natural towant to explore your own body and make yourself feel good. You arenot hurting anyone nor are you contravening anything stated in TheBible. Theres nothing to worry about so leave your guilt at thedoor. Orgasms are good. Orgasms are natural. And if you take careto be alone when you have your first one, the only person who needsto know youre doing it is you.

Rarely in our lives do we own something that wewant to lose. But for many girls and women, virginity isthat something. For some it can be a precious thing, which theyprotect until the time, the man and the circumstances are justright. For others it is kept for marriage and marriage alone. Forthe diminishing few, its kept for God and for some, it can be abadge of honour, a gender political statement or anembarrassment.

Whatever it means for you, there is no doubtthat knowing your own body in an intimate way can be a powerfulthing. As an orgasmic virgin, you can experience the joy of sexualpleasure before you experience the joy of sex. I call it virginpower.

If you just want to learn to enjoy your ownbody and the sense of satisfaction that comes with achieving a goalor learning a new skill, then virgin power can help you getthere.

Virgin power can also do wonders for yourfirst sexual relationship (or your first good sexual relationship).It gives you the confidence to teach your partner how to stimulateyour erogenous zones and arouse your sexual organs. It will helpyou to be assertive and take control your sexual enjoyment at apoint that seems right.

Practice does indeed make perfect sopreparation is the key. How would you feel if you played a game ofbasketball after never having seen a game, no training and nounderstanding of the rules? Youd be nervous, embarrassed, maybescared about getting hurt or drawing attention to your ignorance.Youd rely on the other players to take the lead and tell you whatto do. And youd probably try and participate as little as possiblethe first time.

But if your first game of basketball cameafter researching the game, watching the game, understanding therules and practicing the shooting and defending, youd feel muchmore confident and youd be more likely to participate in the game.You wouldnt be inexperienced and you would have a greaterunderstanding of your capabilities and limitations.

Mastering masturbation as a virgin before youenter a sexual relationship is no different. Virgin power will giveyou more self-assurance that you know what you want for your ownbody. Knowing how to pleasure a partner is the subject of amultitude of other books about sex so I havent tackled it here.This book just concentrates on you and your orgasm.

Asking for what you want in a sexualrelationship can be difficult for someone who doesnt know whatarouses their own body. As an orgasmic virgin, you will knowexactly what arouses you to orgasm. If you dont want to say it outloud, you can guide your partners hands to where you want them ormove your body to where you want it. You can respond in a way thatconveys your enjoyment or your discomfort and communicate yourdesires in a way that makes you feel comfortable. And if you wantmore of something, just moan louder!