Table of Contents
This book is dedicated to our beloved Tantric family, a continual source of Supreme Bliss through spiritual inspiration, sexual ecstasy, and expanded consciousness.
CHAPTER 1
INTRODUCTION
The Constitution only gives people the right to pursue happiness. You have to catch it yourself.
BEN FRANKLIN
PURPOSES
WHO THIS BOOK IS FOR
If youre reading this book, its clear that you want to know the depth and breadth of your sexuality. You want to feel great pleasure and amazing sexual ecstasy. You want it all: full-body orgasms, multiple orgasms, extended orgasms with maximum energy that blow your mind, and that elusive and mysterious experience of female ejaculation.
This book is for both men and women. Not only will women learn to achieve female ejaculation, but men will learn how to help women accomplish this little-known sexual phenomenon and enjoy the spectacle in the process!
Our goal in creating this book is to show both men and women, opposite sex and same sex couples, how to:
Expand your capacity for pleasure.
Bring awareness into your sexual play.
Routinely reach supreme sexual ecstasy.
Build confidence that you can receive and give maximum pleasure.
Achieve your full sexual potential.
Fully and proudly embrace your sexual birthright.
Youll learn how to awaken that secret orgasmic trigger, the G-spot. Youll learn to give and receive G-spot orgasms of incredible power and sweetness that will ultimately lead to female ejaculation. Youll learn to supercharge your sexual play with the latest scientific findings, discovering a host of new ways to exchange pleasure.
Just as there are many ways to create beautiful music, there are many ways to make love. Were sure you already know how to play some of the instruments in your sexual orchestra. In the coming pages, youll learn to play those instruments in creative new ways, to play new instruments, and to expand your play list with both.
Soon, youll become a master of ecstatic alternatives.
But we have to warn you. If you play this tune once, neither of you will ever want to stop.
WOMEN AND ORGASMS
When we started on this path in the mid-1990s, like many women, Jeffres orgasms required effort. She was never aware of ejaculating. We realized how much we were missing, so we were motivated to learn about pleasure, ecstasy, and orgasm. Weve changed so much and had so much fun that we just had to share our journey with courageous, passionate people like you.
So, if you have trouble reaching orgasm during intercourse, youre not alone. Less than half of sexually active women reach orgasm that way. Some estimates claim that 75 percent of women cannot reach orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation. Sadly, 10 to 15 percent of women have never had an orgasm at all. We dont know of any scientific studies that have tracked how many women ejaculate, but we do know that few people seem to be aware of this delightful phenomenon.
You may think you dont have a G-spot. Maybe you havent been able to find it, awaken it, or stimulate it to orgasm. Maybe you believe you dont or cant ejaculate. But it doesnt have to be that way!
We want you to release your inhibitions, let go of control, and stop holding back. We want you to remember that being alive means feeling intense desire. We want you to know that sexual play is good for you. We want you to celebrate that your orgasms, especially wet ones, make you healthier, more awake, and closer to your lover.
Do you get the idea that we really care about your sex life? Youre right, we really, really do.
Unfortunately, most of the so-called civilized world disagrees with our views. We regularly receive referrals from highly trained therapists who are too shy to deal with sexual issues. In fact, too many medical doctors scoff at proven sexual realities like female ejaculation.
This explains why the average lover doesnt know more about their own orgasms.
A SEXUAL HISTORY LESSON
FEMALE EJACULATIONS ANCIENT HISTORY
Is female gushing a new thing? Not in the least. Female ejaculation was well-known and revered in Ancient India thousands of years ago. The Chinese, Japanese, Arabians, Greeks, Africans, Pacific Islanders, and Native Americans all knew about it. Ancient Chinese texts make many references to a womans water flowing. Shunga art in 16th century Japan celebrates it in graphic detail.
Western historical references began as early as the 4th century B.C. by Aristotle. Galen, the father of modern medicine, wrote about it in the 2nd century A.D. Interestingly, even William Shakespeare makes reference to the water of my love.
The first modern description of female ejaculation came in 1672 by the Dutch physiologist, Regnier DeGraaf. He wrote that during the sexual act, the G-spot discharges a fluid so copiously that it even flows outside the vagina. He explained where it comes from and explained that the rushing out of this fluid with impetus and in one gush causes as much pleasure for women as ejaculation does for men.
GIMME A G-SPOT
Where exactly is the G-spot? Generally speaking, its a highly sensitive area on the front or upper wall of the vagina. The term G-spot was coined by Ladas, Whipple, and Perry in their 1982 book, The G-spot and Other Discoveries About Human Sexuality. They named the G-spot after Ernst Grfenberg, M.D., who first wrote about this new orgasmic trigger in a scientific journal in 1950.
By the way, Grfenberg didnt call it a spot and rightly so. Its an area that exists in different places depending upon the woman. And it moves. Maybe thats why its often called the secret orgasmic trigger and why this doorway to gushing orgasms is an enigma to so many. But this area that we call the G-spot contains the power to unleash hidden emotions, generate deep orgasms, and trigger ejaculation when it is aroused enough. Hows that for both complex and powerful?
Though G-spot is a modern term, undoubtedly the ancients were aware of the super-sensitive parts inside the vagina. They were certainly aware of female ejaculation. There are references to the female expulsion of fluid with orgasm as early as the Kama Sutra.
It wasnt until about 400 years ago that a Dutch anatomist, Regnier De Graaf, clearly defined the glands and ducts that make up the G-spot. He said they were analogous to the male prostate. This started a scientific trend of referring to the G-spot as the female prostate.
In 1880, Alexander Skene, M.D. extensively studied and illustrated the glands and ducts that comprise the female prostate. To this day, some refer to this part of a womans anatomy as Skenes glands. It wasnt until 1953 that an urologist named Samuel Berkow concluded that this tissue inside the vagina could fill with blood and become erect, similar to a penis or your nipples.
