Eric Shaw - A Manly Man

A Manly Man

By Eric Shaw

Copyright 2016 by Eric Shaw

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Disclaimer:

Everything in this book, I have learned through real life experiences. All of the material presented are my view of the subject, and in addition, I do not accept responsibility for any misconduct or misuse of the information through malpractice or misinterpretation of the context of the written content displayed herein. All medication that are recommended herein must be approved by a register medical professional. Furthermore, all related medical subjects are of my opinions and are not medical facts. This book is for Adults only.

Contents:

Shame

Why does the level of knowledge concerning the subject of sex differ in each of us? The reason for this is that our society has tagged the dialog about sex shameful, and thusly, thinking and talking about sex automatically connects with lust. The majority of people believe that lust is a sin, pertaining to their set values and norms. This misinformation has led to a large percentage of pre-ejaculation in men, and in turn leads to a massive divorce rate. The shame lies not in the subject of sex but rather that divorce has become such a normality in most modern societies.

A Manly Man aims to create a sexual dialog between husband and wife and in turn reduce a couples sexual shame by advancing sexuality. In doing so, reduce the rate of divorce that couples all over the world are faced with in their marital lives. Moreover, by promoting sexual health and wellness will create a more sexually literate society.

Divorce

Divorce Even after the divorce, love will always be there. Fortunately, love is what keeps us alive. Question? Can you just fall out of love? The short answer is simply, no. If that person hides behind the illusion of a failing love, then the true love was never there. At times, the hurt may be so bad that it appears that love has died, but the reality is that love never truly dies. Real unconditional love will forgive.

Some say that they will always love their ex, but they also add to the conversation that they will never revisit the same relationship where the trust and heart was broken. That is certainly, what I said. I forgave my ex for what she has done. With time, hope, love, and the grace of God my heart mended. Now, I am ready to give my love and happiness to someone else, and leave the past where it belongs resolved.

Why did this happen?

The Problem

Statistics show that 89% of western men cannot last more than 5 minutes in the bedroom. Pre-ejaculation is the biggest problem for men, and hence their woman is left sexually unsatisfied.

In war, a mans muscular and inner strength makes him superior over a woman. In war, women and children can only try to survive, along with the fallen soldiers, they are the inevitable casualties of war. A womans purpose is more defined as creation and preservation.

In ancient times, men were the warriors, hunters, or farmers. Professions that demanded physicality. A woman is capable of physicality; however, a man is just designed to be the physical better between the sexes. A womans purpose is to create life and not take it. Those times a woman had to be with a man in order to survive, in our modern society, are over.

Back to today, a woman can manage quite well without a man financially. With already dead food and other necessities provided in mini-malls and supermarket chains, a woman can meet her every need. A man can also do some shopping at the mini-mall no spears required. Nevertheless, if things start to go wrong in the bedroom and her needs are not met, she will divorce you and find herself a man (or woman) that can do what you failed to do. This principle of dissatisfaction is the cause of all divorces. The problem starts in the bedroom and eventually it escalates into larger issues like alcohol and commitment issues, and then finally adultery.

What can a man appreciate in himself? As a man, we have to feel complete, and we can only do that if we are in an intimate relationship with the woman of our choice that we can love and trust completely. In addition, we have to satisfy all of our womans physical, mental, and sometimes financial needs. Doing so, we empower ourselves by being the decision makers in a relationship. Be the leader, even if it kills you be as God intended creation. A man cannot do this from a weak point of view.

Women are just as strong or as empowered as men in the modern world are. A woman needs a man that works and plays hard with a side of integrity and trustworthiness. If Im saying anything if you are not the man in the bedroom, you sure as hell not going to be the man in the outside world. A masculine leader is a man that takes charge and leads.

Of course, a woman should have a say in a relationship. After all, we arent running a dictatorship. A team discusses their actions in the decisions making process. A man should treat a woman with respect. In turn, a woman will give her man the respect for being the man in the relationship. A relationship is a partnership between a man and a woman, and each one have a role like God intended.

Whos the Boss?

Relationships often fail or fall in a certain state of a static dictatorship when one party takes absolute control and the other relinquishes all control. Love is about give and receive with trust respect, honesty, loyalty, integrity, hard work, and companionship. Without bedroom authority, a man will not be a man to his wife, and his woman will claim the authority in the relationship.

How simple seemed the old days with the husband heading off to work, the wife tending to the home life, and the kids heading to school. In many situations, that family picture is no longer the norm. In todays economy, both men and women need a professional career to maintain a decent home environment, pay the mortgage, and set money aside for college tuition. Once again, women are just as empowered as men are, and it is possible for divided families to survive apart. If you are going through a divorce or thinking of getting a divorce, it is important to remember you are not alone in the process, in a legal and social sense. Divorce is very costly business, not only financially, but also psychologically and spiritually get professional help. Lawyers can assist in the legality process and counselling, be it a therapist or spiritual leader, might help you work through your feelings. Theres no shame in asking for some help.

Statistics are speaking louder than ever, and the problem is very real Thats a fact. Furthermore, it is not necessarily weak men, but pre-ejaculation. Feelings have little to do with biology. The woman is not at fault. The fault lies with the sexual education that has failed over the years. Frankly, the education did not keep up with a changing society. At the moment, the sexual education problem is being addressed through spontaneous public education. Is it really? Oh yeah, it is very much like denying that transgender and homosexual men exist in society. The sexual education can be resolved if we just admit we have a problem and start talking about it.

Recent studies and research have found that most men from various countries have a lack in sexual education. Thats why we have Viagra, right. We will even employ the horns of slaughtered rhinos to make use of its suggestive shape. But theres another way a better way.

The purpose of this book is to empower the Modern Man to be a better LOVER.