Joy Punya - Premature Ejaculation - Women Help Your Men - A Training Script

When you see that your lover has ejaculated too soon.Are you feeling frustrated(to put it mildly)Because you value your relationship

Now would you like to help him to ACTUALLY ENJOY CONTROLLING HIS EJACULATION.

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I have 30 years of hands-on experience with wide variety of men, both teaching and pleasuring. I am a Certified Life Coach who is trained in modern meditative and breathing methods which apply in the bedroom.

You will be using my coaching script which is a serious yet lovingly playful instruction for your lover. You will discover that by your willingness to help him - some of his lack of confidence will disappear immediately after trying the technique. You will compliment and encourage him on whatever he has improved and also praise him for his effort.

This very endeavor will open up paths of communication which can be creative in fixing your love life.

About the technique - it is a modern method, although it is slightly related to ancient martial arts. You will be helping him to relax better, breathe more deeply, become more sensual (i.e. become more aware of his levels of arousal), do internal muscle control and finally, he will learn about his greater internal orgasmic potential. This is the best way in the world to conquer premature ejaculation.

The spectacular aspect of the method is that with a little practice your man will enjoy being able to control the timing of his ejaculation. This is because it involves moving the orgasmic energy upward and inwardcontains the orgasm in the bodysome people describe this as an implosion instead of an explosion.

With you as his coach, and some practice on his own, he will be able to make love with you for as long as you would enjoyWOW!

This book contains a script in verbal form you will use as his coach, and step by step written instructions for his practice sessions

Ladies, Are you ready for a change?

For thousands of years, women have been complaining about premature ejaculation (he turns over and goes to sleep). Then, finally, someone tried to do something about it: the Kama Sutra, the famous sex manual, was written in India about 2,500 years agobut unfortunately only the royalty had access to the information that I am now going to give you.

Here is a script that has proven successful to train my clients (I have trained thousands of men over the past 24 years.) The Method is taken from a martial arts-related technique of ancient Eastern origin. If you are not comfortable with any of the words, please change them to suit your personality and your relationship. Be natural and playful. Also, read the script over by yourself.

This effective process is a series of steps. You will be encouraging him to self-pleasure as you lead him through the steps. The method involves noticing his levels of arousal, changing his pace, and the types of touch that he does. You will coach him to be sometimes slower and to use different strokes than what he is used to. You will want to allow at least a half-hour but could go on much longer if you both agree.

With your encouragement you will want to strike a balance between clinical coaching and sensuous exploring (helping him to become more aware of his sensations is very important). Be careful to give him just the right amount of physical stimulation enough to keep him going BUT not too much! If you feel that a little sexy talk will help him maintain focus during instruction, by all means, go for it! Your job is to allow him to play the edge i.e., get excited but not so excited he goes over the edge.

Once I saw an urologist (as a client) who had also been seeing men patients for over 20 years. I asked him what he recommended for premature patients. His answer was there is no medicine for that. I asked what do you tell them. He said: I suggest they distract themselves with boring thoughts like doing taxes or something like sports statistics. Wow, I said, You gotta be kidding me.

Some comments from men who have seen me:

From a very busy 48-year old family physician with five children: I have practiced the Method in the shower and I m amazed how much better I have become.

From a 36 year-old math teacher: Joy, your specific detailed instructions made me aware that I could use my martial art skills in this exercise...and you told me key points about how to control the muscle. It worked greatthank you.

From a 35 year-old owner of a construction company: I feel like I can move an orgasm internally upward to the top of my head and sometimesafter a release, I feel tingling and pleasure for an entire hour.

You will be his wise, warm, and sensual guide. Try to add some playful comments. Be sure to make him feel honored and respected by you for his efforts. Let him know that you are his COACH, not the boss. You will be assigning him the pleasant homework of practicing the method over and over again to change his habit. Let him know that by his efforts to practice, he will be rewarded by longer and more exciting sex with you. In addition he will learn to feel pleasure while he is controlling his ejaculation.

Have a fantastic time together as your man learns to get in touch with his body so it is more attuned to yours. You will both be amply rewarded!

Please feel free to change the language a little so it will feel more natural to you. But do follow it as much as you can for you and your partners success. When you see the text in bold, like this, it is for you to read to yourself. Now, begin with the script have a wonderful time with the Method!

I am so excited about helping you with this method because I know it will mean more pleasure for you and for me.

Sit down, close your eyes, and take a breathand lets begin. I would like you to think of this time with me as playful coaching. The first part will help with any anxiety you may have. Lucky for usthe relaxation instruction is one simple word: EXHALE. And exhale again and again. Whenever you feel anxiousyou simply pause for a few seconds and exhaleand you will notice immediate relaxation.

This method wants you to become aware of your signals of arousal - because if you are not aware that you are close to ejaculatingyou wont be able to stop in time. I will instruct you on how to control an amazing muscle (the pubococcygeus or PC muscle) in your groin area. With a little practice you can manipulate this muscle so that you can ejaculate only when you wish to. In addition, you will be able to feel pleasure in your body when youre as you are holding off, or controlling coming.

Now let me tell you about this muscle. It is the same muscle that controls urination so you already know about this. Right now, I want you to stand, put your hand below your balls and squeeze the muscle internally to stop that peeing sensation. Lets play around with this muscle. If you squeeze and release, squeeze and release, and continue this way for a little while, you are creating a pulsation that is similar to what happens when you ejaculate.

What you need to do in order to control yourself, is to quickly stop this pulsation. This means you need to squeeze tight and dont let go of this muscle: we call that locking tight. For example, when masturbating you can pause and do this locking and observe what it does to your sensations.

Tell him to lock tight and encourage him to do it a few times, relaxing for a few seconds between.