Make Her Cum
7 Simple Steps To Cure Premature Ejaculation Forever
Introduction
I want to thank you and congratulate you for downloading the book.
This book contains proven steps and strategies on how to overcome premature ejaculation, so you can finally take back control in the bedroom, and enjoy the sex life you have always wanted, minus the anxiety and uncontrolled ejaculation.
The statistics for men who suffer from premature ejaculation is quite high. In fact, almost every man has experienced a premature orgasm at some point in his sex life. Those who experience it on aregular basis often suffer in silence. They often go through it for most of their lives, often believing that it is just a phase and that it would someday go away. But what do you do if it does n t?
This book gives concrete answers on how to answer that question. It contains steps that are not only doable, but are also backed by extensive research.
Thanks again for downloading this book, I hope you enjoy it!
Chapter 1 Premature Ejaculation: Definition, Symptoms, and Causes
Men could suffer from many different forms of sexual dysfunction at some point in their lives. Among these dysfunctions, premature ejaculation (PE) is probably the most common. In the US, statistics show that at least 30-40% of the male populace are reported to be suffering from this dysfunction. Experts believe that the statistics may not be accurate since there could be more men who do suffer from the dysfunction but have n t reported it.
One of the reasons why the statistics could vary is because there is no strict criteria under which premature ejaculation is classified. Among those men who report the dysfunction, most turn out to be mistaken self-diagnoses. Some men may also be unaware that they are suffering from the condition because it has n t been much of an issue with their sexual partners. This lack of a specific standard requires a deeper look at how most medical experts define premature ejaculation. This way, men can seek better modes of treatment that would best match their specific needs.
Premature ejaculation is often described as the accidental elimination of semen at an early point during sexual intercourse. Oftentimes, the ma n s partner has not reached sexual orgasm yet since the foreplay has just begun. In most reported cases, the male starts ejaculating as soon as penetration occurs. But there are also some cases wherein the male ejaculates during foreplay even when there has n t been any form of penetration yet.
Another reason for the inconsistency in the statistics is because some men may be embarrassed to report it. This feeling of embarrassment is often rooted in societ y s stereotypes about male virility. This often causes the men to refuse to seek treatment even if their romantic lives are already suffering from the condition. Lack of treatment then results in unnecessarily prolonging the agony when the condition coul d ve been addressed early on.
Premature ejaculation can also be difficult to determine because there is some disagreement on how soon i s prematur e . Sexual foreplay usually lasts between 2 to 5 minutes. During this time, the man may employ several techniques to withhold the release of his semen, thereby delaying orgasm. However, men who are suffering from premature ejaculation normally do n t last more than a minute into the foreplay. In worst-case scenarios, a man may even ejaculate within just 15 seconds from the start of sexual intercourse.
But this should n t be a cause for concern if it does n t happen that often. In fact, at least 1 out of 5 males have reported an inability to delay orgasm a few times. Premature ejaculation can be viewed as a problem if:
- In about 90% of the ma n s sexual encounters, he always or almost always ejaculates within less than a minute from the beginning of intercourse. This happens regardless of who his sexual partner is or if penetration has occurred or not. This eradicates the possibility that the man may simply be too excited to get a go at i t with the sexual partner of his fantasies.
- Despite his best efforts, the man is still unable to delay ejaculation in all or almost all of his sexual encounters.
- Ejaculation occurs even if the level of sexual stimulation falls below the usual levels that incite full arousal.
This inability to delay orgasm could have adverse psychological and emotional effects. This is especially true if the condition is already affecting the ma n s relationship with his partner. After all, sex and intimacy is a big factor for cultivating lasting relationships. A man who suffers from this condition could also harbour feelings of frustration, guilt, and embarrassment over his seeming lack of control.
This is why in most treatment strategies for premature ejaculation the medical practitioner also often incorporates strategies for handling a patien t s mental and emotional health.
Chapter 2 Causes of Premature Ejaculation
Before a medical practitioner can determine the specific cause of premature ejaculation in a patient, he needs to determine the type first. There are two main types of premature ejaculation, which are:
- Primary premature ejaculatio n also known as lifelong PE. Experts believe that this condition starts from early adolescence, a time in which boys are still on the process of mastering their sexual appetites. These boys invariably grow up with nearly all of their sexual encounters often ending sooner than they or their sexual partners are comfortable with.
- Secondary premature ejaculatio n also known as acquired or variable PE. This type of PE occurs occasionally. It also often occurs in grown men who may have already learned to control their orgasms.
Many factors may cause premature ejaculation. It was initially assumed that premature ejaculation is caused by psychological factors only. But further research into the condition has found that most cases of premature ejaculation are caused by a combination of biological and psychological factors.
The biological factors include:
- Hormonal imbalance. This includes the male hormone testosterone and the hormones secreted by the thyroid gland.
- Inflammation of the male reproductive tract specifically the prostate glands and the urethra. In some cases, the man may have undergone recent surgery in the reproductive tract. This is most common among men who have recently had prostate surgery.
- Imbalance in brain neurotransmitters. These include brain chemicals such as dopamine, acetylcholine, oxytocin, and serotonin. These neurotransmitters normally work with certain brain reactors to facilitate orgasm. When there is an imbalance, the neurotransmitters act abnormally with the brain reactors. This causes a man to lose control of his orgasm (ejaculation).
- Illnesses such as diabetes, multiple sclerosis, and high blood pressure. These illnesses often wreak havoc on the bod y s functioning and may cause hormonal disorders as well.
- Alcohol and/or drug abuse. These can either cause premature or delayed ejaculation, as well as a long list of other health issues.
- Penile hypersensitivity. In some cases, there may not be any other underlying causes for PE except for the fact that the nerves in a ma n s penis are just too sensitive. This can happen to any man regardless of his age, though hypersensitivity is more common among teenagers.
These biological factors are the common culprits for variable PE. Sometimes, these factors may combine with certain psychological factors that worsen the situation. It may also be entirely possible that psychological factors are the sole culprits for the PE. These factors include:
- Stress and anxiety - being anxious about how their performance in bed would be graded by their sexual partners could cause some men to ejaculate prematurely. This is common among men who are about to have sex with a partner for the first time. They tend to experience a heightened sense of stimulation, which may lead the sexual encounter to a premature close.
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