Boost your Sex Drive and cure Premature Ejaculation
with Foreplay
By Christoph Walker
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Boost your sex drive and cure PE with foreplay
by Christoph Walker
Table of Content
Introduction
Often, I am asked if prolonged foreplay can help reduce P.E.
It is also the technique and solution that is easiest to implement and most likely to give sexual satisfaction to your partner.
This technique involves longer periods of sensual foreplay prior to penetration. Women prefer sensual, playful, whole body caressing that include stimulation of their genitals. Women often feel that their whole body is a sexual universe and they prefer their men spend time exploring different corners of it. Effectively, hurried mechanical genital sex often leads to P.E. among men who falsely believe that performance with their penis is the prime thing that matters to a woman during sex. Similarly, engaging leisurely, playfully and massing the whole body during sex tends to give you a more relaxed mood and also helps in a great ejaculatory control.
Forget that old mind-set of foreplay, fuck and cum.
Between the first kiss and last orgasm there is a world of pleasure, limited only by your imagination. You can use varying intensities of pleasure on your partner to produce any effect you want, a bit like a conductor being able to make any sort of music he wants because he knows his instruments well. So for example, he can make slow, heavy music by focusing on bass instruments, or he can make delicate music, sad music, and happy music, whatever he wants to. But the best music, like the best fucking, is a complicated blend of bitter and sweet, of dark and light. In order to be able to do this you need good technical skills , but you also need to be able to react quickly to your partners body language. This requires both keen observational skills and the ability to change actions quickly in response to your partner. Luckily, these are all skills that are both easy and fun to learn.
A better way of explaining this mind-set is with an example:
Imagine a normal blowjob; a woman sucks your cock until you blow. Yep, certainly that is fun. Now imagine a woman starting off slow and soft so you can feel each kiss and lick on your cock, just teasing you until you want to push your cock deep in her mouth. But she waits until your body cant hold the tension any longer and your muscles relax. Knowing she has you relaxed, she quickly changes and clamps down on your cock and sucks it hard and fast for a small while and as you get more excited she retains the pressure but slows down her movements making sure you dont cum but are still at a very high level of pleasure. Then she might go back to softly sucking and every once in a while she randomly gives you a hard suck. Then the hard sucks start coming closer together until your close again.
Then she might use her hands on your cock for a while, keeping you close as she licks and sucks your balls. Finally, when your body is limp and completely submissive she stretches the pleasure out by licking at your very sensitive areas with a strong tongue so you feel every subtle movement of her mouth until she starts sucking you, softly at first and building up to harder and faster until you cum. Now, do you see the difference between the first and second blowjob? In the first one it was the typical increase friction till orgasm, which is fine once in a while. But, the second one, well that one goes up and down, gives you all different kinds of pleasure and sensations so the blowjob itself is as pleasurable as the orgasm. The first one was about getting the job done; the second one was about enjoying the journey as well.
Chapter 1: Premature Ejaculation
So what is Premature Ejaculation (P.E.)?
Premature Ejaculation (P.E.) is defined as climaxing too early or coming too fast in laymans term. Effectively, it is defined as the recurring and immediate release of semen after short duration of simulation by a man at thetime of or briefly after sexual penetration. In most of the cases, immediate ejaculation occurs before a man wishes, yet due to emotion or physical reasons, he has little or no control on it whatsoever.
Most of the women who have sex with men suffering from PE often complain about not being sexually satisfied because of their partners quick release. However, this also depends on the satisfaction of the partners.
How common is Premature Ejaculation (P.E.)?
As per North American Sexual Medicine Society, around 25-30% of men in United States have reported to be suffering from P.E. at some point in their lives. It is also counted as the most frequent sexual disorder of men who are younger than 40 years. It is also embarked with frustration due to coming too soon during sex.
What are the Different Kinds of P.E.?
The exact cause of P.E. is still unknown. Many scientists believed P.E. was psychological; however, today, it has been proven by scientists that the condition is both psychological and physical.
In medical terms, P.E. is characterised as the lifelong or acquired (Primary or Secondary). Men with lifelong P.E. have had this condition during their first sexual experience post puberty. On the contrary, men who have acquired P.E. were once able to satisfy with their sexual abilities without problems but experienced this condition later in life. As per researchers, P.E. also occurs in some men due to chemical imbalances in their brain or variation in receptor sensitivity in the spinal cord or brain.
Chapter 2: Skills that will change your sex-life
Skill 1: Orgasm Delay
This is one of the most important skills you may need to develop. How long does it take you to cum? The average man takes around 4 minutes, and a lot of men take a lot less time. One study found out that three quarters of men cum in less than 2 minutes in half their sexual encounters. The problem is 4 minutes or less is not enough time to do anything for her. The average woman takes around twenty minutes of stimulation to orgasm. See a problem there? Yep, youre done and shes not quite started. There are many ways to combat that. Of course if you are the type of man who likes to cum many times and can stay hard after you have cum you will not need to learn orgasm delay unless you want to. If you are like most men and you really like to cum only once, if it takes you less than 30 minutes to cum you are going to have to learn to delay your orgasm until both of you are ready.