Back To Sex Basics:
Erectile Dysfunction and Premature Ejaculation Simple Cure
By
James Morrison, Ph.D.
Published by Comparsa Press.
Made in England.
2016
Get in touch with the author at:
Comparsalondon@gmail.com
Medical Disclaimer
All content provided in this book are intended for informational purposes only and not designed to be a substitute for professional medical advice or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or any other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.
Copyright 2016 by Dr James Morrison
Table of Contents
Introduction
Part I: My Sexual Diary
Chapter 1: Loosing my Virginity - My First Encounter with Performance Anxiety
Chapter 2: A Night with my Boss: The Worst Night of My Life
Chapter 3: Falling in Love: a Story of Sexual Confinement
Chapter 4: Premature Ejaculation: the Last Straw
Part II: The Secret to a Healthy Sex Life
Chapter 5: Internet Porn - A Deviation from your Natural Self
Chapter 6: Meditation - Fixing the Roots
Chapter 7: Exercises for Generating Sexual Vitality
Chapter 8: Enhance Libido: Essential Foods
Chapter : Sex: The Basics
Afterword: Where to go from here
Introduction
Who this book is for:
This book is intended for men wanting to better their sex life and the connection with their partners. It is also intended for men suffering from sexual performance anxieties that lead to premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction.
What this book is for:
This book sets out to enhance and optimize mens sexual health through an approach of rethinking how we view and engage in sex.
Narrated through my own personal anecdotes, the book sets out to demistify the performance anxieties that give rise to sexual problems in men, while providing an easy to follow guide towards healing and optimizing ones sexual potential.
How to get the most from this book:
This book is divided into two parts. The first parts presents my own personal account of the events that led to my problems with erectile premature ejaculation. The aim with this part of the book is to present you with the questions I
was forced to answer when confronted with these problems: why is this happening to me? How did this happen to me? How can I solve this?
Part I: My Sexual Diary
By seeking and blundering we learn.
- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
- Chapter -
Loosing my Virginity:
My First Encounter with Performance Anxiety
I have had a relatively healthy sexual life. Ive slept with
many women, from many different nationalities, from a wide range of ages, sizes, and personalities. However, there were four key moments during my sex life when I encountered sexual problems (mainly related to premature ejaculation and loss of erection) that I will tell you about in this part of the book.
When confronted with these sexual issues, it took me sometime to realize what was happening to me, and why it was happening. This whole ordeal
turned my world upside-down, and caused me unbearable depression; at times I even considered ending my life. I realize that this is over the top, but I could not help but feel that there was something wrong with me, and that there was nothing I could do to change it.
These sexual problems caused me to lose relationships with people I cared about. Had I been able to accept what was happening and searched for a solution sooner, I could have avoided hurting many people,
including myself.
It all started with my first sexual encounter. I was years old when I first met Sarah. I liked Sarah, but looking back, I think I was more eager to lose my virginity and have my first serious relationship than anything else. A few days after we met, she came over to my place to spend the night.
It was dark, we were under the sheets making out, and suddenly she took of her clothes. I realized this was the go-ahead
signal, so I took off my clothes, and as we were about to have sex I noticed that my penis was not very hard. This took me by surprise and caused a minute of internal panic in me, which completely terminated any trace I had of an erection. Suddenly I became nervous, self-conscious, and the whole situation just felt unnatural. I didnt know what to say or do, so I didnt say anything. She stirred the conversation to something else.
Eventually we started kissing
again. This time I wasnt nervous, and did indeed feel very aroused. As we were about to try sex again, she whispered:
is my man back?
yes, I responded somewhat timidly.
who said you were my man? she said laughing.
She was right, I was not to be her man as we broke up a few weeks later. However, during those weeks we were together, we had long sexual marathons.
Those days felt as if a new side of me had been activated; as if a powerful lust force that had been dormant within myself for centuries was suddenly reawakened with an overwhelming appetite to savor all the colors, textures, and shapes that the female sex had to offer. This was the main reason why I broke up with Sarah a few weeks after meeting her: I had now found a new side of me, a new way of life that I was determined to experience to its fullest.
After breaking up with Sarah, I felt a sense of sexual liberatio. It seemed like I had transgressed into a more powerful version of myself and into a better place within the world around me. The more I had sex with different women, the more confidence gained
This confidence was perceived by the women I approached as some kind of charm; as if I had the key to some kind of life secret that they needed to know about. At least thats how it felt on my side. I could almost
read it in their eyes, a glimmer of wonder and curiosity, and I knew all I had to do was take the opportunity if I wanted it; and I did want it.
Even when women declined my invitations for sex, I still felt I touched their interest at some level, which made me even more confident to hunt. And that is what I became, a hunter. I loved the chase, the capture, the taking. The conquering of new worlds, sort of speak. They were indeed new worlds to me, each woman that I met, and that
became my philosophy about it all. However, as fun and interesting as this was for me at the time, there was an element of superficiality and shallowness that accompanied this approach to being with women, and this would eventually have its own consequences.
- Chapter -
A night with my Boss:
The Worst Night of My Life
A few years later I started travelling around the world. At years old, I found myself
working as a dishwasher at a small caf around the Mediterranean. My boss there was a 31-year old woman. She was a bit shorter than me, was relatively skinny, and had dark skin and dark eyes.