Joiceline Vargas - How to understand a woman: a definitive guide: Everything that a father, son and lover must know to have an ideal relationship with the women of his life (1)

If you've got to this book it's because in a way you recognize that it takes a manual to understand women, at some point in my life I've also felt misunderstood. Are women complicated? This is what many men say and even what we ourselves question.

Yes, I know it's very complex to understand considering that each woman is a universe, each woman recites her own poetry, each one is different, but you must know that in the end, we all agree in one thing, and that is that we want to be understood, that we want men to understand us.

This time, I'll give you the best recommendations to get closer to that girl. No, she is not unreachable, only that the road has made her a little hard on the outside, but she is still a sensitive woman on the inside. On the other hand, in the following pages you will find the necessary help to understand your mother, your sister, wife, cousin or why not: your best friend.

She will feel special now, because, yes, we also need to be understood, even if you have been led to believe otherwise. After reading this guide I assure you that your way of thinking will change, because you will have the necessary elements to wear our shoes, which by the way are not so comfortable, measuring more than 10 cm.

Prepare to immerse yourself in a woman's brain. Are you truly prepared to make this journey? Make yourself as comfortable as possible, and give it your full attention. I'm going to take you on a little long, but very understandable, fascinating, adventurous journey. Get ready, because this is going to be a rollercoaster full of emotions, buckle up, I will invite you to this exciting journey. You'll never get a break.

Women simply didn't choose to be women, they were just lucky enough to be, and it's not because women are beyond, at this point we don't talk about preferences, but rather that being a woman has its advantages and disadvantages. Just to mention, one of the advantages of being a woman is that we remember absolutely everything.

Our brain has a capacity to store information for many years, if you have not realized a woman can remember exactly what you were wearing the day you met. But it's not because we've been given that super power to store all the information in a special brain file.

No, this is usually because we are more sensitive, due to the amount of hormones we secrete. At some point being women has its disadvantages, like walking in heels, going to a public toilet, labor pains, menstrual pains, we don't reach orgasms that fast, among other things.

It's not a gender issue, it's about being happy with who we are, although it can take us many years to rediscover ourselves over and over again, because every stage is loaded with learning, all women go through processes, and each one will uncover it in her own way, somehow at some point we agree on some things, at other points not so much, talking about generalities is not the main idea.

What I intend to do is to give you a broad overview of what to do at certain times. Don't feel frustrated, although I know that you have felt it at some point, how many times haven't you asked yourself what I have to do to understand her?

Here you will find practical recommendations, do you have a mother, sister, wife, daughter, girlfriend, grandmother? There will be a special woman for you in the world and if you haven't found her, you are about to because there is a woman for every man.

You just have to pay attention to the signals from conception, childhood, a stage where there are a series of necessary practices, because the most important stage for the evolution of a person, in this case to understand a girl, is to get involved in all aspects, from education to parenting. Girls need the affection, love, attention and care that are typical of their age. This will give you a more considerable vision of how a woman develops.

That's why we need you to get involved in all stages, since it has been confirmed that girls accumulate experience in their child development. Repeating actions and daily scenarios leads to mental representations that allow her to organize her world, make sense of it, foresee actions and even planning.

That is why our participation is essential, your participation as a father. After reviewing this stage, we reach the most important one that I think is vital for me as a woman, and that is adolescence, and only to broaden your outlook you must understand that this is a period of biological, psychological, sexual and social development immediately after childhood.

Precisely at this stage we feel the desire to fit into any social group and we simply don't know what to do to be taken into account, we don't get involved in day-to-day life. Every episode and moment of our lives we live it like a novel and we feel that we are the protagonist, we believe that everything spins around us, although sometimes we lose the protagonism and be careful when that happens, because it tends to represent a shock.

You have to understand that the decisions that an adolescent makes during this period can have a great impact on our lives and that it can be reflected in the adults' lives. That's why we dedicate a special chapter to a woman's adolescence, which deserves all your attention.

As adults we must understand that in this period hormones (a point I will also explain later) play a fundamental role in mood changes, and this requires you to do your part as an adult to manage this situation. Once a woman reaches adolescence, all the moments in her life are like a roller coaster of emotions.