Table of Contents
To Arleta,
the one person who has always encouraged me to write,
and has unwavering confidence in my abilities,
even when I lack faith in myself.
Preface
Greetings, reader!
Many years ago I, just like you, had questions about the G-spot. I wanted to know what the G-spot was, how to find it, and how to stimulate it. I also had a host of other questions similar to those you may be having today.
Back in that day, however, prior to the vast explosion of the Internet, there was a great lack of information available regarding the G-spot. On one hand, there were a couple of credible books on the subject, but these focused primarily on the medical aspects and existence of the G-spot rather than serving as a hands-on guide or Q & A book for the average Joe. At the opposite end of the spectrum were numerous G-spot stories in risqu or pornographic publications, yet these were often submitted anonymously and lacked authority or credibility.
As a freelance author accustomed to doing in-depth research, I was undaunted at the thought of finding answers to my questions. Little did I know, however, that what would start as a few simple phone calls would become a project spanning decades, eventually culminating in the first edition of this book and, now, in this revised and expanded edition.
My journey began by calling a few physicians with my questions. While some of my questions were answered efficiently, I was surprised to learn how many physicians were reluctant to discuss the G-spot, dismissed it entirely, or simply hadnt had the chance to study the latest research findings. (In defense of the latter, I can sincerely appreciate this since so many medical studies and findings are released each yearnot just on the G-spot, but also on new drugs and studies of all parts of the body. It seems impossible for anyone to keep up.)
Still seeking answers to some of my questions, over a period of many months I was referred up the medical hierarchy. Each time one of my questions was answered, a new, more perplexing question would emerge, requiring another referral up the medical hierarchy. First I spoke to gynecologists, next to specialists, then to professors at medical schools, to experts at well-known institutions, and eventually to world-renowned leading experts and researchersthe very researchers who create the studies that are taught in medical school.
While determined to find answers, I must admit that when I was first referred to these big names, I was a bit intimidated. After all, throughout my climb up the medical hierarchy, I had heard echoes of their names. Who was I to interrupt them with my insignificant questions? In my mind, I envisioned them as stodgy, disdainful, presumptuouseach caught up in adding laurels to their already prestigious reputationswith no time for a non-Ph.D. such as myself, asking elementary questions. Of all the surprises I encountered along this journey, the biggest was finding out how mistaken this perception was. Not only were these cream of the crop researchers friendly, they were far from stodgy and were passionate about their work. Where I had envisioned them as disdainful, they were appreciative of my personal quest for knowledge and were willing to go out of their way to help me find answers. And where I had envisioned them as presumptuous, they were in fact very unselfish, placing more emphasis on seeing that correct knowledge got out rather than sticking a feather in their cap.
They were quick to share their knowledge and findings, willing to share their research, and helpful in directing me to the information I was seeking.
It was at about this point that the idea for this book was born. I recognized that despite the beneficial intentions of these researchers to share their findings, much of this information wasnt trickling down to family physicians. Even less of it ever reached the general public. And here was I, an author privy to some of the most recent and pertinent research on the G-spot, someone able to serve as a conduit to bridge the communication gaps.
I had a lot of misconceptions before I read this book. I thought I could always hit a womans G-spot with my penis. Although it stings the ego, its better to realize you were wrong than continue being wrong.L. J. T.
Over the next couple of years, I began privately developing the technique covered in this book, conducting surveys, gathering additional data, verifying my research, and making refinements. The finished product is what you now hold in your hands.
The purpose of this book is clear. It is a simple guide, backed with some of the latest modern research, yet written in laymans terms, without medical jargon. Its aim is to help couples around the world understand and enjoy the pleasures of the G-spot.
Read on. For now your own journey begins
Learning the Basics
You may be wondering if the G-spot is real. Does it exist, or is all the G-spot hype just a selling tool for magazine articles or adult novelties? And if the G-spot does exist, why is it there? Why is it so easily overlooked? What physical purpose does it have? Does the penis come into contact with it during intercourse? How does one find it and coax it from hiding? This book will answer all these questions.
You may also wonder about female ejaculationor squirting, as the phenomenon is often called. Is squirting merely so much more sales hype, or is female ejaculation real? And if female ejaculation does occur, why havent you seen it? Why does it occur? What physical purpose is there for female ejaculation?
If youre pondering any of these questions, let me take a moment to congratulate you for taking the time to enrich your knowledge and understanding of female sexuality. As youll learn from these pages, the phenomena of the G-spot and female ejaculation are not new. References to these enigmas can be traced back through history, from as early as the writings of Aristotle. As sad as it may seem, however, millions of people have lived and died, reaching their graves without ever experiencing the joys and pleasures offered by the G-spot (or seeing their partner thrash in the ecstasy of a G-spot orgasm).
The goal of this book is simple: to show you that G-spot orgasms and female ejaculation are real, they exist, and they can be evoked to bring about the ultimate in female ecstasy and sexual enjoyment. More important, youll learn why these two phenomena exist, how theyve been overlooked countless times in the past, and the important role they play in the processes of human reproduction and childbirth.
In these pages, youll learn a proven ten-step technique that shows you how to find the G-spot, how to stimulate it, and how to drive your lover crazy with ecstasy. Youll deepen your understanding of the female anatomy while learning new methods of rekindling the romance and sexual excitement in your current relationship.
The G-spot does exist, and through this book, you can prove it to yourself. And your lover.
Whats the Big Deal about G-Spot Orgasms, Anyway?
My lover and I already have great sex. Why do we need to worry about the G-spot?
If youve never seen or experienced a true G-spot orgasm, imagine for a moment an orgasm that causes the whole vagina to spasm violently, often contracting so tightly that it tries to force out your finger or any object in the vagina. And imagine that while these intense contractions are throbbing and pulsing throughout the vagina, the vagina becomes very wet, often literally ejaculating a stream or spurt of fluid with each contraction. Imagine an orgasm that causes such intense ecstasy that even the quietest and most controlled woman will yelp and buck and thrash, while normal screamers go dead silent, the scream caught in their throata scream that if freed might wake all the neighbors within a five-block radius.
