B.J. Dempsey - The Many Shades of BDSM: A Safe and Scintillating Entry into the Escalating Pleasure of BDSM

Welcome, and thanks for joining me. By reading this book, you are taking the first step toward a new and exciting journey in your sexual adventures. Whether you are eager to jump into BDSM right this very minute with gusto or are just curious and want to explore the idea, you are motivated to add a spark to your sex lifeand that is always a good thing! This shows you realize that your pleasure (and your partners) is a priority, and you embrace the opportunity to try new things in order to share many new and wonderful intimate moments together.

Just by reading this book and taking other stepseven if they are baby stepstoward exploring more daring and risky sexual activities, you show that you are open to spicing up your physical relationship. That is a great step, as lots of thrilling and possibly earth-shattering moments can result from opening your mind to new intimate experiences.

You may have many reasons for exploring the world of BDSM. Maybe you fear that you have gotten in a rut or are heading in that direction. Or you may have had these secret yearnings and curiosities for a long time, yet held off because you were nervous or afraidor just didnt know how to get started. Perhaps you have been fantasizing about being tied up, or getting spanked, or even serving as a sex slaveand now you want to see if the reality can match up to your X-rated visions.

It is also possible that you have suddenly been hearing a lot about it and are itching to see what all the fuss is about. BDSM has suddenly become trendy, which means you may have found yourself seeing and thinking about it much more than you ever did in the past. The fact that BDSM is hot right now can also make it seem a little more acceptableand possibly a bit less scary. Maybe some of your friends are doing itand raving about itand you want to see just what is putting those naughty smiles on their faces.

Whatever your reason, I am glad you are taking this first step. BDSM can be a very exciting and enjoyable way to take your sex life in a thrilling new direction. It can allow you and your partner to share some unforgettable experiences, ones that quite possibly may take you to greater heights of pleasure than you have ever imagined. True, BDSM isnt for everyone, but you owe it to yourself to satisfy your burning curiosity (and growing desire) by at least giving it a try.

Think BDSM (at least parts of it) may be too wild or dangerous for you? No problem. The great thing about BDSMand any sexual activity, reallyis there are no ironclad rules. You can experiment and try things out, and then decide what works for you. If one thing sends shivers through your body (in a good way) and allows you to reach more powerful climaxes than ever beforewell, obviously you will want to keep enjoying that experience. But if you try something and discover it isnt for youwell, at least you were brave enough to try, and now you know you can cross that activity off your list. Either way, you will probably have fun doing the research.

Most likely, you will find at least a few things that you really enjoy, and then you can tailor those specific things to your own individual tastes, making them as intense and wild (or not) as you like. You can also take the BDSM basicsspanking or restraints, for exampleand put your own unique and personal spin on them, making the experience something completely personal for you and your partner. You can proceed at your own pace, taking whatever direction feels comfortable or exciting for you. Have fun blazing new trails!

You will probably discover some new things about yourself and your partner along the way. You just might surprise yourself by uncovering some powerful urges and strong turn-ons you never even knew you hadwhich may make you wish you had done this a long time ago! And if you are a little bit nervous about trying BDSM, you will enjoy a sense of accomplishment once you conquer this new territory. You will likely feel empowered at your new boldness, and will revel in your role as a fierce sex god or goddess.

Whether you take the dominant or submissive role, you may find that a BDSM arrangement frees you to shed your inhibitions and explore your sexuality in a way you have never done before. That can pave the way to many wonderful new experiences and sensations.

Now that you have taken the first step, keep going! The information and tips in this book should help guide you on your way, and I hope to encourage you to proceed with gusto. Be bold and daringyou will be glad you did!

Chances are, you will discover some new tricks that add some hot sparks to your sex life. This will obviously improve your physical relationship, but can also help strengthen or renew your emotional bond. You will enjoy a new sort of intimate connection with your partner, and the two of you will benefit from exploring this shared adventure together.

So what are you waiting for? Lots of exciting new experiences lie ahead.

Enjoy the journey!