Rysa Hollis - Pleasure: BDSM Training, A Practical Guide for the Dom and Sub (Sex Guide)

Pleasure

BDSM Training, A Practical Guide for the Dom and Sub (Sex guide Book 4)

Written by: Rysa Hollis

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Many people, especially beginners, have often complained about how difficult it is to practice BDSM. Many people have attested to withdrawing after engaging in a BDSM practice in their first trials. While it is true that the method can be complicated, BDSM involves many things. First thing first, you don't need to be an expert to practice BDSM. BDSM ranges from the basic techniques to the most extreme and complex practices. This is what makes BDSM interesting. It offers you a platform to enjoy intense, sexual pleasure irrespective of how in-depth your knowledge is.

But do you know that you can enjoy practicing BDSM as much as anyone does? In this book, you will learn BDSM secrets that will transform and spice up your sex life. We shall discuss many things that you don't know about BDSM, such as what it is, techniques and methods, and how to safely practice it to the extent that it becomes the most pleasurable adventure that you have ever had. We shall cover topics like the benefits of practicing BDSM, types of BDSM, beginners' and pro methods, BDSM precautions, and so much more.

This book is tailored to answer any questions that you might have regarding BDSM from the beginner's perspective and further help the experienced ones spice up their BDSM lives so that the act becomes more pleasurable.

We implore you to read and digest this BDSM book as it contains useful content that will ensure you engage in BDSM safely.

You might have read about BDSM in books like E.L. James's Fifty Shades series and become familiar with the use of painful behaviors and tools to please or get sexually satisfied sexually. Or you might even have heard about it but don't know what it really entails. We are not talking about the abbreviation itself but what it takes to get involved in BDSM acts. As a beginner, getting introduced to BDSM is not easy, and at the same time, it's exciting and straightforward. It's one sexual activity that's very complex. Get it right, and it will be the best sex adventure. Get it wrong, and you will so profoundly regret it. It takes a lot to comprehend BDSM and actually get involved in it.

In simple terms, BDSM means Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Submission and Masochism. The acronym comprises of a lot of simples to complex activities that may or may not include sex. In other words, some couples don't get involved in one BDSM activity or the other, mainly because of sex. Commonly, BDSM involves one partner taking the dominant role while the other assumes the submissive role.

A lot of people have different ways of defining BDSM personally. To some people, BDSM can lead to the most intense sexual experiences of their lives. It's a fantasy that they want to experience with their partner. Others may see it as a form of energy and spirituality and may perform different experiments with things to induce pain and escape from some things bothering the mind.

BDSM uses pain and humiliating scenarios. As we have stated, these role-playing acts generally involve a dominant and a submissive partner, commonly called the dom and the sub in BDSM terminology.

For many years, many couples and partners considered BDSM unhealthy, abusive, and a symptom of mental illness or mental disorder. Some viewed bondage/discipline as a characteristic of an abusive relationship, even though that's never the case. However, people have started to accept it as a way to spice up their love life. Mental health professionals recommend BDSM for couples as it promotes the mental and general well-being of the individuals involved.

BDSM focuses on healthy play, and the consensual agreement entered by both parties. Generally, BDSM is now described as a leisure activity. In the dom/sub role, the dominant may seize total power or prefer to be in control of the whole show. The submissive, on the other hand, may relish giving up control. BDSM implores us to take it slow and move from the simple plays to the extreme or hardcore ones and do what we are more interested in. This is the joy of BDSM and why it is exciting. It offers you a platform to figure out your interests, boundaries, and the intensity of the play. While the experienced ones are likely going to be more intense in their practice, others, especially the beginners, may practice less severe BDSM activities more frequently.

As we said in the previous subheading, many people compare BDSM to abuse to the extent that they classify BDSM as a symptom of abuse. The answer is BDSM isn't abuse and why it isn't is because of consent or the consensual agreement entered by both parties. Consent or consensual agreement doesn't have to be written, and it can be verbal. Some BDSM activities may require you to hurt someone, but they are desired and consented by the individuals involved prior to the scene. And since both parties consented to it, it's no longer termed an abuse. Moreover, both parties benefit, and the submissive is permitted to use the safe word at any time to halt an activity is he or she is uncomfortable. We will talk about safe words at the end of this book.

Although BDSM may look like the dominant is more favored, they are tasked with taking care of the submissive. That is, they are responsible for the safety of their submissive. Safety and consent are the central themes of BDSM, and that is why it's somewhat guaranteed.