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Hooper, Anne
269 amazing sex tips and tricks for him / by Anne Hooper and Phillip Hodson.
p. cm.
Rev. ed. of: 269 amazing sex tips and tricks for men. c2003.
Includes bibliographical references and index.
1. Sex instruction for men. 2. Sexual excitement. I. Hodson, Phillip. II. Hooper, Anne- 269 amazing sex tips and tricks for men. III. Title. IV. Title: Two hundred sixty-nine amazing sex tips and tricks for him.
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A REAL MAN
BE unashamed
1. Dont feel apologetic for your shape, size, or physical appearance.
2. Feel normal, even if by some standards you think you are not. Its the human being inside you that counts.
3. Fetishes: the most well-adjusted male fetishists we know are completely happy with their fetish and open about their interests.
4. This means that it doesnt matter what your lawful sexual interests areits YOU, your personality, that attracts (or doesnt attract) your woman.
5. But dont be vulgar. Research shows that although many men are excited by filth, women are repelled. The sooner you get rid of anger and crudity, the more success youll have.
real SEX DIFFERENCES
Research shows that there ARE some real sex differences between men and women (although in most respects, the two sexes are astoundingly similar).
6. Men are visualthey are actively turned on by what they SEE. This means that they dont have to lift a muscle to get an erectionjust looking does most of it for them. Be unashamed of your frankly erotic reactions.
unreal SEX DIFFERENCES
What you learn is not quite the same as what you innately inherit. Men are more comfortable with their bodies, their genitals, and masturbation from a much earlier age than women. This is because mens sexual apparatus is positioned on the body where it can be easily located, even by a child of two. (Actually, it is easily located even earlier than that. Studies of baby boys have shown that quite tiny babies discover the joys of genital pleasure.) Boys get tons of practice at sex (with themselves) and gain an advantage over women there. And most societies in history have been less disapproving of boys sexual curiosity.
BIG PENIS versus SMALL PENIS
There have been innumerable surveys of penis size, from the famous Kinsey Report to the infamous Forum magazine, so there is a fair consensus of normality.
7. Eight or more inches is really big, but truthfully not better. It may fill up your woman satisfactorily, but if she is built small, you are also likely to be crashing into the far end of her cervix and causing serious pain or even womb displacement. Go for the doggy position or ask her to sit on top so she can control the depth of thrust. Remember that the average length of the human vagina is only six inches.
8. Two-and-a-half inches is small, but because the owners of these mini crown jewels have to put a little extra into stimulating their women, they are often the best lovers of the lot.
THE average PENIS
The normal range of penis size is from two-and-a-half inches to ten. Around five-and-a-half to six inches is the American and European average, although please note that penis size depends on the body type you inherit from your native ancestors. In the Far East, for example, where men inherit slim body size, the average can be as much as two inches less.
9. Warning: make sure your condoms fit BEFORE your sex tryst. Find the size that fits you properly. In Thailand, where penises arent as big as those in the West, they only size condoms in superlativesJumbo, Colossal, and Super-Colossal.
GET THE MOST OUT OF your genitals
Lubrication inside the penile passage is provided by the Cowpers gland (inside the body). The penile shaft is filled with spongy tissue that fills up with blood during sexual excitement, thus producing an erection. The foreskin is the peniss natural protective wrapper. The glans is the head of the penis and exquisitely responsive. The scrotum is a carrying case for your balls (testicles) and keeps them at optimum temperature so that your valuable sperm get the best possible chance to score a hit. The perineum is the highly sensitive area between the back of the scrotum and the anus. The anus is densely packed with erogenous feeling.
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