Hooper - 269 Amazing Sex Tips and Tricks for Her

Copyright 2003, 2009 by Anne Hooper and Phillip Hodson

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First published in Great Britain in 2001 by Robson Books, The Chrysalis Building, Bramley Road, London W10 6SP, a member of the Chrysalis BooksGroup. 2001 Anne Hooper and Phillip Hodson

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Hooper, Anne

269 amazing sex tips and tricks for her / by Anne Hooper and Phillip Hodson.

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Rev. ed. of: 269 amazing sex tips and tricks for women. c2003.

Includes bibliographical references and index.

1. Sex instruction for women. 2. Women--Sexual behavior. 3. Sexual excitement. I. Hodson, Phillip. II. Hooper, Anne- 269 amazing sex tips and tricks for women. III. Title. IV. Title: Two hundred and sixty-nine amazing sex tips and tricks for her.

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1. It is easy to create an intimate relationship with someone when you respect and like yourself.

Believe that you are:

• Attractive
• Interesting
• Sexy
• Loving

2. If you have any doubts, go for assertion training, which will help you feel great.

3. The sex that blew the top of your head off yesterday was yesterday. Make each day, each lovemaking session, new.

4. See erotic fantasy as a gorgeous, life-enhancing pleasure in itself. Dont look at it as a means to an end.

Sexual fantasy is a unique sexual experience, since it embodies a type of tension that cant be really experienced in the flesh. This tension is also the erotic pull between what may be wonderful for you but bad for others. It represents the balance between freedom of thought and repression of the forbidden.

The top five female fantasies:

5. Swimming in a sunlit sea where the ripples of the water and the lapping of the waves induce blissful sensations.

6. The audition where young men are made to show off their bodies as they compete for a starring role.

7. Under the doctor, where the doctor takes advantage while giving a routine examination.

8. Riding with the Hells Angelsa night of initiation.

9. In the gyma lesbian fantasy that takes place in the locker room.

When you get used to a sexual routine, what was once new knowledge shifts from one side of the brain into a kind of dull filing area section on the other side. This filing section lets you now function on automatic pilot instead of carefully thinking everything through every time. This means that if you and your partner want to recapture the freshness of sex, you need to work on the ELEMENT of SURPRISE.

10. Set up his screen saver with a series of erotic pictures of yourself. (Make sure the photos are ones you wouldnt mind transmitted to the ends of the earth via the Internet.)

11. Leave a suggestive message on his voicemail.

12. Plant a love note in the cereal box.

13. Do something in bed you have never done before.

14. Closing your eyes.

15. Touching yourself.

16. Touching your partner but experiencing the touch as pleasure for yourself.

17. Identifying and describing the effects of his touch.

18. Try to see your partner as a person and not just as a fantasy figure. This is important when making a sensual relationship but hard to do since we all suffer from the Distorted Mirror effect when we fall in love. We cannot help but see the lover as someone incredibly enhanced.

You might:

19. Look behind your partners physical face or body and see through to his sexual self.

20. Close your eyes and breathe in your partners scent. Try the test of imagining he is part of a line-up and you must identify him, while blindfolded, only by his scent.

21. Think of him and not you. This means from time to time freeing your mind of what you might like to happen to you and truly focusing on what your lover would prefer.

22. Do something for your lover with no thought of yourself. An altruistic approach is wonderful so long as you sense it is reciprocated. Do not, however, fall into the trap of letting him take you for granted.