HOT SEX
TIPS, TRICKS, AND LICKS
SIZZLING TOUCH AND TONGUE TECHNIQUES FOR AMAZING ORGASMS
JESSICA OREILLY, Ph.D.
CONTENTS
CHAPTER 1:
HER SWEET SPOTS: FEMALE ANATOMY AND EROGENOUS ZONES
CHAPTER 2:
MOVES TO RILE HER UP
CHAPTER 3:
HOTTER TRICKS TO ROCK HER WORLD
CHAPTER 4:
THE HOTTEST TECHNIQUES FOR MIND-BLOWING ORGASMS
CHAPTER 5:
HIS SWEET SPOTS: MALE ANATOMY AND EROGENOUS ZONES
CHAPTER 6:
HOT MOVES TO RILE HIM UP
CHAPTER 7:
HOTTER TRICKS TO DRIVE HIM WILD
CHAPTER 8:
THE HOTTEST TECHNIQUES FOR MIND-BLOWING ORGASMS
CHAPTER 9:
SEX PLAY FOR TWO
INTRODUCTION:
FINGERS AND LIPS AND TONGUES, OH MY!
DO YOU WANT TO GIVE AND GET BIGGER, BETTER ORGASMS? OF COURSE YOU DO.
You love sexand youre already great at itbut no matter how skillful you may be there is always more to learn. Thats where this book comes in. With advanced tips for skilled lovers and sexy techniques to turn your fingers, lips, and tongues into conduits of undeniable pleasure, you can enjoy the greatest sex of your life and leave your partner craving more of what youve got to give.
Mind-blowing sex isnt just about intercourse, and for many men and women the hottest and most satisfying orgasms come from tantalizing manual and oral stimulation. Thats right: Your fingers, lips, and tongue are the keys to being the best lover your partner could possibly dream of. And because its just as fun to give as it is to receive, this one-stop manual covers tips for men and women to make sure youre well on your way to discovering:
The hottest erogenous zones and how to make them tingle with orgasmic pleasure
New and innovative ways to turn your fingers into the most sought-after sex toys on the market
Technical secrets to mind-blowing oral that may just leave plain old intercourse trailing in the dust
Essential tips for better sexits not all about the technical components
Seduction and dirty-talk techniques to get into your partners head and fulfill his or her every desire
Positions that pack the most power for mutual pleasure
An appetite for exploring new fantasies and expanding your sexual horizons
These step-by-step sex tips, tricks, and licks are divided into separate sections for men and women. Theyre also categorized according to where they fall in the sexual response cycle: Hot Moves to Rile Them Up are perfect for warming up and making the body tingle with desire; Hotter Tricks to Rock Her World and Drive Him Wild are designed to bring you to the very edge of orgasm; the Hottest Techniques for Mind-Blowing Orgasms are sure-fire ways to make your lover moan with pleasure and dream of you and your sexual skills for years to come.
With more than a hundred techniques, variations, and tips, you cant possibly cover them all in one sittingno matter how ambitious you are! So pick and choose from the hottest hand tricks and tongue licks and have fun experimenting with new ways to take your sexual experience and connection to new heights.
Please Read! This Is a No-Pressure Zone
This book is full of tips and techniques to thrust your sex life into high gear. But it isnt intended to be the be-all, end-all of all things sexual. Quite the opposite: Its intention is to inspire you to broaden your sexual horizons, change up your routine, and talk about your most carnal desires, fears, and fantasies.
None of these tips, tricks, and licks is designed to define your sexuality or add to the already immense pressure that exists to be perfect at sex. In fact, one of the most important strategies for revolutionizing your sex life is to ditch the pressure. We experience so much pressure when it comes to sex that we expend energy challenging our performance at every turn: Am I doing it right? Does my lover like it? How do I look? Did my partner have an orgasm? Am I big enough, strong enough, hot enough, tight enough, wet enough, hard enough? The list goes on and on and on.
But sex shouldnt be a performance; it should be an experience. You dont need to be a master of every imaginable sexual trade to knock your lovers socks off. You can be great in bed without embracing every single sex move under the sunthats why there are so many options! Take in as much or as little as you like and change your mind as often as you want. The good news is that with every technique detailed in these pages, you just cant screw up because every move is a new discovery.
Whatever your fancy, rest assured that by delving into the folds of some healthy adult education, youre already on the right track.
10 Tips for Better Sex
Before you get started with the specific tips, tricks, and lick techniques, there are a few overarching guidelines that generally make for sizzling-hot sex. The technical components described in the upcoming chapters may feel great and make you look like a sexual rock star, but it is the way you think about sex that really makes you a great loverfor yourself and for your partners. While each person is unique and the only sure-fire way to know what your partner likes is to ask, these ten tips should have you well on your way to relishing the greatest sex of your life:
1. MAKE FOREPLAY (AKA FLIRTING) A DAILY ROUTINE.
Youve probably heard about foreplay a thousand times over, but the finest foreplay isnt just about making out and some under-the-blouse groping. In fact, the hottest foreplay often doesnt involve any physical contact at all. Thats right! Lusty foreplay is all about flirting with your partner in a purposeful manner intended to titillate, arouse, and eventually satisfy your mutual cravings.
Flirting is one of the most fundamental human behaviors, and each of us is hardwired to seduce prospective partners with flirtatious gestures and expressions. When you first meet, the flirting meter flies off the charts, but this sexy courting ritual wanes with time and can easily disappear even in loving relationships. This can be catastrophic, as evolutionary psychologists believe that flirting with your partner is actually a genetic survival tactic. Translation? Flirting leads to more sex!
Here are a few flirting tips to take your prolonged foreplay to new heights:
Touch! Brush your hand against your lovers thigh in nonsexual situations to make the blood rush to his or her pelvic region and give your lover a taste of whats to come later. This isnt a commitment to have sex when you get homeits just a reminder to your lover that your attraction to him or her is still red hot.
Be unpredictable. Surprise your honey with sexy texts, love notes, or unannounced lunch dates. Again, sex doesnt have to be on the table for you to enjoy some intimacy, romance, and sexual tension. The power of suggestion can sometimes be as hot as sex itself.
Offer compliments. This is an easy one! If youre new to flirting or feel awkward dishing out sexy talk, begin with compliments of an animalistic nature. While lustily running your eyes over your honeys body, tell your lover how much you love his or her skin, eyes, thighs, arms, or any other feature youre genuinely attracted to.
Whisper! Almost anything sounds sexy when you lower your voice. So the next time you two are eating dinner together, walk over to your partners side and whisper sweet nothings in his or her ear.