Shubhashish Dixit - Let’s Be Honest

LETS

BE

HONEST

BY

SHUBHASHISH

DIXIT

One of the things Irealized was that motivation is really a fuel. At onepoint or another it gets burned away quickly and youre left withan exhausted body. Hear me out, You see going to seminars andwatching motivational speeches and reading books gets fired up humansfor a quite a time and then that person engages in BEASTMODE. Now heres the funny version, the beast mode exhausts yourfuel so quickly that youre in it for a really short period.Sometimes weeks or most of the time just for some days and very fewpeople dont even bother working after seminar. They go just abouttheir lives ignoring the fact like it never happened in the veryfirst place. You see its necessary for us to use that fuelefficiently because its limited.

THE PROBLEM IS MANY PEOPLE FEED THEMSELVESWITH MOTIVATION BUT NEVER REALLY WORK THEM OUT IN REAL REALM. ITSTAYS IN YOUR HEAD AND THATS WHY YOURE THE KING OF YOUR FANTASYWORLD AND NOT IN REALITY.

Now, the only efficientway to be in the BEAST MODE for thelongest period possible is if its in your muscle memory,thats it, you have to get in your muscle memory so you dont evenhave to think about doing it the next time but you just doit. Are you hearing me??Successful people have it mastered. They win without even thinkingabout it. They are on the next level people. You and I are nowherenear them but we can reach them there. Might take us some time butwe can get there if we wish to. Now SUCCESS becomes addictionwhen you have it for the first time. The first time you tastesuccess, the first time you feel it is what gonna drive you for thenext time. Youre gonna love every moment of it. So when you engagein beast mode I want you to remember what it feels like and whatdoes it tastes like. I want you become PHENOMENAL. Its a smallword but you can own the world if you master it. You see as humanbeing we are given the power of imagination. What it does is itlets you imagine things that may happen 10 yrs from no or maybe 20yrs. I want you to see yourself accomplishing those particulardreams. Im sorry not dreams, but GOALS. We are no people who seedreams. We are the ones who set goals. Dreams are not something yousee in your sleep but what doesnt let you sleep in the very firstplace. Do you see it?

Your personal freedom in the distant future.You own cars and wake up when you want to and wear the tailoredmade suits made just for you!! That is something that only you willexperience and it is unique to you. You are special to me when youread this book man! Because you are just as hungry as me! Now Ichallenge you to spend time by yourself. Dont invest your time inothers because every moment you spend with them comes with theprice of you forgetting yourself. I want you to isolate yourself toa point where other people stop bothering you anymore. In thatabyss you are alone with your goals surrounding you and youre theonly person who will set out the path. And let me remind you peoplewill never understand what you are doing. They will neverunderstand how you do things and what you do to make your dreamsbecome a reality. Dont you let them in get in your ear like it wastheir dream in the first place. Dont you let them talk you out ofit. IT WAS YOUR GOAL. THAT DREAM BELONGED YOU! NOT THEM. SO GO OUTEMBRACE IT.

The more I know myself,the less I am affected by the opinion of others

Do you knowyou?

A very simple question that not everyoneseeks answer to. We just copycat different people into our givenlives, dont we? Not knowing whether their suits will fit us ornot. Maybe even now, you might be copying someones work ethic oreven sometimes the lifestyle itself even if it cuts you down toyour financial throat. Even if we cant afford that we still do itjust so we can BLEND-IN with others. Thats human behavior forus. One of the main reasons is because we are scared and I meanreally scared to face the reality. We have this constant urge ofpeople accepting us, to like us. Even if you deny it, deep down inyour heart believe it or not you still want it. I am not statingthis as a sign of weakness but I am just stating the obvious ofwhats really going on. Because living under someones shadow justso you can blend-in is what killing your originality. The veryquestion of knowing yourself is the foundation of your originalbeing. Now it can be anything, starting from what you reallylike? I just put really under quotes because I didnt wantyou to write just bout anything that you dont like but still wrotebecause it seems plausible to others. A-hem! Never Mind.

The reason is obvious forme to ask you to know yourself just a little better because I knowthat you really dont have a clue of who you really are? Or what isthat you truly desire . Because if youre readingthis book you know that theres more to you than you reallyknow now. Maybe this chapter can give you that little spark ofknowing thy self a little better.

One of the best thingswill happen in your journey of finding your true-self and that isyou will really come to know who really is yourcomrade amongst many in your war of life. Because when you will takethat mask off and reveal your true-self many ofthe people will leave but those who will stay even if it will bejust one person, now that person will truly love you for who youreally are. Most people will judge and make statements on you butknow this someones opinion of you does not become your reality.Now because I stated the obvious part that many peoplewill leave when you set out on the terms of finding yourself,many people will never ask themselves this question of who theyreally are just like I stated at the very start of this chapter.But if you really want something better for yourself and seek fortrue glory this step is a must take. Whether you like it or not. Itcomes at a price of sacrifice of losing people who in fact werenever really there but still you liked their presence. So in theend I just challenge you to take time to know you. Make thenecessary sacrifices that you have to. Cancel that importantmeeting. Dont go to hangout with your friends if you have to. Justsit back and take a deep breath put some piano music on and writethings that you like in a notepad. And keep that notepad toyourself. Dont show it to anybody. Everyday for a week writesomething down that you like and would like to have. And when youdo that I want you to spend your natural life waking up and goingafter it. Once you get what you wrote down just start over writingthe next best thing .

One of the things we allrealize at some point or other is, life is really simple. Well somewill others wont. No man youre so wrong, life is really tough;its so hard we have to pay bills, take care of our babies andprotect man. That is exactly what you arethinking right now isnt you? Well we all have different opinions and allof them are true on some level. But just hear me out on this one.The only time life is simple is when you do stuff the way youresupposed to in the firstplace . Let me clearyour shadiness on this thought a littlebit . If people just did their jobdiligently, if the student just completed his assignments ontime, really studied for the exam, you did your job on time, getthem done before the deadline wouldnt your life beway easier just like that of students who would be atthe top of his class. On the other hand he would be called a nerdso never mind. But its an interesting point of what if people justdid their job the way they were supposed to without anydistractions. But most of us will never do that, why isthat? Is it because we dont like doing it? Or because ourdistractions become our center of attractions. You see even if wedo realize we are being distracted from our goals westill dont calibrate back onto the right path. We letourselves keep falling down that hell-hole which has no end. Only afew people get right back up and the others well they fall all theway down. To be truly honest with you guys. Theres only two thingsthat will separate most of us people in the end, either youll besuccessful or youll be failure. Theres no midway and you willmeet the non-successful all the times, some of them or lets justsay most of them will state that theyre happy with the things asthe way they are and believe me they will, most will even go on tocriticize the successful ones just to prove their point but knowthis people their justification is what killing them in the firstplace. You see when you start lying and keep going on and on youstart believing it. And before you know it you live in it. Some ofyou may not be on the sweet side of the life and Im not either butstruggle is what binds you and I together, the very least thingcommon or maybe the only thing is that we both are surviving. Itsvery scary to embrace your reality and face the truth I know thatand even you know that. Sometimes the truth will strip you ofeverything you are wearing so the cloth of lie to cover up seemsplausible but know this you can never wear that same piece of clotheveryday. The people, who embrace the reality stacked against them,accept it and turn them into strength will be the oneswalking among the great. Its the universal truth thatsuccess is given on first come first serve basis. Its notsomething written on your fate or shit. Life accepts one currencyand that is called work and believes me you have to payit up front. Success is not something we are given. You see theperson who works and pays their fees to life is the one rewardedwith food called success and the fun part is theres enough foreverybody but reality is everybody cant affordit.