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Quick-Start Guide
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I have trouble sleeping.
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If you checked several of the boxes, read on to learn about CBT and take part of the therapeutic process into your own hands.
For my fathers father,
CPO Frank Rollin Gillihan
(19191967)
Contents
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Foreword
RESEARCH HAS SHOWN THAT COGNITIVE-BEHAVIORAL THERAPY (CBT) is the most effective treatment for depressive and anxiety disorders, surpassing medication and other types of therapy in its ability to ameliorate suffering and prevent relapse. But what is CBT, and how does it work?
Its difficult to appreciate CBTs power to heal until you have seen it in action. In my clinical work, I have witnessed people debilitated by these disorders awaken as they learn cognitive-behavioral techniques.
For example, one of my clients, a 65-year-old woman who had suffered from severe depression for 30 years, arrived at my door feeling hopeless, frustrated, and entirely skeptical that I could help her think her way out of it. In her mind, she was a victim of a cruel genetic lottery, and there was nothing she (or I) could do to improve her mood.
Yet within a few sessions she became aware of her thought processes and came to acknowledge that many of her assumptions about herself were not based in fact. She began to question these assumptions before jumping to conclusions and to consider other possibilities. She discovered that her thoughts were not always entirely accurate, and she learned how to look for evidence before believing her initial judgments.
This awareness of her thinking patterns led to small but profound changes in the way she related to her husband. As her marriage began to improve, she felt secure enough to reevaluate her interpretations of others reactions to her, and she began to understand that the lens through which she experienced the world was distorted. Through CBT, she was able to restructure her thought processes so that she could accept the world, and herself, on more accurate grounds.
Gradually, she gained the confidence to start socializing again and to reach out to family members she thought had given up on her. She was pleasantly surprised by the reaction she received from them. I watched her transform from someone who could barely muster the energy to go for a walk to someone engaged in social and family events, and someone who looked forward to the next day. Such is the potential of CBT to transform lives.
People often seek help for depression and anxiety in books but abandon these books when they encounter academic jargon or overly long explanations of psychological theory, or feel disheartened by the sheer length of the books. For those struggling with the weight of low mood or fraught with the exhaustion of anxiety, a thick book written in abstract language can feel overwhelming. But in these pages, Dr. Gillihan has provided us with a simple, succinct, and stress-free workbook. It is ideal for people who feel exhausted or defeated by their struggles. In nine easy-to-read chapters, Dr. Gillihan instills confidence and mastery in his readers by breaking down cognitive-behavioral strategies into easily digestible concepts and exercises.
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