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Why does your toddler get upset when his or her routine is disrupted? Why do they follow you from room to room and refuse to play on their own? Why are daily routines such as mealtimes, bath time, and bed time such a struggle? This accessible guide demystifies the difficult behaviors of anxious toddlers, offering tried-and-tested practical solutions to common parenting dilemmas. Each chapter begins with a real life example, clearly illustrating the behavior from the parents and the toddlers perspective. Once the toddlers anxious behavior has been demystified and explained, new and effective parenting approaches are introduced to help parents tackle everyday difficulties and build up their childs resilience, independence, and coping mechanisms. Common difficulties with bath time, toileting, sleep, eating, transitions, social anxiety, separation anxiety, and sensory issues are solved, along with specific fears and phobias, and more extreme behaviors such as skin picking and hair...

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How to Parent Your Anxious Toddler

Natasha Daniels

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Jessica Kingsley Publishers
London and Philadelphia

First published in 2016

by Jessica Kingsley Publishers

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London N1 9BE, UK

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Philadelphia, PA 19106, USA

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Copyright Natasha Daniels 2016

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Library of Congress Cataloging in Publication Data

Daniels, Natasha.

How to parent your anxious toddler / Natasha Daniels.

pages cm

ISBN 978-1-84905-738-7 (alk. paper)

1. Anxiety in children. 2. Toddlers--Development. 3. Parenting. 4. Parent and child. I. Title.

BF723.A5D36 2016

649.123--dc23

2015016720

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ISBN 978 1 84905 738 7

eISBN 978 1 78450 148 8

To my three children, who continually teach me more about life than anyone else and to my husband, who makes my life sparkle.

Contents

Introduction: What
Does an Anxious
Toddler Look Like?

Does your toddler get upset when his routine is disrupted? Does he follow you from room to room and is he unable to play on his own? Do you struggle with daily routines like mealtimes, bath time and bedtime? Sounds like most toddlers, right? Common toddler struggles are amplified for the anxious toddler. Parents are often told that their toddler is just going through their terrible twos or that its just a phase, but parents who live with an anxious toddler know that it is more than that. Being frequently woken up at all hours of the night, having two-hour meltdowns if the routine is disrupted, gagging on mixed textures and only eating a handful of food choices, and lining up toys and having a fit if someone takes one out of linethis just doesnt seem like a typical toddler to most parents who live with these behaviors on a daily basis!

This book is designed for parents who need support and guidance on how to parent their anxious child. Some behaviors may be confusing or misunderstood. Many typical parenting approaches dont workor worse, make the problem bigger! Parents often feel as if they have tried everything, and nothing works. Once the toddlers behavior is demystified and explained, new effective parenting approaches can be explored. These approaches at times might seem counterintuitive to the behavior or the situation, but they can build life skills and coping mechanisms for ongoing change. The earlier parents address and treat anxiety in their child, the better the long-term outcome.

If you are reading this then you have won half the battle. You have successfully labeled your toddlers behavior as anxiety. Often in my private practice, parents will bring their older children in for anxiety issuesfears of the dark, bugs or strangers. When I ask about their history, parents will report that their child has had no prior issues with anxiety. When I ask them to describe their child when he was a toddler, I will often get the response, Oh he was rigid, liked his routine, couldnt wear socks, was such a picky eater, was very emotionalbut he didnt worry about anything back then. Parents do not always recognize that those are the early stages of anxiety. They also dont always realize that many coping mechanisms and adaptation skills can be planted at this crucial, impressionable time.

Parents often blame themselves for their childs anxiety. They wonder what they did to cause the fears and behaviors. In my practice I have worked with a large array of parents, all with varying parenting styles and approaches, and yet their anxious children all have similar behaviors and issues. Blaming yourself for your childs anxiety is not only inaccurate, but also unproductive. Often genetics, a family history of anxiety, your childs emotional sensitivity and mood issues are to blame. With that being said, parenting styles can exacerbate or minimize the level of anxiety your child will experience as they progress through childhood.

This book is divided up into chapters that explore the most common challenging areas for the anxious toddlerand their parents. Some chapters may speak to you more than others. Not every anxious child has the same struggles or behaves in the same way. Some chapters might sound as if I am describing your life, while other chapters may be completely foreignand you will be thankful! Each chapter starts with a vignette presented through the eyes of the parent and then through the eyes of their toddler. Each vignette is a fictitious story based on common issues I have encountered and worked with in my private practice. I have worked with some wonderful families and many have understood their childs anxious behavior. However, for the sake of learning, I have highlighted in each parenting vignette the common misunderstandings and misinterpretations parents make of anxious toddler behavior. You will then get an alternative view from the toddler. You will see how the toddler views the same situation in a completely different light and why they are behaving the way they are from their perspective. Each chapter ends with various parenting approaches that help instill coping mechanisms, independence and adaptive behavior.

Toddlerhood is typically defined as the time of development between the ages of one and three. During this stage of development there is ongoing growth in your childs emotional and intellectual understanding. A toddlers language and cognitive abilities are vastly different at age one than at age three. Some children develop faster than others and may be quicker to acquire and understand language. With such an array of differences across developmental milestones between the ages of one and three, not every approach will be developmentally appropriate for your toddler. If you come across an approach that requires a higher acquisition of language or emotional maturity, make a note of the approach in case you are still dealing with that issue when your toddler is a little bit older. It is amazing how quickly toddlers change month to month! What may seem too difficult one month may be a perfect approach a few months later.

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