Mehr Afshan Farooqi - Ghalib

1750s: Ghalibs grandfather, Mirza Quqan Beg Khan, comes to India from Samarqand, settles in Lahore

Mid-1754: Mirza Quqan Beg Khan moves to Delhi

Mid-1756: He takes up service with Prince Shah Alam

1763 (approx.): Mirza Quqan Beg Khan marries

1765: Ghalibs father, Abdullah Beg Khan, is born in Delhi

176780: Five more children are born to Mirza Quqan Beg Khan, including Ghalibs uncle, Nasrullah Beg Khan

Mid-1771: Mirza Quqan Beg Khan takes up service with Zulfiqar ud-Daulah

1782 (approx.): Mirza Quqan Beg Khan takes up service with the Maharaja of Jaipur and settles in Agra

Mid-1778: Mirza Quqan Beg Khan dies

1793 (approx.): Ghalibs father, Abdullah Beg Khan, marries Izzatun Nisa Begam. Getting married at the age of twenty-eight seems unusual for the men at the time. Perhaps they were married earlier

1795 or earlier: Abdullah Beg Khans first child, Chhoti Khanam, Ghalibs sister, is born

Before 21 September 1797: Abdullah Beg Khan takes up service with Navab Asif ud-Daulah in Lucknow

21 September 1797: Navab Asif ud-Daulah dies

27 December 1797: Asadullah Khan is born in Agra (or maybe a couple of years earlier). The first instance of his date of birth is recorded in the 1837 manuscript of Divan-e Farsi. The divan (collection of poetry) of 1837 includes a qasidah-e manqibat (an ode in praise of the Prophets companions and descendants) in honour of Hazrat Imam Husain. The manqibat has a section in which Ghalib eloquently describes the conjugation of stars that have dealt him misfortunes. A subsequent version of this divan, prepared in 1848, has Ghalibs horoscope, in his own hand, attached with the manqibat. The horoscope mentions that Ghalib was born four hours before sunrise on Sunday evening (yak shambah), 8th of Rajab, 1212 hijri. But 8th of Rajab, 1212 hijri was not a Sunday; it was a Wednesday (chaharshambah)

Late 1799: Ghalibs younger brother, Yusuf Ali Khan (also known as Mirza Yusuf), is born

Before 1802: Abdullah Beg Khan takes up service with the maharajah of Alwar

1801/2: Abdullah Beg Khan dies, buried at Rajgarh in Alwar; his younger brother, Nasrullah Beg Khan, takes guardianship of his children. Nasrullah Beg Khan was married to the sister of Ahmad Bakhsh Khan, the Navab of Firozpur-Jhirka and Loharu (the date of the marriage is unknown)

1803: Nasrullah Beg Khan is the commander of Agra Fort, under the Marathas

1803: Nasrullah Beg Khan changes sides, joins Lord Lake; is appointed the commander of 400 cavalry at a salary of Rs 1700 per month

April 1806: Nasrullah Beg Khan dies after falling off an elephant

4 May 1806: His family, i.e. Nasrullah Beg Khans mother and three sisters, and Ghalib and his sister and brother, are granted a pension of Rs 10,000 annually, to be paid from the revenues of Ahmad Bakhsh Khans estate (who was probably granted some of Nasrullah Beg Khans property)

7 June 1806: The grant is reduced by Ahmad Bakhsh Khan to Rs 5000; half of this is granted to Khwaja Haji, a dependent of Nasrullah Beg Khan. Khwaja Haji was married to the daughter of Nasrullah Beg Khans paternal aunt (Ghalibs fathers phuphi). Khwaja Haji is entrusted with the command of fifty horsemen

180708 (approx.): Nazir Akbarabadi is alleged (probably not accurately) to have been Ghalibs tutor for some time during this period; Ghalib begins writing poetry, using Asad as his pen name. His famous short masnavi (a long poem written in rhyming couplets) about kite-flying has been attributed by Hali to this period

1810: Ghalib is said to attend the maktab (elementary school) of Maulvi Muhammad Muazzam, Agra

18/19 August 1810: Ghalib is married in Delhi to Umrao Begam (age eleven), daughter of Navab Ilahi Bakhsh Khan Maruf, the younger brother of Navab Ahmad Bakhsh Khan of Firozpur-Jhirka and Loharu; none of the seven children they have live beyond infancy

1811: Hurmuzd (Abdus Samad) allegedly (though perhaps not in reality) arrives from Iran, stays for two years as Ghalibs Persian tutor and teaches him the Persian of a native speaker

1812/3: Ghalib moves to Delhi permanently; he lives for a while with his father-in-law, then moves to a rented house in Gali Qasim Jan

c. 1816: Ghalib compiles his first Urdu divan, its only extant copy is in his own handwriting. The original manuscript surfaced in Bhopal in 1969; printed facsimile editions of it were producedone by Akbar Ali Khan Arshizadah (Rampur, 1969) and another by Nisar Ahmad Faruqi (Lahore, 1969). The manuscript disappeared under mysterious circumstances in 1970 and resurfaced under equally mysterious circumstances in 2016. It has now been digitized by the Ghalib Institute, New Delhi

1816: Ghalib adopts Ghalib as his takhallus (pen name), in addition to Asad

1821 (approx.): Ghalib compiles the second version of his Urdu divan, which is commonly known as Nuskhah-e Hamidiyyah. This manuscript was found in Bhopal in 1917. First printed in 1921, it was edited by Mufti Anvar ul-Haq of Bhopal with the famous unfinished preface by Abdur Rahman Bijnori; and again, much later, it was unearthed from Lahore in 1969, edited by Hamid Ahmad Khan. The original, reported to have disappeared from the State Library in Bhopal in 1947, resurfaced for sale with an art dealer in London in 2015. Nuskhah-e Hamidiyyah, bought by Shahab Sattar, was digitized and published in 2016.

1822: Navab Ahmad Bakhsh Khan appoints his eldest son, Navab Shamsuddin Ahmad Khan, as his heir and the manager of his jagir (land grant). Ghalibs relations with the latter were strained both for political and personal reasons

1825/26: Ghalib compiles the third version of his Urdu divan, which is now known as Nuskhah-e Sherani; this manuscript, discovered by Hafiz Mahmud Sherani, is now in Punjab University, Lahore. It was published by the university in a facsimile edition (1969). This version contains most (though not all) of the ghazals from 1821, and many new ones.

1825: Khwaja Haji dies; Ghalib begins seeking restoration of the full pension; he goes to Firozpur-Jhirka to talk with Navab Ahmad Bakhsh Khan and General Ochterlony

November 1825: Ghalib makes a second fruitless visit to Firozpur-Jhirka, hoping in vain to meet Ochterlonys successor, Charles Metcalf, the newly appointed Resident of Delhi, through Ahmad Bakhsh Khan and improve his pension situation; he goes to Bharatpur with Khan, is unsuccessful in meeting Metcalf, returns with Khan to Firozpur-Jhirka in December and stays till September 1826

August/December 1826: Ghalibs father-in-law, Navab Ilahi Bakhsh Khan Maruf, dies; Ghalibs younger brother, Mirza Yusuf, becomes insane around this time