Susan Newman - The Book of No

Little Things Long Remembered:

Making Your Children Feel Special Every Day

The Case for the Only Child:

Your Essential Guide

Under One Roof Again:

All Grown Up and (Re)learning to Live Together Happily

Nobodys Baby Now:

Reinventing Your Adult Relationship with Your Mother and Father

Parenting an Only Child:

The Joys and Challenges of Raising Your One and Only

Little Things Mean a Lot:

Creating Happy Memories with Your Grandchildren

Little Things Shared:

Lasting Connections Between Family & Friends

Getting Your Child into College:

What Parents Must Know

Lets Always Promises to Make Love Last

Dont Be S.A.D.:

A Teenage Guide to Stress, Anxiety & Depression

It Wont Happen to Me:

True Stories of Teen Alcohol and Drug Abuse

You Can Say No to a Drink or a Drug:

What Every Kid Should Know

Never Say Yes to a Stranger:

What Your Child Must Know to Stay Safe

Memorable Birthdays:

Now a Guide, Later a Gift

A colossal, common, and vexing problem, which causes many other devilishly inescapable problems, is not saying no before yes leaps out of your mouth. In this priceless, practical, pithy volume, Dr. Susan Newman uses her wisdom, wiles, and wit to teach youkind, nice, good, and giving person that you arehow to bow out gracefully, how to decline an offer without giving offense, and how to teach others to do the same thing. This book is a game-changer and a life saver!

Edward Hallowell, MD, author of Driven to Distraction and other books

If you want to be a good friend, team player, and nice person, but always seem to put yourselfand the things you wantlast, The Book of No is for you. It helps break down the stigma and guilt associated with saying no, and provides hundreds of tips for exactly how to say it in specific circumstances and relationships. Youll learn the psychology behind why you get sucked into saying yes too often and what to do to stop.

Alice Boyes, PhD, author of The Anxiety Toolkit: Strategies for Fine-Tuning Your Mind and Moving Past Your Stuck Points

The Book of No gives people the courage to stand up for themselves. Reading it is both helpful and a delight; you find yourself sighing with gratitude, feeling freer because you have the exact words to say no, and thinking of who else in your life needs this book.

Jody J. Foster, MD, MBA and Michelle T. Joy, MD, coauthors of The Schmuck in My Office: How to Deal Effectively with Difficult People at Work

Overwhelmed? Overextended? Stressed? The Book of No is a must-read for the pushover tendency in all of us who agree to most things asked of us. Leading relationship psychologist Susan Newman explains why you say yes too often and how to say no graciously without feeling guilty or offending. Think of it as your life preserver and go-to guide for navigating relationships with your friends, family, spouse, boss, coworkers, parents, kidseven strangers. Youll want to say yes to The Book of No and keep it close by.

Michele Borba, EdD, educational psychologist and author of UnSelfie: Why Empathetic Kids Succeed in Our All-About-Me World

Does it have to be a fact of life that, as parents, its next to impossible to say no to our children? Susan Newman guides parents out of their giving-in habit with toddlers, teens, even adult children with smart advice in situations you will recognize and relate to. If youre a yes parent, you need The Book of No to help you stand firm through your parenting journey. Its healthy for you and your kids!

Amy McCready, author of The Me, Me, Me Epidemic: A Step-by-Step Guide to Raising Capable, Grateful Kids in an Over-Entitled World

In a world infected by instant gratification and murky boundaries, saying noand sticking to itis quickly becoming a lost art. The good news is that Susan Newman is here to help. Using detailed examples, humor, and actionable steps, Newman helps us explore our own obstacles to setting and maintaining healthy boundaries and empowers us to put an end to personal overload. In saying

yes to no, we just might make a dent in putting an end to our current culture of busy.

Katie Hurley, LCSW, author of No More Mean Girls and The Happy Kid Handbook

A wise and practical guide to living a life that fits your personal values, Susan Newmans newest book is a treasure trove of realistic scenarios and thoughtful responses to help you let go of commitments that leave you feeling resentful and depleted. Whether its a whining child or a demanding acquaintance, a guilt-tripping relative or an unreasonable work colleague, The Book of No offers doable strategies for setting healthy boundaries so you can say Yes! to the things that truly matter to you.

Eileen Kennedy-Moore, PhD, NJ psychologist, and coauthor of Growing Friendships: A Kids Guide to Making and Keeping Friends

For many of us, its very difficult to say no. Were asked to take on extra assignments at work and help colleagues and clients with projects that might be outside our official job description. Were asked for favors by our friends, by our families, and sometimes even by our LinkedIn connections. And yes, its nice to help, but we can end up overburdened. In The Book of No, Susan Newman offers great strategies and tips for learning to say no. This book is going to be my new go-to volume for putting a bit more no in my lifeand in the life of my clients, colleagues, and friends.

Andy Molinsky, PhD, professor of Organizational Behavior and International Management, Brandeis University, and author of Reach and Global Dexterity

All too often we find ourselves overworked and overstressed because we take on too much at work or at home. In short, we have trouble saying no! Dr. Susan Newmans book is an essential guide for those of us who are too agreeable, nice, or helpful, and really dont know how to set critical limits.

Ronald E. Riggio, PhD, professor of Leadership and Organizational Psychology, Claremont McKenna College

Sometimes you have to say no so you have time to say yes to what really mattersthe things that are important to you, preserve your health, and add to your happiness. Thats the powerful takeaway message from this realistic guide to kicking the yes habit and embracing the power of no.

Ann Douglas, author of Parenting Through the Storm

In this updated edition of The Book of No, social psychologist Susan Newman offers research and immensely practical tools to help us set boundaries and stop people-pleasing. The book is fun, easy to read, and provides scenarios like requests to look after a relatives children, drive your teen to the mall, or give up your weekend plans to do last-minute work. Along with each scenario are specific dialogues that demonstrate exactly what to say. The no responses are right on targetassertive and clear, yet respectful. So many of us struggle to skillfully set boundaries without hurting our relationships. This book is just what we need!

Melanie Greenberg, PhD, clinical psychologist and author of The Stress-Proof Brain