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Whats really wrong with having one child? Is one enough for you? For your partner? What constitutes a complete, happy family? Will your only child be lonely, spoiled, bossy, selfish? Read this book and find out.
Despite the personal distress and pressure to have a second baby, the number of women having an only child has more than doubled in the last two decades. What most people dont realize is that one-child families outnumber families with two children and have for more than two decades. In major metropolitan areas like New York, 30 percent of families have a singleton. Throughout the country people are following suit. And its no wonder why:
  • The worrisome biological clock (secondary infertility; older mothers)
    • Downtrodden job markets
    • How mothers working affects everyone in the family
    • Finances and housing and costs of education

    • These are only the few things that parents today (and parents to be) contend with when deciding to start a family and determining whether or not to stop after one. The time is right for a book that addresses the emerging type of nuclear family, one that consists of a solo child.
      Popular Psychology Todayblogger and parenting author of fifteen books, including the groundbreaking Parenting the Only Child,Susan Newman, Ph.D., grew impatient with the pervasiveness of only-child folklore masquerading as fact and offers the latest findings about the long-term effects of being raised as a singleton.
      In The Case for the Only Child,Newman walks parents (and future parents) through the long list of factors working for and against them as well as highlights the many positive aspects of raising and being a singleton. The aim of this book is to ease and guide parents through the process of determining what they want. Although each situation is unique, the profound confusion surrounding having a second child is similar. It is one of the most difficult and life-altering choices parents face. Adding to ones family dramatically changes ones life and the life of ones firstborn forever. What will a person give up in time, money, freedom, intimacy, and job advancement with another child in the household? What will they gain? The Case for the Only Childhelps explore and resolve these perplexing questions.
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    I love books that present good news most people dont know about. This is such a book. Susan Newman lets you know that far from being damaged, only-children can have it made! As a parent, you can have one and be done, and Dr. Newman shows you why. Goodbye guilt, welcome the fulsome joy of being parents to a one-and-only!

    Edward Hallowell, M.D., author of
    The Childhood Roots of Adult Happiness and other books

    Susan Newman has written a delightful, honest, and readable book that explores a complex issuewhether to have more than one child. She presents and explores every possible conflict and scenario with compassion for all sides of the issue and for all members of the family.

    Jane Mattes, LCSW, author of Single Mothers by Choice,
    www.singlemothersbychoice.org

    For anyone debating the issue of filling your nest, but how full? this book is a wise and empowering read. As the mother of an only child and the founder of MotherhoodLater.com, a community for midlife mothers, I know the self-doubt and judgment that some parents experience. Susan Newman offers a validating and refreshing pat on the back for those going the only-child route.

    Robin Gorman Newman, Founder/Parenting Blogger,
    www.MotherhoodLater.com

    THE CASE
    FOR THE
    ONLY CHILD

    Your Essential Guide

    Susan Newman, Ph.D.

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    Health Communications, Inc.
    Deerfield Beach, Florida
    www.hcibooks.com

    Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

    Newman, Susan.

    The case for the only child : your essential guide / Susan Newman.

    p. cm.

    Includes bibliographical references.

    ISBN-13: 978-0-7573-1551-0 (trade paper)

    ISBN-10: 0-7573-1551-8 (trade paper)

    ISBN-13: 978-0-7573-9189-7 (e-book)

    ISBN-10: 0-7573-9189-3(e-book)

    1. Family size. 2. Only child. 3. Family planning. I. Title.

    HQ760.N49 2011

    306.874dc22

    2011011960

    2011 Susan Newman

    All rights reserved. Printed in the United States of America. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without the written permission of the publisher.

    HCI, its logos, and marks are trademarks of Health Communications, Inc.

    Publisher: Health Communications, Inc.
    3201 S.W. 15th Street
    Deerfield Beach, FL 33442-8190

    Cover photo iStockphoto
    Interior design and formatting by Lawna Patterson Oldfield

    To all those who have had
    or may have to answer the question
    "When are you having
    another child?"

    Other Books by Susan Newman, Ph.D.

    Under One Roof Again: All Grown Up and (Re)learning toLive Together Happily

    The Book of NO: 250 Ways to Say Itand Mean It andStop People-Pleasing Forever

    Nobodys Baby Now: Reinventing Your Adult Relationship withYour Mother and Father

    Parenting an Only Child: The Joys and Challenges of Raising YourOne and Only

    Little Things Long Remembered: Making Your Children Feel Special Every Day

    Little Things Mean a Lot: Creating Happy Memories with Your Grandchildren

    Little Things Shared: Lasting Connections Between Family & Friends

    Getting Your Child into College: What Parents Must Know

    Lets Always... Promises to Make Love Last

    Dont Be S.A.D.: A Teenage Guide to Stress, Anxiety & Depression

    It Wont Happen to Me: True Stories of Teen Alcohol and Drug Abuse

    You Can Say No to a Drink or a Drug: What Every Kid Should Know

    Never Say Yes to a Stranger: What Your Child Must Know to Stay Safe

    Memorable Birthdays: Now a Guide, Later a Gift

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    A few months after I had my son, friends began asking me when I was going to have a second child; I felt bombarded by their questions and had many questions of my own. As an older mother, I considered the possible health risks of another pregnancy. Should we adopt instead? If we made the choice to raise an only child, how would that decision affect our son? What would it be like for him to grow up without siblings? Were we being selfish? I suspect you are asking yourself some of the same questions.

    I had my son in my second marriage, and I mulled over those questions many times. Self-doubt, indecision, and concerns about having decided to have an only child were a constant presence for many years. In a first marriage, I married a man with full custody of his four children. Having raised stepchildren in one household, I was in a unique position to compare the dynamics of siblings versus no siblings. I watched my sons behavior for stereotypical signs of the only child: was he lonely, spoiled, bratty, self-centered peculiar in some way? And I looked for ways to prevent the nasty stereotypes from applying to him. That was more than twenty years ago.

    During those years, I have conducted three research projects in which I interviewed only children and their parents to find answers to my questionsroughly one study every ten years. What is different now from the previous studies is that many more people have one child. Even before the 2010 Census figures were released, it was evident that the only-child population had continued to grow, not only in the United States, but also around the world.

    This time when I began looking for participants, the floodgates opened; my e-mail inbox was full of requests from people who wanted to talk about raising or being an only child. With almost no effort on my part, the network of parents of only children and only children themselves fed the research. I spoke with parents of only children from Florida to Seattle, in varied economic groups, and holding a huge range of jobs. One person led to another until I stopped the interview process at 100 as I did with the 1990 and 2000 interview sets. Because everyone seems to know someone who is or has an only child, no doubt this research could have continued for many more months.

    I have changed the names of people interviewed to protect their identities, but not their words or the feelings their statements convey. What the interview subjects tell you will unscramble many of the complex issues and emotions that play into the decision to have an only child. For the past three years, I have been writing a blog for Psychology Today magazine called Singletons where I explore the conflicts and choices surrounding the family and the only child. While I am on the subject of names, I use singletons and onliesas only children have come to be called. At times, when I defend the merits of only-child families or set the record straight about having children after age 35, for example, readers respond with an uproar that feels like a lashing in the town square. When I posted pieces such as 40 Is the New 20 for Having Babies or When Will the Duggars Stop? readers answered with strong opinions, and their comments reflected the sensitivity and controversy that surrounds the subject of family size.

    When I posted items in an effort to correct thinking and debunk stereotypes about only children, some people expressed their outrage, including only children themselves who had unhappy childhoods. I heard from children with siblings who voiced their views, as wellsome positive, some negative about their brothers and sisters. This book includes all the perspectives I encountered, including comments from experts I interviewed directly, and the latest findings and discoveries from leading psychologists and researchers.

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