Joel Peterson - The 10 Laws of Trust

2016, 2019 Joel C. Peterson with David A. Kaplan

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To Diana, my trusted partner of forty-six years

A man who trusts nobody is apt to be a man nobody trusts.

HAROLD MACMILLAN

To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.

GEORGE MACDONALD

CONTENTS

BY STEPHEN COVEY

I LL NEVER FORGET THE day I met Joel Peterson. It was in November 1985. I had recently been hired by Trammell Crow Company, which at the time was the largest real estate development company in the United States. Joel was serving as its chief financial officer and its de facto strategist.

As a young professional working in my first real job, meeting the man who was considered the number-two person in the firm was obviously a big deal to me. Yet, what I remember most to this day was the extraordinary reputation Joel had with seemingly everyone in the firm. At a relatively young age, he was already a legend, and everyone talked about not only his brilliance, but also his integrityand in equal parts. After meeting and spending time with him, I was similarly impressed by both his character and competence, commenting to my wife: Everybody trusts Joel. Hes who I want to be like in business.

It was a great thrill to me years later to have the chance to be personally mentored by Joel when he served as vice chairman of Covey Leadership Center, the firm founded by my father, the late Dr. Stephen R. Covey. I was serving as the companys CEO, and under Joels guidance I learned many things that significantly influenced my leadership, including the judgment that flows from a broad perspective he called all things considered, the preeminent importance of focusing on creating value for clients, and the power of simplicity. Through my association with Joel, I also experienced firsthand the impact of credibility and trust. Partly as a result of his influence, I focused intentionally on building a high-trust culture within our organization and with all of our stakeholders. That focus became a game changer for us. Our performance dramatically improvedand we had a lot more fun along the way!

Having since devoted my life and work around what I feel called to doto help leaders and organizations create and leverage trustI was humbled and honored when Joel invited me to write the foreword for this superb book The 10 Laws of Trust.

Before you begin to read this book, I would like to extend a personal invitation to you. I invite you to consider a particularly challenging business situation or relationship youre currently facing. Assume you have a good grasp of your current circumstances and how you arrived therebut the way forward isnt clear.

Now imagine you will have personal access to unparalleled insight and advice from a business leader, investor, and teacher who has worked firsthand with over 2,300 businesses, hundreds of partners, and thousands of leaders over a forty-year career, and who has also taught thousands of future leaders at Stanford. Further, imagine that this insight and advice will be given to you in a way that is both extremely engaging and highly practical.

Thats exactly whats available to you in The 10 Laws of Trust. In this remarkable book, you can gain profound insight, wisdom, skill, and courage to move forward in a situation or relationship youre currently facingas well as in any other challenging situation or, for that matter, any exciting opportunity in life.

Let me share why I can say this so confidently. For over twenty-five years I have been focused on helping people understand and implement the power of trust so that they can access the increased speed, lower cost, higher energy, and fundamental joys that come from trusting and being trusted. In the process, I have learned three fundamental truths about trust.

1 Trust is an economic driver. As I analyzed my research and experience to write my own book, The Speed of Trust, it became unarguably clear to me that trust is not merely a soft, nice to have social virtue; its also an economic driver, always affecting both the speed at which we can move and the cost of everything involved. Put simply, high trust is a dividend; low trust is a tax. In fact, in our increasingly low-trust world, trust has literally become the new currency of our global economy. Joels sharing of personal experiences and his astute observation and analysis of headline business-news events over the past several decades support this reality. The companies, leaders, and educators he cites in this book underscore the fact that lasting success is derived from following enduring principlesparticularly trust.

2 Trust is the one thing that changes everything. Trust is the number one leadership competency needed today, principally because of how it affects every other competency leaders need to have. All the things we need to do well as leadersinnovating, collaborating, partnering, teaming, attracting and retaining people, engaging people, executing, selling, leading changewe can do better if we start with trust. Trust is a multiplier for all these competencies, eventually creating a ripple effect that can positively impact not only our organizations but ultimately, all of society.

3 Trust is a learnable competency. Trust is not just the domain of a privileged few with charisma or certain personality characteristics. Trust is a competency, a set of attitudes and skills that can be acquired and sustained by anyone whos willing to pay the price. As Joels work illustrates, enduring organizations are created by leaders and people who excel in this competencywho understand and practice the fundamental beliefs of being credible and behaving in ways that inspire trust. Joel gives us a wonderfully comprehensive blueprint of how to do it with his 10 Laws.

Joels book is powerfully aligned with these three truths. In addition, as Ive already mentioned, he himself is an amazingly credible source. Hes built, led, invested in, and guided highly successful organizations. Hes built high-trust cultures. He has lived and modeled these 10 Laws he espouses. Each of the three elements in his definition of trustcharacter, competence and authorityI have personally seen him demonstrate with excellence. Ive witnessed his deep integrity, his competence as an organizational leader and investor, and the principled way he exercises and aligns authority.