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Sometimes its a struggle to forgive a friend, a family member, a coworker, or a neighbor. This book helps you to look at the meaning of forgiveness and the impact that choosing to forgiveor refusing to forgivehas on your life. It will help you identify the battles worth fighting and the ones that arent and how to tell the difference.

As she did in her popular one-year experiment with submission, Sara Horn reveals through personal experiences and stories what shes learned about forgiving with Gods help and healing. In the process, she explores the steps toward forgiveness, including how to

  • take care of the little problems we allow to become big issues
    • Move on from painful slights and deep wounds
    • Be real with ourselves and God first and then be real with others
    • Find closure when disappointment in others doesnt resolve itself
    • Let go of regret, anger, and bitterness that keep us from living in the freedom God intends

      Life isnt about holding on to destructive and painful experiences. Its about letting go. And its about letting God work in our trying situations so we can see Him more clearly on the other side.

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    HARVEST HOUSE PUBLISHERS EUGENE OREGON Unless otherwise indicated all - photo 1

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    HARVEST HOUSE PUBLISHERS

    EUGENE, OREGON

    Unless otherwise indicated, all Scripture quotations are from the Holman Christian Standard Bible, Copyright 1999, 2000, 2002, 2003, 2009 by Holman Bible Publishers. Used by permission. Holman Christian Standard Bible, Holman CSB, and HCSB are federally registered trademarks of Holman Bible Publishers.

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    The author is represented by the literary agency of Alive Communications, Inc., 7680 Goddard Street, Suite 200, Colorado Springs, CO 80920. www.alivecommunications.com.

    HOW CAN I POSSIBLY FORGIVE?

    Copyright 2014 by Sara Horn

    Published by Harvest House Publishers

    Eugene, Oregon 97402

    www.harvesthousepublishers.com

    Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

    Horn, Sara, 1977-

    How can I possibly forgive? / Sara Horn.

    pages cm

    ISBN 978-0-7369-6099-1 (pbk.)

    ISBN 978-0-7369-6100-4 (eBook)

    1. ForgivenessReligious aspectsChristianity. 2. Forgiveness of sin. I. Title.

    BV4647.F55H67 2014

    241'.4dc23

    2014010020

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    To those closest in my life, who love me despite my flaws and support me even when I make mistakes you have all played a part in helping me learn about forgiveness. This book is dedicated to you.

    I am always grateful for the opportunities Im given as a writer to share my words with others, but I certainly do not do it on my own.

    Thank you to the Harvest House team for letting me be a part of your family. To Barb and LaRae, who knew a blog post could turn into 60,000 words? Thanks for encouraging me to pursue this topic. To Rod, my faithful friend and editor, thank you for your encouragement and expert editing.

    Thank you to Andrea Heinecke, my agent, and the entire team at Alive Communications. Im grateful for the many years (and books) weve now shared together.

    To my amazing husband, Cliffyou have taught me so much about unconditional love. Thank you for loving me and for all the support youve given me. I love you, and Im so happy you are home!

    Contents

    I stood in my office staring at the phone in my hand. On the first ring Id picked it up, but the name on the caller ID made me take a beat and pause. It was enough information to know my next few minutes were either going to be goodor not so good. OK, if they werent good, they were probably about to be really, really unpleasant. Bad. Worse-than-going-to-your-dentist-for-multiple-root-canals uncomfortable.

    Certain things run through your head when youre braced to have a difficult conversation with someone. Ive found you can think about anything except what you really need to talk about, and there are a few popular choices we all tend to fall back on.

    The most obvious and the first one for many is do I really even need to have this conversation? After all, isnt there something more important I should do? Like clip my kids fingernails (hes thirteen)? Or organize the dust bunnies under the bookshelves? Hang out with friends who dont require difficult conversations?

    How to have a hard conversation or work through conflict with someone else isnt something they adequately prepare you for in school, except for maybe kindergarten, when you wanted the crayons to yourself and your teacher told you to share. I did go through an intercommunications class in college where the professor tried to teach us relational communication skills, but she seemed to spend the entire course with a rather large chip on her shoulder from somewhere that spilled over into her teaching and how she interacted with her students. I think I spent more time during that class thinking about the irony of that than how to successfully have a difficult conversation.

    In high school I took a voluntary peer mediation course, which was the schools way of using good kids to help talk some sense into bad kids by mediating their problems so they could avoid yet another detention or suspension. Wed sit in small rooms in the school library with the door closed, one tough-looking kid on one side of a table, another equally tough kid on the other side, and us good kids in the middle. Our job was to instruct them to use magic phrases like When you do this, I feel like this and ask questions like How did that make you feel? and secretly hope neither kid decided to just join forces and take out their feelings on us.

    But there is no set of guidelines or peer mediation manual to follow when youre dealing with conflict as an adult. Theres no one sitting on a chair next to you, asking provoking questions to get you to open up (well, unless you pay for it), and there is no law that forces someone to talk something out with you.

    Theres another thought you think about when youre going head-to-head with someone: How do I win this discussion? How do I get my way on this issue? You think through all the tactics you learned when you were on the debate teamor at least that time your teacher made you take part in a mock debate and asked you to defend why homework is good for you, which is a very mean thing to do to a fourth grader, if you think about it. (Your street cred will never be the same.) You think about the arguments that will support why youre rightand why the other persons wrong. You come up with statements that acknowledge something about where the other person is coming from, but twist it so its impossible for them to do anything but agree you were right. When youre ready to talk to someone to resolve a disagreement, or hard feelings, or any issue life is known to bring upits tempting to just want to win more than you want to shake hands and play nice (though maybe not as helpful longterm).

    But theres also another thought you might have.

    Will she say shes sorry? Will he admit he was wrong?

    Pain is involved here. True, genuine hurt. Words said or actions taken that wounded you deeply, and all you wantall youre looking foris a little relief from the pain and an apology as a good start. You might also debate the merits of apologizing yourself, since chances are good if they did something to you, you did something to them. What would be the harm in just moving forward together, with a fresh start?

    The Phone Call to Nowhere

    The phone rang again. I took a deep breath. My mind ran through all the issues with this person over the last several months. Wed never sat down and talked anything out, although Id tried a couple of times, but plenty was said to other people, some of it getting back to me. I only knew from the complaints and accusations Id heard through secondhand sources that she was frustrated with me, and from my perspective, didnt like me very much. I also had my own frustrations to sort outthings that were done that, to me, felt like slights and inconsiderate choices and, in some cases, just wrong. Hard feelings had built to distracting crescendos in my brain.

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