Copyright 2019 by Victoria Stilwell, Inc.
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Published in the United States by Ten Speed Press, an imprint of Random House, a division of Penguin Random House LLC, New York.
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Names: Stilwell, Victoria, author.
Title: The ultimate guide to raising a puppy : how to train and care for your new dog / Victoria Stilwell.
Description: First edition. | New York : Ten Speed Press, [2019] | Includes bibliographical references and index.
Identifiers: LCCN 2019019898| ISBN 9780399582455 (trade paperback) | ISBN 9780399582462 (ebook)
Subjects: LCSH: Puppies. | PuppiesTraining.
PREFACE
My beautiful, big brown dog lifts up her wise old head and looks at me with kind, loving eyes. These two intensely dark pools have seen sixteen years of life, a long time for a dog, and as I gaze into them I recall all the wonderful memories we have had together. Summer days exploring the North Georgia mountains, family birthday celebrations, and winter nights spent in front of the fire. Those eyes have seen our family grow through the years, witnessing the good times and commiserating with the hard ones. Sadie has been with us every step of the way. She is the rock we can always depend on to lighten our load, to greet us warmly when we come home from work, and to give us love.
Sadie came into our lives when she was five years old, a gentle girl who seemed wise beyond her years. She is a calm dog in the house and a wild huntress outside. She sees the world through her magnificent nose and is driven by secret odors that lead her on intense investigations I wish I could understand. Sadie knows the neighborhood news before I do. She knows what dogs have passed by, what animals have been in the area, and who has been jogging that morning. If I could speak her language, I know we would gossip for hours.
I didnt know Sadie when she was a puppy, but I can only imagine how beautiful she was. Sadie lived with an elderly lady who had recently lost her husband. The family hoped to ease their mothers loneliness by getting her a companion, and even though an energetic, excitable Labrador puppy was not necessarily the best idea for an elderly person, what Sadie lacked in exercise and social experiences with other dogs, she got back a hundred-fold in love. Scarlet raised Sadie for five years until Scarlet sadly passed away. A week later a trainer friend of mine, Joyce Hagan, brought the gorgeous chocolate Labrador to our house to see if we wanted to adopt her. Sadie never left.
I have no doubt that Scarlets love and kindness in those important puppy and adolescent years makes Sadie so good with people, just as I am certain that Sadies lack of canine social experiences makes her uncomfortable around other dogs. I see a lot of her past by watching her behavior in the present, but I wish I could have been there at the beginning when my beautiful girl came into the world. I can only imagine what she was like as a puppy. Cheeky, inquisitive, energetic, loving, impulsiveshe must have brought such joy to everyone. I wish I had known her then and stolen five more years with the best dog in the world.
Sadie is one of the reasons Im writing this book. I want to explore what she must have been like as a puppy and in doing so take you on a journey into your puppys world. So Im going back in time, to where Sadie started out on her amazing journey, sixteen years ago.
INTRODUCTION
Puppies! We all love them, but along with those cute faces and wiggly tails comes a whole host of challenges that make raising a puppy as overwhelming as it is joyful. With so much available but conflicting information out there, it can be very hard for pet parents to know what advice to follow. Where should I get my puppy from? How will I get him to sleep through the night? How long does it take to toilet train my puppy? What is the difference between puppy nipping and biting? How can I successfully introduce a new pup to my kids?
I answer these questions and many more throughout this book, but I also focus on something that is just as important. I call it the how and the why. Understanding how your puppy experiences the world and why she behaves in a certain way will help you raise her correctly. So while this book is a practical support system and a go-to source of information when you are up in the middle of the night wondering how to get your whining puppy to go to sleep or when you are on your knees cleaning up the latest accident, it also helps you understand just how incredible your puppy is. Yes, raising a puppy is challenging, but these challenges are worth it when you hold that bundle of energy in your arms and feel such love that your heart might explode. The Ultimate Guide to Raising a Puppy is with you every step of the way.
My Story
I have a passion for dogs and have always been fascinated by their behavior. As a member of an enormous international dog-loving club, I live with and celebrate these incredible animals every day. I am constantly amazed by the fact that dogs are the most successful domestic species on the planet and have successfully evolved with humans over thousands of years. This is an incredible achievement on both sides. Humans have adapted to having dogs in their lives, and we have honed the skills of these effective predators in many different ways. But while we congratulate ourselves for making such a beneficial alliance, we also need to respect the journey made by the dog, which is nothing short of remarkable. Dogs have gone from hunting and fending for themselves to sharing our beds and eating our food. They dont speak our language or understand most of our rules, but they still manage to adapt to our complicated lives. Humans are not easy to live with, but dogs, for the most part, successfully negotiate the challenges we give them.