Ruth Graham - Im Pregnant. . .Now What?

Praise for
Im Pregnant...
Now What?

This book is exceptional! It is a real godsend for churches and the clergy, and I will be sharing it with my fellow clergy.

BISHOP DAVID ABE

Jerusalem Catholic Church

Richmond Virginia

An incredibly insightful collection of stories and shared bits of wisdom to help any young woman who finds herself unexpectedly pregnant. A book that looks at unplanned pregnancies honestly and helps you find your way through the maze of confusion.

DELILAH

Adoptive mother and hostess of syndicated radio show, Delilah

With insight, encouragement and practical guidelines, Ruth Graham and Dr. Sara Dormon go step-by-step through the many layers of decisions that have to be made in the event of an unplanned pregnancy. This is a resource much needed in our culture.

RYAN DOBSON

Speaker/Author

In this book, you will find encouragement, practical help and, most of all, hope. Sara Dormon and my daughter, Ruth, speak honestly out of their own experiences.

RUTH BELL GRAHAM (19202007)

Author and wife of evangelist Billy Graham

God says in His Word that no one is a mistake. Im Pregnant, Now What? explores all sides of a profoundly difficult subject with compassionate insight, honest disclosure, solid biblical advice and realistic life-affirming options. In my opinion, experience overrides theory, and I applaud Ruth, Windsor and Sara for their willingness to candidly help others by way of their personal journeys. Bravo!

JENNIFER ONEILL

Model and Actress

2002 Ruth Graham and Sara R. Dormon

Published by Revell
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P.O. Box 6287, Grand Rapids, MI 49516-6287
www.revellbooks.com

Revell edition published 2014

ISBN 978-1-4412-2517-7

Previously published by Regal Books 2004.

Originally published by ForPregnancyHelp.com in 2002.

Ebook edition originally created 2013

All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any meansfor example, electronic, photocopy, recordingwithout the prior written permission of the publisher. The only exception is brief quotations in printed reviews.

Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data is on file at the Library of Congress, Washington, DC.

All Scripture quotations, unless otherwise indicated, are taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version . Copyright 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan Publishing House. All rights reserved.

Other version used is: KJVKing James Version. Authorized King James Version.

To protect the privacy of some of the individuals whose stories are shared in this book, names have been changed. With permission, real names and events are portrayed in most of the stories.

Cover design by David Griffing
Edited by Kathy Deering

Dedication

To life and all those who choose it.

Someone once said, When you see a turtle on a fence post, you know he didnt get there by himself. The same can be said of this book. We have many people to thank for their contributions to the book and their support of us.

The list of people who encouraged, guided, taught, loved and supported us begins with our families. They put up with missed meals, absent mothers and grouchy wives, all the while expressing their pride at what we were doing. Bill, Peter, David, Windsor and Wyatt, you are all the best and we love you. To our circle of friends who have listened, laughed, cried with us and fed us as we wrote, we love you, thank you and honor you.

To Cherie, Joy and Mary, your courage, honesty and love for your children are testimony to us all. You are among the bravest and most courageous of women. Without you and those who share your journey, this book would not have been written.

Windsor, you inspire us, amaze us and make us proud to be part of your life. Thank you for your willingness to share your story so that others may benefit from it.

To Jennifer ONeill and Hunter Tylo, two women of amazing grace and conviction, your honesty and vulnerability light the path for many who have been wounded by abortion. Keep speaking out.

Kevin and Heather, parents of Brynne, Grace and Dylan. What can we say except that your contribution brings tears to our eyes and helps us to see adoption for what it really isa miracle orchestrated by God. Thank you for your open hearts and home and for so easily sharing your story with so many.

Brown and Giselle, parents of Joy, friends to many and counselors to more. What a journey and what an honor to have shared it with you. You are examples to all as to how parents of teens with unplanned pregnancies should behave. You modeled Christ to us all, and we will never forget you for it.

Frank Lunn, adopted child, author of Stacking the Logs, and a man with an amazing story, thank you for sharing your wisdom and feelings on being adopted and your words of encouragement to birthmothers and adoptive parents.

Tim Troyer, your chapter on how the Church should respond to the pregnant girl and her family is incredible. You have said what needs to be said and have set the bar exactly where it should be set for pastors and churches that encounter this situation. Thank you for your spirit and obedience to our Lord.

Kathy Deering, editor, encourager, supporter and friend, who gently but consistently walked with us down the road to completion, this book would not be what it is without your having been a part of it. Thank you are not big enough words for what you have meant to us and this process.

To Bill Harrison, your passion for our mission has been a constant in this entire journey and we thank you for the time, energy, vision and commitment you have had for us and to us.

And finally, the members of our new family at Regal Books. Kim Bangs, a woman of conviction, commitment and compassion. Thank you for your willingness to take on this project and support us in our dream by putting feet on it. Bill Greig III, president of Regal and a man on whom we can call and lean and from whom we will continue to learn. Your love of the Lord and commitment to authors radiates in your words and actions. Bill Denzel, vice president of marketing, your support for us and this book has made the process a pleasure. And to Marlene Baer, your ideas and heart for the young women we are trying to reach inspires us. Mia Kaely, Deena Davis, David Griffing and the rest of the team, thank you for your special gifts and talents you have brought to this project. To all of you, a heartfelt thank-you for helping us bring this baby to term.

As the two of us have helped each other overcome many challenges, including the writing of this book, our friendship, love and respect for each other have deepened greatly.

This book comes out of experience. We have been where you are. Many people have helped us write this book, and they all understand what you are going through.

If you are reading this page, you are full of questions for which you have few, if any, answers. People may be giving you answers, but they dont really know your questions and dont seem to be listening to you. You are under too much stress and pressure. You may be alone in your dilemma with no support from people who made you promises. You feel rejected and betrayed. You are hurt and angry. We understand those feelings.

It is our desire to address your needs factually and to encourage you. We will examine from all sides the issues involved and give you the best information available so that you can make a decision with which you can live. We believe that an informed decision is the best decision and that you have the right to make your own decisions. The decisions you make will have long-term ramifications that affect not only you and your baby but others as well. We want to let you hear from other young women who were faced with an unplanned pregnancy. What were their choices and how did their decisions affect them? These are real people in real-life situations. Their stories are told objectively so that you can draw your own conclusions.